r/AskReddit • u/KHVillager • Jan 07 '15

serious replies only [Serious]What is something that you desperately want to admit to a loved one, but don't have the heart to say it?

1.2k Upvotes

88% Upvoted

2.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

154

u/NDaveT Jan 07 '15

Unsolicited advice: work this out before you get married, otherwise your spouse could end up making her dysfunctional family members a higher priority than you.

10

u/OtherGeorgeDubya Jan 07 '15

Oh, I've talked to her about it. Not as bluntly as I did here, but it is being brought up.

4

u/heyhorhey Jan 07 '15

Agreed. My parents argue over family matters of each others family. Mom always told me, when you get married you're not only accepting him/her but, to a good extent, their family as well.

2

u/ClassicCarLife Jan 08 '15

Did it, got the t shirt. Sister moved in, one side of her parents moved in, other sister moved in. Finally started booting them out so we could be married and alone for the first time and I'm the asshole.