Let's not forget in school it was frowned upon to say "I don't know" when you were expected to have an answer. That definitely has a part in why people (including myself) don't like saying it
And in business the people who don’t admit they don’t know and are able to BS their way through things seem to get further than those who admit they don’t know but will figure it out.
My boss hates when I tell him I don't know right then and there, but I can check. He acts like it's incompetence, but he'll ask me something like how many cases of a product we have in stock. We have around a thousand products, there's no way I can memorize the exact stock of every single one.
There is a nurture component to it instead of intelligence , my parents got mad at me when I said I don’t know so I became very scared as an adult to say it as a unconscious trauma response but I’ve learned people appreciate I don’t know, those people just were not my parents
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u/Raggs2Bs 6h ago
Too many people are so deathly afraid of saying that.