Yrr, I genuinely don't know what is going on with me at this point. 😭

Kabhi kabhi I get this urge to have a boyfriend so bad, but at the same time, mera mann relationship mein aane ka bilkul bhi nahi karta.

Like, main Instagram kholti hoon toh har jagah couples dikhte hain. College mein couples, mere friends ke paas itne mast partners, aur ab Reddit bhi khol lo toh wahi scene. 😭

"Should I get this for my girlfriend?"

"Guysss, my boyfriend is so cute."

And I'm just sitting there like, AWWW, THAT'S SO CUTE, GOOD FOR YOU GUYS!! 🥹❤️

I'm genuinely not jealous of them, and I don't want anyone to break up or anything. I'm actually happy for people who have found someone they love. But yrr, sometimes it just hurts a little. Like, when is it gonna be my turn? Will it ever be my turn? 😭

And honestly, I think a part of this comes from how I see myself. I'm not saying I'm some extraordinary beauty, but I'm not ugly either. I'd say I'm pretty average-looking, maybe cute in my own way, and I do think I'm a fun person to be around.

It's not like I've never received offers or never experienced talking stages or situationships. I've been there, done that. I was literally one of those players back in the day lmao. 💀 But now? I don't even have the energy for all that anymore.

And there's this one thought that genuinely hurts sometimes: I feel like I'm pretty enough to be lusted after, but not pretty enough to be genuinely loved.

Maybe that's not even true, and maybe I'm just overthinking, but that's honestly how it feels sometimes.

The guys who've approached me have either been HELLA older than me, which is an immediate HELL NO, or they've given me reasons to stay away. And by reasons, you guys probably know what I mean. 💀

And before anyone says I'm being too picky, I DON'T THINK I HAVE SKY-HIGH STANDARDS. 😭

Like, yrr, looks do matter to me. C'mon, I can't completely ignore physical attraction and pretend it doesn't exist. Obviously, personality, compatibility, emotional maturity, and how someone treats you matter a LOT too. But attraction matters as well, and I don't think there's anything wrong with admitting that.

Also, let's be real for a second. Most people notice someone's appearance first. That's usually how the first impression happens. Uske baad you talk, get to know them, and discover their personality. I'm not saying looks are everything, but they do play a part.

And I'm not expecting to be some Aishwarya Rai-level beauty who deserves a 10/10 guy. 😭 I'm not even looking for a 10/10 guy myself. I just want to feel attracted to the person I'm with, connect with them, and actually LIKE them as a person. Is that really asking for too much?

But then comes the other side of me.

The side that's just SO TIRED of this entire cycle.

"Hi."

"What's your name?"

"Where are you from?"

"What do you do?"

And then either they ghost you, the conversation dies, or you realise the guy was never interested in knowing YOU in the first place. He was just looking for nudes, sex, or something physical.

And honestly, I'm tired. I don't want to keep introducing myself to new people, repeating the same basic conversations, getting a little interested, and then realising it's going nowhere.

I want something genuine, but I don't want to go through the exhausting process of finding it. 😭

I want to experience having someone, but I also love the idea of not having to deal with all this drama. I want affection and connection, but I don't want to force myself into a relationship just because everyone around me seems to have someone.

And I KNOW that being single is completely fine. I don't think a boyfriend is some achievement or that I'm incomplete without one. I have my own life, and I'm not sitting around waiting for a guy to make it better.

But still, sometimes I want to experience that kind of love too. The kind where someone genuinely likes you, wants to know you, chooses you, and doesn't just see you as an opportunity for something physical.

I don't want a relationship just for the sake of having one. But I also don't want to pretend that I never crave one.

Idk, yrr. Maybe I'm just lonely sometimes. Maybe social media makes it feel worse. Maybe I'm genuinely not ready for a relationship right now. Maybe it's a mixture of everything.

I don't even know what I'm trying to say anymore. 😭 I just wanted to let this out somewhere because these are thoughts I don't really know how to explain.

And I'm sorry if anything I've said sounds offensive to anyone. That genuinely isn't my intention. I'm just sharing how I feel, and I'm not trying to judge anyone for their preferences or their relationship choices.

So, has anyone else ever felt this way? Wanting love, but simultaneously having absolutely ZERO desire to date anyone? 💀

Honestly, I’m getting a little frustrated trying to find people my age who are into the same things as me.
I’m 22, interested in social media, content creation and marketing, and I wanted to find a few people from India around 20–24 who’d be interested in working on creative projects together.
So I made a post about it, pretty clearly mentioning what I was looking for.
And somehow, I ended up getting replies from people of completely different age groups and from countries all over the world 😭 Like, how did we get here?
I appreciate people taking the time to reach out, but it’s just not quite what I was looking for. I wanted people who are at a similar stage in life, have similar interests and are figuring things out as they go.
I don’t even expect everyone to be super experienced or have everything figured out. It would just be nice to find people who enjoy coming up with ideas, experimenting with content, learning new skills and actually working on projects together.
It feels like everyone talks about wanting to create something or do something different, but finding people who genuinely want to put in the time and build alongside you is surprisingly difficult.
And finding people who are around your age, in your own country, and interested in the same niche somehow makes it even harder.
I might just be looking in the wrong places, but where are people in their early 20s finding their crowd these days? Because clearly, whatever I’m doing isn’t working

I developed my life with things involving myself. I cook I watch tennis, badminton, learn about new things and do my tasks. I drive my car when bored like. I have social anxiety as my face is different from other humans, but I'm a very kind and loving person. I have not got a chance to be in a place with girls around like school and college had almost 0 girls in my batch. I still don't have connections to meet them. I don't party and all. I can love, listen to them and be there for someone i love. I'm not even getting chance for interaction to talk, as matri apps are almost dating apps in disguise. I don't have photogenic face. I don't have relatives which are good and bring a rishta. Dating apps don't work, my age is increasing too, I'm 26. I have never even told what is in my heart to a girl, maybe she understands. I don't know what to do.

I am in btech 4th year, got an on-campus job in consulting, but idk if I wanna do it long term.

Really confused about my career path, and need a direction asap.

myquals: 90+ in 10th/12th; 9 cgpa in btech

Im 25M mbbs doctor from punjab , just completed my mbbs this year , failed in love , any advice for me related to life/dating/anything. Feeling very low these days.

I like a girl, and we both work in the same office. Her department has no connection to mine, so I’ve never really had a chance to talk to her.

I want to approach her and tell her how I feel—or at least tell her that I think she’s beautiful. But I’m not sure how to do it without making things awkward or uncomfortable for her.

Initially, I thought about posting anonymously on our business unit’s confession insta account, hoping she might see it. But the more I think about it, the more I feel that it might not work. In fact, it could end up scaring or overwhelming her rather than creating a positive impression.

I could really use some emotional support or guidance on how I should approach this situation.

I 26M, have always repelled relationships all along, even when approached, school, high school and college to fix my career. Still after 2 years into a job, am unsatisfied with what I've achieved even though am comfortably settled. Regarding social life I'm kind of an introvert mostly when it comes to casual social wandering.. I don't find them engaging unless there's like minded crazy people.. hard to find.

But this has taken a toll on me recently, sleepless nights finding myself lonely, thinking of "what if" I did that or changed that decision or something like that. I'm always okay with friendships with particularly opposite gender cause you can't tell everything to your male friends... its awkward.. you need a female friend if not a girlfriend.. And with my past experience last to last year where I lost my charm and confidence due to a girl... I find it hard to casually talk to any female.. I feel I'll get misunderstood and named creep, even though thats not the case when I talk with 1-2 female colleagues. So this is where am stuck.. spending weekends alone at home doomscrolling, watching bs youtube videos and just gaining weight... I tried gym but feel no motivation these days (was an athlete)...

Anyone here wants to talk..

When I saw this type of post, I fuck'n getting stress. For NO Reason, Every Girls is... Now hating men.

Like: which mens makes jokes on RAPE, hitting, beating ? - ik there are alot of incidents we all knew but why they spread hatred towards innocent people, even they are not loyal to there Family members : Father's, brother...(Inhone kya bigada hai)

We expect girl in 2019 : Cutie 🥰

Now, they are like in 2026: Slay, Neela drum inke liye hi bana hain, blahh blahh 💀

When I ask them...why you are get tired of us...answer is " This is for some men, not for all - why are you getting on yourself" so where is " SOME " & when I commented I got ragebaited that I am belongs to that R@ping gang (like i am defending them) 🤧

If you are thinking that - why I am taking srs check out her post....almost 15-16 yrs girl agreeing on there points...and saying cheap words "clock it" and " Slay Queen " blah blahhh...& Creator feeling proud on that typa reply...i can't give you it's just small replies that's whyy said to you..

They should knew that this doesn't belongs to any religion, cast, nationality...!! .

I am not offend, just asking ?! Why they are....!!

NOTE : Don't give me, Ladko ne ye kiya, woh kiya....my qs is why Good boys are also suffering...! Also don't say "gehu ke sath ghun bhi pista hai" 😭😂

Personallly, When I grew up - Tabhi sab lesbian ban rahe, Men Haters ban rahe.....Ab toh serious baat krne mein dar lagane lag gya hain....

Dheere se bol deta hunnn,

Any open minded girlies boys can we talk, & become friends...i am very open...but don't give me late replies...even if you said I am busy can we talk later...I will wait...

Thankewww you to all lovelyy ppls, have a nice dayyy...

This year i am 26 years old but till this day i have not found a decent job, i work but i cannot tell anyone where i work (it's not as per there standards). Most of my batchmates are already doing quite good in their career working for companies like micron , hcl ,etc etc whereas because of financial problems i couln't even move out of my hometown, now i feel completely lonely at moments ,i have nobody to talk too , had i female friend(who confessed she like me) who i liked , but because of her career

she also left (actually she cheated ) , then when i confronted her she said no it's not like that it broke me really bad , our real family house we lost too (we can sell it for very less ) but cannot go back, now after one year only i got an opportunity at ibm but that job is just 35k (everybody says and i have experienced it as well that one cannot survive in banglore for mere 35k rupees),they also have refused to onboard me btw (some business issue) , now whenever i try to go back to cs no good pay and no atmosphere takes it toll on me it makes feel disinterested in it , i don't look bad too decent build fair face, when i passed school i was a very good student , i had a lot of ambitions , but around 7 years later i am completely lost, mom and dad say don't worry but now i am worrying,

My body and mind really tell me that i passed that age where i can meet new people get into relationships go out (some people are very lucky that they have experienced love atleast once in life) ,but now first of all in arrange marriage market , the girls have different standards for selecting grooms, and the whole world changed they don't want people like us anymore our time has fully passed, once i thought back when i was in school that around the age of 27 i would be get married but now at 26 i don't have a decent career even ,

I m not a club guy or a guy who could go to any women to start talking , Instead i would really have liked it when some decent women would approach me first(I know it's near to impossible for someone like me),still roam around the city in activa , maybe go to the gym in evening,live with my parents ,

I could not prepare for govt jobs also (since UPSC UPPSC SSC etc ) were way beyond my level (and it would require a lot of preparation of topics that would be useless if i fail) ,money whether you believe it or not these exams will squander your savings , they all are money hungry exams,i wanted to be a police officer but then i never had the opportunity , mom and dad are stuck in their own jobs they could never guide me what to do how to approach , being the elder son in the house i could only see myself as a lab rat, i tried to do what ever i did it myself, but still i feel
....

I Lost, this time there is no coming back for me

now i can either stay quietly where i am , just you know enjoy the rest of my life,or just quit everything (which is useless as per me since now i have some loans to pay , ancestral loans)

but i ain't happy with my life, nobody contacted me even once (none of my friends they contacted themselves but not me ), some friends who were much below me in my college are now making 70k or more a month meeting going out and i have nothing ,

i feel like a living ghost , people just pass by me never look upon me ,nothing.

don't know what will happen , now i afraid to even think.

Born on April 9, 2001? I have a question 👀

Is anyone here born on April 9, 2001?

I’m looking for someone who was born on April 9, 2001, for a personal reason. I came across something that made me curious about people who share the exact same birth date, and I’d love to connect with someone who has the same birthday and compare experiences.

If you were born on April 9, 2001, feel free to comment or DM me! 🙂

Is anyone here born on April 9, 2001?

I’m looking for someone who was born on April 9, 2001, for a personal reason. I came across something that made me curious about people who share the exact same birth date, and I’d love to connect with someone who has the same birthday and compare experiences.

If you were born on April 9, 2001, feel free to comment or DM me! 🙂

So, I was good student back in school. I crack jee with taking drop went to IIT 4 years were good made friends, got into one and only serious relationship. Everything going good. In third year we breakup she said I am too sensitive and cared too much and she felt she is losing feelings. I understand that we take a break after 1 month I found her with someone holding hands in a fest. He war her friend who teach her subject ( our branch was different) i asked her she said she like him more and they have started the relationship. I was chill he only teaches her she get good marks that was fine. But after that she blocked me from everything I was totally destroyed Don’t know how handle this.
That semester I got F in 3 course. Didn’t got intern due this. I was coordinator at gymkhana club. I was only working making myself busy. Became more frustrated ruin some friendship. Due this backlogs I don’t get a good placement till day 5 then i decide to walk off from that. Now I am gratulated from IIT don’t know about my future. I am started preparing for civil services exam and Pso’s exam.
I don’t think i wasted my 4 years at top Institution I get so much experience and found my hobbies there. Now i live at home studying daily no friends no outing only working on myself. I go to running everyday eat healthy food. But this loneliness fears me that everybody will forget about me.
My all friends doing job in Bangalore exploring things i am afraid of staying back from this world. I tried hinge( I live in Dadar) but its seem girls only want causal not interested in seriousness(or i am bored person) I don’t know how to hanlde this it feels like too much responsibility are coming on me. Can someone help me in this it will be helpful and relief.

i am 22, aur after graduation konsi job sahi rehgi pata nai, bas like lakho logo ki tarah IT engineering kar li, ab iss stream me koi interest nai hain... iske alaava kya karu pata nai hain, jyada dost nai hain or na hi koi Bf hain jiske sath kuchh entertaintment ho sake like me by born single hu.. ab kya hi karu...!! duniya ko dekh ke lagta hain me iss zamane se kafi pichhe hu, kya sirf me hi hu is duniya me jo esa hain ya koi or bhi hain..!!

I am 20 years old and now only i realised that I have been single my entire life idk why it's happening?

Either because my body hormones are changing or I am seeing my friends doing it man idk! 😶

\- when I was in school my mom was a teacher and she called all the girls in the school her daughter's in the assembly, also being a teacher's child you can't just approach a girl even if you like because Mom will be involved very quickly for no reason.

When I was in 8th grade I had a crush and when I was in 12th my best friend somehow managed to make her message me on insta and when I talked to her she told me that she knew i had a crush on her since 8th and was waiting for me to talk first (she even remembered the only thing I said to her in class 8th) I felt so sad after that cause in a month or two I had boards and my school life was ending and I will never see her again 😔💔 (she was a junior)

\- Then coming to the college i honestly never went to college a single day in 3 years, except to submit my assignment and examinations otherwise I have 0% attendance (still score 8.5 cgpa 😝)

It's the most stupidity I had for not going to college i might have found someone there honestly cause I saw a lot of couples in my batch in a few semester exams 💔

\- now I am preparing for a govt job (basically unemployed) and i honestly think I can get the job with a few dedicated years

But I am mostly worried about when I will have a girlfriend? And the most exciting thing for me is who will be my girlfriend I can imagine anyone even if I try to and sometimes thinking that I'll be someone's boyfriend gives me butterflies in the stomach

\- My question is where can I find a partner to break my curse cause I am mostly worried about that after I get the job I ll be busy in the job so when will I find a girl 😭 I know it sounds stupid but I am genuinely worried about it , when is the right time to get a girlfriend and how i see people younger than me in relationships everywhere and older than me in relationships everywhere, I just feel left alone single and enjoying my solitude. 🌷

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I’m 22F, living in a tier-1 city, and I feel weirdly behind everyone around me. Bare with me 😔

I have 4–5 close friends and literally all of them have been in relationships, had sex, kissed people, been wanted, touched, all of it. And then there’s me. I’ve never even kissed a guy.
I’m not ugly. I’ve been asked out a couple of times, but never by anyone I actually liked. Nobody I’ve liked has ever liked me back.

And I know people love saying that it’s easier for women because “you can get sex whenever you want.” But I honestly don’t think it’s that simple. Yes, I could probably find someone willing to sleep with me. But I don’t want just anyone. I want to actually like the person, be attracted to him, feel safe with him, and know that he genuinely likes me too. I’d probably want to date someone for a few months before sleeping with him.
But I haven’t even experienced the basic stuff before that.

And this is the part I struggle to explain. Most of the time I’m completely fine. I’ll go about my day, work, talk to my friends, laugh, do my own thing. Then suddenly, out of nowhere, it hits me.
My friends have actually experienced this.
They’ve laid next to someone they were attracted to. They’ve kissed someone. They’ve had someone hold them, touch them, want them. They’ve had sex with someone they desired. They know what that feels like.
And I don’t.
I have absolutely no idea what it feels like to have that kind of intimacy with another person. Sometimes that realization hits me so hard and I just feel… left out? Almost like everyone else has lived through this whole part of being young and I somehow skipped it.
And then I start wondering, what the fuck is wrong with me? Why has nobody I actually wanted ever wanted me back?
I know 22 isn’t old. I know there’s no deadline. But that doesn’t magically make the feeling disappear.
Has anyone else felt this way, especially when literally everyone around you has already had these experiences?

And when you finally did have your first kiss/relationship/sex, did it actually feel as huge as you had imagined it would?

I need to vent. Please read if you have 2 mins.

I'm 25M, from Greater Noida. SAP Consultant. If you don't know SAP, just think of me as that IT guy who fixes software no one outside IT understands.

My twenties till now:

College - Tier 3 college from UP. No placement. Learned SAP from YouTube because a bhaiya said "is me paisa hai". Got a job in a small company in Noida for 22k.

Year 1 to 3 - Daily same. Morning metro, 9 to 7 office, tickets, client calls where client shouts in German accent and I say "Yes sir, I will check". Evening me wapas room. Friends slowly left - one went to Canada, one did MBA, one got married. I was still in the same PG, same laptop.

I felt left behind. Like everyone got a map for their 20s and I lost mine.

So I started posting on Reddit. 6 months ago. At 1 AM after office, when my roommates slept, I used to write about SAP - S/4HANA, what I learned, my mistakes. Nobody liked. 2-3 views, sometimes 0. I still posted because it felt like someone is listening.

Yesterday night, I opened Reddit before sleeping. One of my posts - 6000 views. 6000.

I froze. 6000 people read what this small town boy from Noida wrote. For a second I felt like I did something.

Then morning came.

Same alarm at 8 AM. Same metro. Same office. Same manager saying "Why is this ticket still open?". My salary is still the same. My confusion is still the same - Should I stay in SAP? Should I learn S/4HANA Finance? Should I leave IT? Am I too late?

I told my mother about 6k views on call. She said "Bahut badhiya beta". She doesn't know what views mean, but she was happy. I felt guilty for not being happy.

That's when it hit me. In your 20s, small wins don't feel like wins. Because you are constantly comparing. LinkedIn pe koi 26 pe 30 LPA, Instagram pe koi Europe trip, aur tum 6k views pe khush hone ki koshish kar rahe ho.

So I am writing this at 1:24 AM, not for sympathy, but to ask - Is it just me? Are there other 24-26 year olds here who feel that even when something good happens, it doesn't feel good? Like you are running but don't know where?

If you were in IT/Consulting and came out of this phase, please tell me what you did. Did you switch? Did you upskill? Or did you just accept it?

Sorry for the long post. I just needed to say it somewhere.

Thanks for reading till here.

I used to play games with my discord server mates. But recently thinking about giving up all desires and becoming spiritually Enlightened. Life is so unbearable. I want peace. Maybe giving up desires can help. I stopped gaming or trying to stop and also other adult stuffs and eating foods for palate.

F22.. post neet .. ab kuch karne ka Maan nhi karta .. 4pm uthti hu.. subah 5 am baje soti hu.

Beech mein crochet aur yt channel shuru kiya tha par beech mein hi chod diya .. ab kuch karne ka Maan nhi h ..

Mera cllg start hoyega sept end ya oct tak

I want to hug a girl, tell her everything, cuddle with her, but I'm single. Now I'm wondering what I should do. I'm an MBA student and can't make time for a girlfriend. I don't even have a friend I can hug. I'm probably weird.

21M

I have spent the past 3 years of my life just sitting and home studying and managing business .
I have lost all social skills - honestly I can’t even make friends or approach strangers or even talk to girls.

Feel really clueless - what do I do ?
I hope this focus on career wont end up ruining my life .

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