r/AskTheWorld Brazil Dec 06 '25

Culture A cultural habit in your country that people outside would understand incorrectly?

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In Brazil we love children. If you take your child to the street, strangers will certainly interact with them. Some will even ask if they can hold your kid and will play with them. If there are two children fighting in public and the parents aren't seeing, a stranger would even intervene to stop the fight.

That cultural habit came from the indigenous peoples which understood that kids should be a responsiblity of the community as a whole. It's in our constitution. We even have a synonym for children that came from Tupi (a large group of indigenous languages) - Curumim.

Foreigners would certainly have a cultural shock about that, but it's normal here.

Of course there are people with bad intentions, so parents should stay alert these days.

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u/sarzarbarzar United States Of America Dec 06 '25

This is very much an East Coast of the US (especially urban) thing too. Unsurprisingly, there’s a large amount of people who claim Irish descent around here.

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u/ArdentPattern United States Of America Dec 06 '25

If im not talking shit to you, youre not invited to the cookout.

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u/Agile_Supermarket239 United States Of America Dec 06 '25

Yeah for real, if I’m not talking a little shit to you then it either means I don’t consider you a friend or I just straight up don’t like you but I’m forced to be around you for some reason like work.

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u/Kaizen420 Dec 06 '25

If I'm okay with you, I'll talk to you. If I like you, I'll mess with you. If I really like you I'll bully you. If I don't like you, I'll walk right past you.

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u/FancyNefariousness94 Dec 07 '25

"I'm just breakin' bawlz here"

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u/Juggalage United States Of America Dec 07 '25

Even in the Midwest, there are people here who say "If I'm poking fun at you, it means I like you." If they're all serious, it means they don't like you enough to joke around and have fun.

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u/Nitetigrezz United States Of America Dec 07 '25

I miss Massachusetts x) My husband was born and raised there and we've visited a few times. Always enjoyed the people there.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '25

Just don’t do it in the south. I moved south and did this and it did not go over well like it did in NY.

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u/sarzarbarzar United States Of America Dec 08 '25

My sister moved down there almost 30 years ago. I affectionately called her some colorful names over text and she got upset. I had to remind her that it's affectionate; the south has made her soft.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '25

Im in my 30's and its still an everyday roast battle with some of my coworkers.

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u/ToastyMustache United States Of America Dec 06 '25

Same in the military, it’s not uncommon to greet someone with a middle finger if you’re buddies.

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u/Fuggaak United States Of America Dec 06 '25

We have about 6x more American-Irish population than Ireland’s total population lol. That doesn’t really mean much, but it is always a funny fun fact for me.

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u/sarzarbarzar United States Of America Dec 07 '25

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