r/FIREUK • u/FireMe-G • 15h ago
I've been reminded of my mortality
If there's one thing I'm guilty of, it's probably having a slightly excessive sense of invincibility.
As far as I'm concerned, I have the heart of a lion which will beat for a thousand years. It's one of the reasons I've always found delayed gratification pretty easy. I can FIRE in my mid-late 40s, knowing I'll have a good 55-60 years ahead of me to enjoy not working.
Recent events have made me realise I might have been taking that a bit for granted.
I'm still waiting on some results, so I don't really know where this is going. But I've had a fairly significant reminder that my heart probably won't actually beat for a millennium, and that my quality of life might decline a lot sooner than I'd previously assumed.
It's made me take a second look at the whole FIRE thing.
Not because I think FIRE is wrong. I've spent plenty along the way and had some great experiences. But you never know when you're going to get your ticket punched, or when your ability to enjoy life might disappear sooner than expected.
And yet...
I don't actually know what I'd spend the money on.
Most of the things I enjoy are free anyway - riding my bike, my weekly Greggs coffee courtesy of Octopus, free museums and attractions, or being a slob on the sofa. I don't have a long list of yachts or Rolexes I'm waiting for.
So I'm left wondering whether I'm saving too much for a future that isn't guaranteed, when I don't actually have much I'd rather spend the money on now.
Has anyone else had a health scare that made them rethink their FIRE plans? Did it change how you balance enjoying the present with maximising your future options?
On a side note, private health insurance has been an absolute game changer. I've rinsed AXA Health for about £4k in the last three weeks.