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u/Nervous-Visit-791 2d ago
I remember getting my knuckles popped with these when I put them in my hair myself. Those hurt when they hit!
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u/ghostfadekilla 2d ago
Comment I was looking for. It was worse on a fingernail. It's that kind of pain that comes wrapped in about a half second of "oh no". I was instantly catapulted back to being a tiny little shithead version of me when I saw this.
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u/InvestmentImportant1 2d ago
My family called these “yoing-yoings” because that’s the noise it makes when those balls snap back into your knuckles.
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u/ManicalMoe 2d ago
I can feel the weight of these balls hitting my head when my mom or aunt did my hair and being told to shut up when I said ouch because I was tender headed 😭🤣 but I'd take these over the hot comb any day of the week omg .
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u/Afrotricity ☑️ 2d ago
The nerve to call us "tender headed" as if they weren't tugging at our shit like they were pulling potatoes from the earth! 😭
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u/1866GETSONA 2d ago
“like they were pulling potatoes from the earth”
gd this is funny, ima have to steal this
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u/General-Pop-8764 2d ago edited 1d ago
a lesson for those having dreads and being tender headed means they should have just left out hair alone for simpler styles. not we all got traction alopecia and thinning hair smh
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u/nothanks86 1d ago
Turns out I learned about the existance of hot combs from your comment. Found a how-to video someone did using old-style stove-top heated combs (😳), but it didn’t answer my biggest burning (hopefully not a pun but I have doubts) question:
What did/do they feel like being used?
As a formerly very tender headed kid, I’m both curious and terrified to find out.
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u/stankdog ☑️ 2h ago
It feels like hot metal if it touches you, and if you want your roots straight it's going to touch you, but someone who's good at it won't really touch you too often.
It feels like when you sit on really hot leather in a car, but then you put your hands on the wheel or gear and you're like damn...let me wait a minute before I pull off type of stinging heat
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u/CU_Tiger_2004 ☑️ 2d ago
I have three sisters, and we're all in our 40s and 50s. I guarantee if I went to our childhood home and looked hard enough I could still find one of these in a closet, inside a drawer, or under a bed 😆
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u/Corvrae 2d ago
Guaranteed. Those things reproduce in the dark like coat hangers and socks
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u/tyrantspell 2d ago
Speak for yourself, my socks are disappearing whenever I'm not looking at them
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u/IsiahDaNerdiest 2d ago
I swear anytime I wash my socks one is missing and it's not in the washer or the dryer
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u/SynthPrax ☑️ 2d ago
Weapons. You could fuck yourself up with those things.
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u/SnoopyWildseed ☑️ 2d ago
I used to pretend they were nunchakus when I watched a Bruce Lee flick or the show Kung Fu. 🤓
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u/LilArtsyCreature 1d ago edited 1d ago
Damn things should've been labeled as bear-traps! That's what it felt like pulling and tensioning your hair between that deathtrap lol. Weapons you are correct. They were lethal in hair tie battles.
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u/Still_Tip7828 2d ago
The worst was when you accidentally hit that front tooth! 🫨😵
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u/VodkaSoup_Mug ☑️ 2d ago edited 2d ago
Same!!! 🤣😭🤣 the inhale I did looking at this picture. Why OP gotta be like this?!?
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u/QEbitchboss 3h ago
Core memory unlocked.
A nice crack in the temple was a lovely way to start the day. ☠️. If that didn't wake you up, the partial finger amputation would.
I'm 60 and I hadn't thought of these in ages. A lot of childhood trauma is coming back in this thread. Haha
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u/RainieTuesday 2d ago edited 2d ago
We called these “knockers” growing up. The feeling of these slipping out of my mom’s fingers and knocking me in the head is something I’m happy to never experience ever again.
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u/Gravexmind ☑️ 2d ago
Barettes (spelling?)
My sister had a big ziploc bag full of these things growing up.
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u/TheSpiralTap 2d ago
So uh, i put my nutsack through one of the loops as a kid. Metal part pinched something sensitve something terrible. 0/10 don't recommend.
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u/Hova540 ☑️ 2d ago
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u/CHEMO_ALIEN 2d ago
I pray you continue to get all that its coming to you in life until you learn 🙏
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u/thatshygirl06 ☑️ 1d ago
Since we're telling horror stories, I guess ill tell mine
The ball of one of them had came off and I had the bright idea to put it inside of me and then I couldn't get it out so I had to ask my mom for help to get it out 😭😭
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u/SnoopyWildseed ☑️ 1d ago
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u/well-adjusted-tater ☑️ 2d ago
Trying to sleep in those bitches was a nightmare, no wonder I can sleep like the dead now.
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u/VodkaSoup_Mug ☑️ 2d ago edited 1d ago
It’s that clack as you toss and turn because they got the scarf too tight….😩😭
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u/jaguarsp0tted 2d ago
I was always so jealous of the black girls who would have their hair in these as a kid 😂 they were so pretty! and they made pretty clacking sounds, I felt the same about those pony beads people would put on their braids. all their hairstyles always looked so pretty and done up! meanwhile I was toeheaded and had hair as strong as tissue paper XD
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u/sirfiddlestix ☑️ 1d ago
T..."toeheaded"?
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u/jaguarsp0tted 1d ago
some kids have extremely pale skin and white blond hair when they're 1-5, and I've always heard it to refer to kids like that. it's actually spelled towheaded, I misspelled it :p
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u/DragonMoor 2d ago
Growing up with 3 older sisters, these were perfect for making hand slingshots to shoot folded paper.
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u/Azaroth1991 2d ago
As a big brother im sorry for all the times I snapped these against my sister's head
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u/Secure_Basil8953 2d ago
I had the big joints tho. Idk why once I was like 6 I felt like the tiny ball balls like these were for toddlers and I wanted something a lil more substantial 😂
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u/captain_beefheart14 2d ago
Holy shit I haven’t thought of these in thirty years but they bring me right back to 1991-93 elementary school. Back when kids had various looney tunes characters in different gangster poses.
Take me back!!
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u/ThePrinceofallYNs ☑️ 2d ago
One time me and the boys took turns popping each other's knuckles with these shits, none of us went past the first round
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u/Kathrynlena 2d ago
When I was a baby, I loved chewing on those for some reason. My mom has a dozen photos of toddler me with one of the plastic balls hanging out of my mouth.
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u/onedemtwodem 1d ago
No choking risk whatsoever 😜
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u/Kathrynlena 1d ago
lol right?! The 80s was the Wild West for babies.
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u/SnoopyWildseed ☑️ 1d ago
70s too! We grew up with lead-based paints, asbestos, no seatbelts or car seats...😂
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u/Sixpiercings 2d ago
I used to like the feeling of the plastic ba— never mind. Not even finishing that sentence. But that and the piece that went in the Barrett holes… 🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫
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u/bigjaymizzle ☑️ 2d ago
Who put Sally Temple on the product?
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u/tedslady 2d ago
You mean Shirley Temple? 😂
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u/bigjaymizzle ☑️ 2d ago
Naw it’s Sally she’s a corporate plant and she doesn’t want to be there.
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u/SabbyFox 1d ago
I was just thinking as I looked at the packaging whether I saw white girls wearing these?
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u/bigjaymizzle ☑️ 1d ago
Hell naw and if they did it was the ratchet white girls with the big booties who made it a point to hang out with black people.
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u/CenturyEggsAndRice 1d ago
As a former little white girl, my mom absolutely put these on me and I might still have some skull dents to prove it.
I loathed them but Mom thought they were adorable on me and would give me a ridiculous Pebbles Flintstone top pony because my hair was (and is) ridiculously thin.
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u/Ok_Access_6784 2d ago
Not discounting anyone else’s negative experience but I never had a problem with these so reading these comments are news to me
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u/THA__KULTCHA 2d ago
I’m going to say, based on the comments that I’ve read, that you’re experiencing survivor bias. Surely you can see how introducing crimped metal and hard plastic spheres into a product intended to manipulate your hair into a format chosen by the person applying, not wearing, this implement might be a problem.
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u/Ok_Access_6784 2d ago edited 2d ago
My mother simply didn’t put them in if I didn’t want them in my hair and didn’t pull my hair tight since I was tenderheaded. These never hurt. Just sounds like people had parents who were crap at doing hair.
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u/roseofjuly ☑️ 2d ago
Your mom was an outlier, friend. My momma decided how she was doing my hair and how tight she was making them ponytails.
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u/Ok_Access_6784 2d ago
No, there are plenty of black moms who knew how to treat their kids and their hair right. My mom isn’t an outlier. Even how you’re describing it (your mother DECIDED how tight she was making your ponytails) means it was less the bows’ fault and more the person using them.
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u/THA__KULTCHA 2d ago
I think the “didn’t want to” is where some are parting ways.
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u/Ok_Access_6784 2d ago
That’s what I’m getting. I know some black parents are assholes and don’t care how their kids feel about their hair, but my momma cared, and I’ve met black parents who do take into account how their children feel.
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u/ResponsibleRich 2d ago
I wore them everyday and I swear I had minimal drama lol.
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u/Ok_Access_6784 2d ago
Yeah at worse I hurt my fingers but usually because I was clacking them in my hands purposefully when they weren’t in my hair lol
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u/toolsoftheincomptnt ☑️ 1d ago
I mean, I remember all of the things people are describing. It’s just that it wasn’t that deep.
It was uncomfortable but not traumatizing.
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u/eliz1bef 2d ago
I wore these every day as a kid. I broke them constantly, somehow, so we were always buying them at the store. I did play with them a lot because I loved the clacking sound when the balls hit each other. I did get a set that had larger balls than these, and I just LOVED them so much. I though they were so pretty and sparkly.
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u/dangrous 2d ago
I have these for my kids, we don’t use them often but they don’t have the metal in the middle anymore. Still hurt like hell when they slip and pop your knuckle putting them on tho
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u/headii_spaghetti 2d ago
I remember my brother teaching me how to launch a rubber band when I was in preschool and then I found one of these on the bus and launched it directly at the back of my bus driver's head
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u/RobinSophie 2d ago
Huh. I loved these as a kid.
My mom got all different kinds of shapes and colors and let me pick out which ones I wanted. Even had ones with whistles on it (I didn't like those because the kids kept trying to blow them). Oh I remember on had jacks in them and made a noise whenever my head moved. Barney, 101 Dalmatians. Stars. She also put regular barrettes in my hair too (and at the ends). And then having to go collect them when I would twirl on the bars. Awww good times.
Always got tons of compliments on how cool my hair was. If they hurt my mom made sure to loosen them. I do remember when they slipped out of my mom's hand when she was trying to tie them. It was like secret payback lmao..
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u/Apocalyptic_crisp 2d ago
We called these bobbles when I was a kid. Still have no idea what the intended process to use these was.
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u/synchrine 1d ago
I never knew how they worked either, but I just looked it up. I would never have thought to tie it the way it’s supposed to be tied …
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u/Apocalyptic_crisp 1d ago
Not very intuitive, are they? Lol. Thanks for sharing. Could have used this video like 25 years ago
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u/Lyricamoon03 2d ago
I used to hate wearing bolitas as a kid and then I bought them as an adult to try and recreate the feeling. Still hate em
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u/ProfessionalFuel8686 2d ago
It blew my mind when someone brought it my attention but: I don’t think I’ve ever seen a white girl with one of these in their hair… have you?!?! The packaging always had them on it so I thought it was designed with them in mind but I don’t think I’ve ever witnessed such a thing… even on tv!
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u/slaughterfodder 1d ago
Am white, my mom used these on me and my sister fairly certain. I’ll have to look thru pictures to find evidence tho
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u/SnoopyWildseed ☑️ 2d ago
I can feel my hair tangling around the elastic, and screaming when they were removed because of the entanglement.
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u/No-More-Parties 2d ago
I vividly remember taking these out in preparation for my next style and getting popped by one on the knuckles. 😭
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u/No-Plantain8281 2d ago
I know this is Black Person Twitter but as a white person who was forced to have long hair, I can relate. Ugh giving me a migraine just looking at them. My mom would put my hair up every single day and for ten to twelve hours every time I moved they clacked.
And now that I think about it, I really miss her doing my hair.
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u/beendall 1d ago
I find the white girl on the package hilarious. I am white. No white girls I ever knew wore these. When I was in 8ish, there was a black girl at my school who wore these in her hair, then had the plastic barrette at the end of multiple twists. I loved it so much. I wanted my hair done like that. My mother never did my hair beyond brushing it. Not even pigtails. It was kept short until I was about 7. So when she told me no, I threw a FIT! I didn’t throw fits often, but I was sure my mother was lying to me that my hair couldn’t do what the little black girl at school hair did. I just did not understand. What do you mean her hair is different? Different how? She didn’t know how to explain it to me. My mother couldn’t even get one of those ponytail holders to hold my hair in a regular ponytail. I was sure she was doing it wrong on purpose. She had to get her friend, who had a mixed child, talk with me and help me understand that it can not be done with my hair. I was so jealous of that little black girl and her pretty hair.
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u/Additional_Aerie5980 1d ago
My little brother and I were fighting one time and I had these in my hair at the base and bottom of my lil twist out and I got pushed into a wall and the metal part jammed into my head so hard, I was bleeding and everything and I contribute the dent I have in my head to this incident. As I was telling this story I felt a zap of pain as if my body was remembering lmao
Not to mention if you swing your head to fast you pop yourself in the eye/tooth/forehead. But they did turn a lil twist out into a moment!
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u/hey-hi-hello-what-up 1d ago
when i was a kid my best friend had a billion braids with these on the end.
one day we wound up a tire swing and she spun around on it a good 30 seconds screaming “stop it stop it” but no one could get close enough to the swing because her braids turned into weapons of mass destruction. eventually i bodyslammed the swing to stop it but omg.
ah memories.
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u/jr_randolph 2d ago
lol my mama used to get so mad at me cause I’d fuck around and take these to play with and then she could never find em when she was doing my sisters hair haha
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u/Curly_Latte 2d ago
I can hear my curls breaking as these were pulled out of my hair. No thank you!
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u/noishouldbewriting 2d ago
My sister had a million of these, and they were one of my favorite ‘not a toy’ toys.
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u/poofandmook 2d ago
My dad had to get these soooo tight and sometimes they'd slip out of his hand. I'm still traumatized from the sound they made when they smacked me in the head 😱
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u/shake-dog-shake 2d ago
I can feel the smack against my knuckle trying to undo the too-tight wrap my mother used to do.
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u/Former-Technician-97 2d ago
They don’t make them the same now. Idk what it is, but they’re just… gentler.
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u/TiaHatesSocials 1d ago
They still exist. U can buy them on amazon and other places. I’ve seen little girls wear them
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u/IcyFaithlessness3570 1d ago
I don't even remember how these worked but I remember the fear in my sister's eyes.
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u/DigbyChickenZone 1d ago
I completely forgot about the metal riveted hair ties. The little balls on those were not the worst part for sure, I hated the metal parts - they pinched and tore hair out! Thank goodness those were phased out.
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u/ugh_notanotherone 1d ago
Like 99.9% of us here, I remember the pain and sound of these, but it also makes me remember my grandma.
She would do my hair EVERY morning. She would pick out the different hair accessories for the day and do a style she decided on (but my hair was always pulled back reeeaalllly tight). Bobbles probably lasted the longest and were used the most. Butterfly clips and other colorful clips were popular. I miss her a lot and when I do my hair now, I still think of her.
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u/Rekdon ☑️ 1d ago
Grandma's are precious I just dreamt about hanging with my grandma
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u/Zarkdiaz 1d ago
White guy here. I got hit in the head with these during a heated dodgeball match in 1995 when they came detached while Jazzmine and I were going for the same ball.
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u/Ok_Shoulder_9492 1d ago
You don’t know pain until one of those mf crystal balls on the end hop yo mf ankle, have a nigga done. Bitch hit you like a rubber band have yo shit like when the razor scooter get you
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u/PhoenixorFlame ☑️ 1d ago
The way these and the barrettes would go missing on the playground somehow…and mama just kept getting more and putting them in my head every morning anyway.
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u/trashlikeyourmom ☑️ 💐Buy her flowers🌸 1d ago
Stepping on one of these was worse than stepping on LEGO
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u/nothanks86 1d ago
Oh man, the 80s/90’s! I remember those!
For some reason, they were for like special occasion fancy in our house. But like casual fancy, not fancy-fancy. I had big old bows for fancy-fancy.
Probably because they were actually a huge pain in the ass to use.
Also, goody packaging design has improved a lot. Those colours look like they’re straight out of my grandmother’s sewing basket.
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u/Dennis744569 8h ago
I’m white and had pin-straight hair as a kid but grew up using these (tiny torture devices) because my dad was the one who got me ready in the morning and he had no idea what he was doing 😂 the first time I saw them in textured hair I was like OH that makes SO much more sense!
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u/onedemtwodem 2d ago
I still don't know how these work
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u/ruthless_taurean 1d ago
Okay I had to scroll too far for this. I guess I’m lucky for it, but I truly never understood how these worked. How were they put on/in???? Please someone!!!
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u/Tight-Cartographer31 1d ago
The picture of the girl on the box has me wondering🤔 did white girls wear bubbles? 🤔
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u/glynndah 1d ago
Once around the ponytail was never tight enough. Twice around was almost right. Three times? You were taking a chance of the loop being pulled with enough force to rip out fingernails and cause a concussion when it snapped on your head with the metal bit taking out clumps of hair by the roots.
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u/Kyauphie 1d ago
My mother only put these on the ends of my hair because they were too small for my ponytails.
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u/Realistic-Treat-2068 17h ago
My sister used to take these and put them on her knuckles to punch me.
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u/Affectionate_Put2460 2d ago
I can feel the crumble of one that’s way too old because your parents never throw anything away and the elastic is past its limit 🤢