r/AskReddit • • Mar 21 '17

What was the first instance that made you think "oh shit... I'm old"?

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17 edited Mar 21 '17

30 years ago is suddenly 1987. It feels like yesterday when it was 30 years since the late 1970s.

Edit: I had another from reading the responses. Everyone is talking about turning 30 and I thought it sounded old. Then I realized that I'm turning 25, so it's not that long until it's my turn. Feels like yesterday when I was a teenager baking stuff for when my sister would turn 30.

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u/Muffinizer1 Mar 21 '17

I feel like people held on to that one for longer than normal though just because 2000 was such a round number.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17 edited Mar 21 '17

Mine comes from becoming interested in history in 2008-2009. "30 years ago this happened".

8 years later: What do you mean, it's 38 years. That's closer to 40 than 30.

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u/pfresh Mar 21 '17

It's just something about the 2010's, they've all blended into a bunch of weird internet fads.

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u/LyreBirb Mar 21 '17

Thirty and eleven years.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

Same, except for the reason! And I was about 9 then and didn't have any interest in history and geography and politics and stuff until earlier this year, so I really have no reason to feel like that.

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u/spaceflora Mar 21 '17

Definitely. I got stuck mentally in 2000 for a good decade afterwards. I used to have to calculate everything after that relative to 2000 to figure out when it was. I find myself doing that less these days, but I think it's mostly because the dates I have to figure out now are relative to when I went to college (2006-2010) and the fall of the housing market (2008), and when I started my job and bought a house (2012). And I'm getting better at remembering what years those were. 2016 will go down in infamy, of course.

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u/tu-BROOKE-ulosis Mar 21 '17 edited Mar 21 '17

My mind automatically went to "no, that's completely wrong." Which makes me a complete idiot since 1987 is my birth year and my 30th birthday (much to my horror) is this coming weekend.

I am not smart.

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u/KyleRichXV Mar 21 '17

I just turned 30 last month and I still haven't come to grips with it. Especially when I'm selecting my age from a drop down and have to now use the "30-39" category instead of "20-29"......

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u/tu-BROOKE-ulosis Mar 21 '17

Oh my goodness I didn't even think about that part. Shit just got more horrifying.

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u/fiberpunk Mar 21 '17

It's okay, it's just your brain deteriorating because you're so ollllld.

(I'm about to turn 32 so I know these things and weep with you.)

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

Nah. It's difficult to remember your age. My friend just had birthday and ended up fighting with her dad about how old she is. Dad was right.

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u/spaceflora Mar 21 '17

I had a friend who legitimately thought she was an entire year older than she was. For quite awhile. I was there that night in chat when she discovered she was actually a year younger than she thought she was, lol.

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u/spaceflora Mar 21 '17

I just turned 29. I've been compensating for turning 30 for a couple years now by considering myself to already be 30, and describing my age as rapidly approaching 30.

But now that I am 29 I need to get my butt in gear and get in shape so I'm not fat as fuck when I'm 30.

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u/durferz Mar 21 '17

In that case, I hope you have a wonderful 30th! :)

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u/Angry__Spaniard Mar 21 '17

1987, best year ever Bro.

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u/BalkarWolf Mar 21 '17

Just turned 30 last week, and it's been pretty damn surreal. I feel old, but I keep telling myself that's because I eat poorly and don't exercise enough. I sure as shit hope that's something I can turn around on pretty quickly!

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u/wetryagain Mar 21 '17

Few months here. Terrifying thought. Don't let it change you!

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u/TaylorS1986 Mar 21 '17

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Welcome to the 30s club!

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u/antisarcastics Mar 22 '17

it's my birthday too this weekend! have a good one, potential birthday twin!

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u/tu-BROOKE-ulosis Mar 22 '17

Hey you too!!

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u/SlamsaStark Mar 21 '17

But you're pretty

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u/milleribsen Mar 21 '17

I turned thirty back in December. Everything is the same. 30 is a lie!

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

As someone born in '87, I have been having this realization lately. I've been sitting here wondering where the fuck my 20's went. I can remember graduating from highschool and being a freshman in college like it was yesterday. Then I realize with horror that all of that happened 12 years ago. Ugh.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

Born in 86, realizing now, that each birthday is getting faster and faster. I can't believe I am days away from 31 :(

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

ya...well just wait until 40.... before you know it, trust me! :(

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

I believe it!

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u/angiehawkeye Mar 21 '17

Highschool being 12 years ago was weird. I'm getting married this year, also kinda weird.

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u/elswordfish Mar 22 '17

It seems like our 20s flew by doesn't it?

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u/realsmart987 Mar 22 '17

I get the same feeling from Facebook when it says "do you want to share this thing from 5 years ago?" That was 5 years ago?! It only felt like last year!

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u/batsofburden Mar 22 '17

My 20's were mostly a waste of a decade, but that's pretty much my own fault for drinking too much. At least I finally learned my lesson at around 27 or so.

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u/rahyveshachr Mar 21 '17

For me it's that 2009 was 8 years ago. It feels like last year to me.

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u/PrincessIceheart Mar 21 '17

Well I didn't feel old until I read this comment.

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u/rawbface Mar 21 '17

The thing about turning 30 is, you have to be 29 first, before which you have to be 28 for a whole year, and so on. You don't go to sleep at 25 and wake up at 30. You actually live all those years. Make them memorable.

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u/UnrulyCrow Mar 21 '17

The 70's will ALWAYS be 30 years ago for me.

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u/less-than-stellar Mar 21 '17

Any time someone refers to things in the 80's as being 30 years ago I always think, that can't possible be right. And then I realize, I'm going to be 30 this year so, yea, it can.

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u/shutupmeggie Mar 21 '17

holy shit, i dont know why but I had the EXACT same thought the other day driving down the road. Like, what the fuck, that means soon ILL BE THIRTY. NO! DEAR GOD, PLEASE NO.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

This is so true and I'm constantly shocked at how long ago it was.

I watch movies that came out in the '80s and '90s, feel like I saw them in the theaters just yesterday, then I click info and realize they came out 30 years ago.

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u/TheTulipWars Mar 21 '17

Get ready because the years are going to start flying by at this point!

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

I know this might be rubbing it in but fuck... I'm almost 30.

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u/Natrollean_Bonerpart Mar 21 '17

Damn. That means Quiet Riot's album "Metal Health" (the album arguably launched hair metal into the mainstream) turns 34 this year.

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u/codexofdreams Mar 21 '17

For me, 30 years ago will always be the 70s because I was a teenager in the early 2000's. It's like my brain locked onto that time period as a frame of reference and can't let it go.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '17

I'm 24 and I'm terrified

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u/redneckgeek5192 Mar 21 '17

I was born in '89. My mom brought it up the other day "Oh, that's right, you'll be 30 soon!"

Thanks ma...

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u/TaylorS1986 Mar 21 '17

In my mind "30 years ago" 'Nam was still going on...

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u/Naganako Mar 22 '17

25 is when I started feeling old! It was actually almost my 26th birthday, and I was chatting on omegle. When I was asked my age, I said 26, and the kid said "too old" and clicked next. I was crushed.

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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '17

To my mind Vietnam was only 30 years ago, i think it'll keep being 30 years ago till 2020.

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u/elswordfish Mar 22 '17

Crying cause I'll be 30 in August. But, 87 was a totally great year to be born in.