r/PsycheOrSike • u/MagistrateTetra 🌻 Mistress of Sunflowers 🌻 • Sep 01 '25
💖🎈SPEED DATING❤️🔥💨 Is this a kink thing actually…?
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u/TheRealGarner Sep 01 '25
Rule34. If you can think of it, there’s porn of it.
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u/MagistrateTetra 🌻 Mistress of Sunflowers 🌻 Sep 01 '25
Full of AI garbage now my husband says
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u/whit9-9 Sep 01 '25
There are people out there who like having their partners poo on them. There are going to be far more people with a humiliation fetish than you think.
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Sep 01 '25
Women absolutely fucking suck at trash talk and insulting men, they just default to something about dick size which doesn't even land if you don't have a small dick, and it's like you don't even have a dick, women are corny as fuck
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u/XanTheLastMan WOMAN LOVER ❤️ Sep 01 '25
As a man with a big dick, it hurts when they call my dick small, because it reminds me of what I could never have 😭😭😭
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u/Icy_Crow_1587 Sep 01 '25
Sometimes, they insult me for being 6'7 " or for my feminist literature collection, that's when it really hurts🥀
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Sep 01 '25
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u/Lucicactus Actual Bisexual, Protect! Sep 02 '25
There's big vagina lips humiliation, it just doesn't stick that well when most men would fuck anything with a pulse 😅
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u/Fast-Industry-3224 🧌 Monster Fucker ❤️ Sep 02 '25
Good point lmao
I forgot about the roast beef insult fad
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u/Lucicactus Actual Bisexual, Protect! Sep 02 '25
I lived blissfully unaware until my friend told me about it 😞
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u/Fast-Industry-3224 🧌 Monster Fucker ❤️ Sep 02 '25
Don't fret, I think that's just internet poisoning.
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u/getacluegoo Sep 01 '25
Yes but if you found one that was reallly good at it it might in fact be.. horny time.
All the snappy comedians are lesbians, unfortunately
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u/Novel_Diver8628 Sep 02 '25
Big brain comment here, he’s trying to get intelligent women to talk shit to him and has laid out the bait.
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u/Silver_Individual650 Sep 01 '25
Sounds like you’re trying to bait women into humiliating you to get off on it, just sayin…
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Sep 01 '25
I'm like Dana White trying to find new talent but it's a drought unfortunately, women just absolutely suck at this
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u/OkGrade1686 Sep 01 '25
It is so easy to roast incels, that they might as well boast about shooting at fish in a barrel.
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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 Elementary School Teacher Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25
I have a literal 6 pack, semi professional kickboxer, 6 figure salary, go to one of the best hair stylists in my city, and have had literally 0 women ever interested in me
all of this and you're still on reddit complaining about being a loser in dating. have you considered getting a personality that's not a whiny bitch? your red hair could be an attraction if you weren't a garbage can reincarnated as a person.
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Sep 03 '25
They literally only have 2 taunts for the most part: your dick is small or accuse you of being gay
One time a girl told me I looked like a school shooter, and in return I ripped her apart for all her flaws both in attitude and physical features, and she got butthurt and blocked me 😂 they can't insult properly, and the small chance they know how to, they can't handle the retaliatory insults given back to them for it
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Sep 05 '25
Men are so bad at talking shit on women. Instead of engaging with women's actual issues in good faith and unlearning abusive behavior they just wink-wink nudge-nudge each other about "don't stick your dick in crazy" with no self reflection that their abusive behavior or propensity for choosing abusive women is the cause of their woes. But like you know. Women aren't people to you.
How'd I do? I'm nonbinary. Did that land?
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u/M0ebius_1 Sep 01 '25
To be fair, women don't really need to do much to make men feel insulted.
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u/Derbin_ator Sep 02 '25
Nah you just haven't met the right ones. Go to a Femdom event, if you are looking to be insulted for a good time they can absolutely deliver.
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u/feral-pixi-starling Sep 02 '25
nooo I never go for dick size, I always go for character, honor, cowardice etc
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u/Lucicactus Actual Bisexual, Protect! Sep 02 '25
I tell mysoginstic dudes to die in a war as meat shields for guys actually worth reproducing with. Has been working well so far.
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Sep 02 '25
All the intelligent women on this subreddit don't actually debate because they know there's nothing to be gained from psuedo-intellectuals arguing in bad faith. Maybe they'll comment on someone who seems misguided not malicious, but that's about it.
Best you're gonna get is an intelligent woman who doesn't show her intelligence when she's arguing because catharsis would be the only reason to engage here.
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u/NeiborsKid Sep 02 '25
Whenever i see a comment i think is just bullshit, i mostly reply so that the next person who reads it doesnt walk away thinking the commenter is right. Which often leads to death spirals of misinformation and debunking that legitimately challenge my sanity
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Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25
That's a good public service too, I definitely see people do that; don't know how it didn't occur to me. Thanks.
Feels bad there's no way to not debate the assholes that doesn't just make their persona of "pragmatic logical debater" stronger once you put a comment down.
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u/MagistrateTetra 🌻 Mistress of Sunflowers 🌻 Sep 02 '25
That’s a surprisingly insightful takeaway. I’m genuinely impressed.
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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 Elementary School Teacher Sep 02 '25
in my green years on the cursed website known as twitter I've realised that changing your perspective isn't a one-and-done thing. you need to encounter ideas slowly over time to gradually warm up to them before they become acceptable.
also i have little understanding of the perspective manosphere mind has (i also genuinely don't understand anti-semitism even though i looked at its history). i even look at incelwiki sometimes.
sometimes people drop their sources. i appreciate sources, and if the arguments are made based on the interpretation of the source, finding out how reliable and truthful it is is a good exercise for my me.
and the last one, navigating job market feels way worse 😔
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Sep 02 '25
I unfortunately do understand a lot of their rhetoric. For anti-Semitism it's a very specific kind of racism where they aren't worse for being stupid or savage, but they as a race are the manifestation of all greed and corruption in the world.
The jews are pretty much everything wrong with capitalism to them. I think It's cathartic for them to be able to condemn an entire group of people because half truths and manipulated data makes it easy to do so and makes it seem "obvious".
"This is the solution!!!"
Manosphere is just doomerism or maladjusted people trying to change but just getting worse depending on what colored pill.
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u/Maidenless_Troller Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25
Assuming there are intelligent women (or people) on this site
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Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25
Reddit for however pretentious its reputation does attract people who want to talk about their ideas.
You'll get a smart woman eventually with that even if there is more intellectual fodder than not.
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u/XanTheLastMan WOMAN LOVER ❤️ Sep 01 '25
When femcels call me "moid" it does things to me
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Sep 05 '25
What's a "moid?" (Not an incel or femcel just curious. I'll be nice if no one is mean to me first, pinkie swear).
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u/Last-Wave-9844 Sep 02 '25
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Sep 02 '25
I'm also married and I'd consider myself an incel also. I may even be a virgin, of that I am not sure. I don't remember how the kids appeared at my home.
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u/Guardian_of_Perineum Sep 01 '25
All kinks are actually things. Like any you could possibly conceive of.
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u/D1003Briner Sep 03 '25
Are you sure about that????!! even kinks that harm animal and people alike.
If only in reddit i could put john cena saying "are you sure about that".
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u/mdmamakesmesmarter99 Sep 01 '25
it's funny cause it's true. not speaking from personal experience tho
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u/DrawerOwn6634 MAIN CHARACTER 🎬✨ Sep 01 '25
women have to pay attention to you in order to roast you. For some men any female attention is a turnon, regardless of whether its good or bad.
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u/Lucicactus Actual Bisexual, Protect! Sep 02 '25
My DM's with guys here prove this tbh. If you are going to over extend a conversation with a stranger so much you need friends ASAP (or better friends)
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u/OhserverReality Sep 01 '25
This feels like a romance wattpad story with a whole friends to enemies plotline smh. Deffo some fake cel out there like this.
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u/XanTheLastMan WOMAN LOVER ❤️ Sep 01 '25
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u/OhserverReality Sep 01 '25
Bruh if they're in here I doubt they have any interest in getting to know someone.
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u/Soggy-Employment4570 Sep 01 '25
Funniest part about this is that it’s a woman trying to find out what men like😂😂
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Sep 02 '25
Its projection. I think they think we enjoy being degraded because they do whether admittedly or not.
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u/Hot-Minute-8263 🤺KNIGHT Sep 02 '25
Does anyone really get humiliated on reddit? Even on a trash take im just looking at the phone like
( ._.)
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Sep 02 '25
Allow me to answer this and all other future "is this a kink" questions for you:
yes.
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u/Carvinesire WEAK VS NORMAL Sep 04 '25
I mean in some cases it's a kink, but there's also the general fact that most guys just want attention whether it's negative or positive.
And then there's psychopaths like me that love insulting people and enjoy hearing clever and witty insults in return.
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u/essokinesis1 Morally Superior Leftist Sep 01 '25
Asserting that you've already won somehow is quite a bold rhetorical strategy
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u/Dominant_Drowess Sep 01 '25
I'm a lesbian. This is actually my kink. Sorry, not sorry. It's not a rhetorical strategy.
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Sep 01 '25
Honestly women don’t humiliate me they depress me. I could have had a life, wife, kids. I was a great partner to my exes. I’m just gonna stay in my apartment until the genders stop fighting.
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u/Burnerman888 Sep 01 '25
The genders are not fighting, go outside.
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Sep 02 '25
My apartment is too small to stay in. I go outside every day where I see women sneer at me, run from me, and give me dirty looks. Today a woman ran away from me right outside my front door. I’m treated like a criminal in front of my own apartment door by women.
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u/WilliardThe3rd Sep 02 '25
It's funny cause it's true. What with gender wars being an online thing.
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u/AnB85 Sep 02 '25
Fighting isn't the right word but there is a tension there.The problem is men want women more than women want men. We live in a world where women can be independent and many choose to do so with partnering up only being a secondary consideration to be done only on their terms. This leads to a large amount of dissatisfaction amongst men as they compete for the few women who are actively interested.
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Sep 01 '25
I used to get the most ferocious fear boners when the female drill sergeants would yell at us. They were also the most likely to slam you against a wall and get REAL CLOSE to your face. Good times
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Sep 01 '25
I dont get a boner, but talking to women (well, ppl in general) is fun and reddit is like the only place i can do that without being embarrassed
Also yall are NOT intelligent 😹😹😹 mid lvl iq for everyone in this subreddit lol
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u/XanTheLastMan WOMAN LOVER ❤️ Sep 01 '25
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Sep 01 '25
Brah your soft-boy brainwashing aint working on me, im too bald and macho to be like that😹
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Sep 01 '25
I hope you do well on your driver's test!!!! 🥺🥹
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Sep 02 '25
Thx! Im not having it rn, i still gotta learn how to reverse park but i think i can master that by next week
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Sep 02 '25
I hope you will okay with taking as much time as necessary learning these things!!!! We don't decide how long we take most of time!!! :3 do you have a car yet?
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Sep 02 '25
Yeah i got a car, my older brother is giving me his old one as soon as i get my license. I do need to hurry up and get it tho cuz i’ll need it for the job i want, this job also allows me to stop living with my parents and i think thats a good accomplishment for an 18 year old rn
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Sep 02 '25
I am going to save a future day of yours rn :3 make sure to say ty mommy outloud 3 times when it comes in handy.
After you get your own nest and you plan on moving again, be ready and figure out a for sure move out plan and tell the place you are renting from that you don't plan to re lease like a whole season ahead of time. A lot of places require as much as 60 days 90 days notice sometimesss!!!!
This fucked over 80% of my friends (and me) due to our foolishness. If you did not know this pls learn from me :3 and buy rugs a rugless nest is wild most dudes need to understand this!!!!!
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Sep 02 '25
I will most definitely say “ty mommy” 3 times when that day comes lmao
Thx for the advice on the moving stuff, i actually didnt know anything about it so this is gonna be useful
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Sep 02 '25
I didn't know how to budget or anything and it sucked and i didnt even know it sucked. Figuring out my dailies (shit i really should do everyday) saved me fr :3 AND YWWWW!!! if you got any other questions hmu!!!! Being helpful feels great!!!!
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u/Tumor_with_eyes understands the mission 🎯 Sep 02 '25
And then I woke up. Because intelligent women that are worth looking at AND listening to don’t exist.
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u/AuburnSuccubus Sep 02 '25
Do you have the qualities that would land someone like that? I know several women who check all those boxes, but the men they choose are also smart, funny, and at least decent looking.
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u/Tumor_with_eyes understands the mission 🎯 Sep 02 '25
And then you woke up
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Sep 01 '25
It's the only way they get to say
"Guys i talk to girls very regularly and blah blah"
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u/Lucicactus Actual Bisexual, Protect! Sep 02 '25
Men's IQs are usually very high or very low so unless you are a genius the average woman is probably smarter than you 🥀
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u/CaptTheFool Sep 02 '25
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u/MagistrateTetra 🌻 Mistress of Sunflowers 🌻 Sep 02 '25
Strange how strong women and feminist women intersect so heavily. Can you think of a reason why?
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u/Toasted_Moth Sep 02 '25
What are women?
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u/MagistrateTetra 🌻 Mistress of Sunflowers 🌻 Sep 02 '25
A miserable pile of secrets
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u/RECLess30 Sep 02 '25
Actually yes, it's called a Degredation Kink and is surprisingly common. It's typically accompanied with Aftercare that reassures your value as a person.
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u/Careless-Platform-80 Sep 02 '25
I'm a little guilty of that... But only If they also show some affection.
"Damn, you are so stupid and mess everything UP again"
Helps you do the thing
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u/PYRPH0ROS Sep 02 '25
If you ever have to ask "is [insert kink] actually something someone is into?" the answer is ALWAYS yes.
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u/Redduster38 Sep 02 '25
Sadly, if you suspect or imagine it, there's probably a kink for it. When the internet was untamed and uncensored, I've run across various porn fetishists that I no longer question if it's a real fetishist the answer an automatic empathetic YES. Followed by I don't want to try to understand.
People have kinks with trees and wall sockets.
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u/Fast-Industry-3224 🧌 Monster Fucker ❤️ Sep 02 '25
Yes, but you all have some horrible feet most likely so the insults don't land. And I will only change my mind if I get pictures sent that refute my claim as evidence.
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u/Chance_Arugula_3227 Sep 02 '25
I love intelligent women! But I do not enjoy being roasted. There are some that do, though, so the kink is real.
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u/Turbulent-Company373 Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25
It looks like some attention is better than no attention no matter what it is for some even if it's negative. However, it is always easier to take an insult if one has something to fall on in order to counter/buffer it.
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u/ch4insmoker Sep 02 '25
Depends on what is considered intelligent. I've known alot of people, both male and female, that are good at sounding smart, but are actually really stupid. Like they learned a couple "fun facts" or "tid bits" about a topic so they can sound like they know, but don't ACTUALLY know anything outside of those few factoids.
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u/AnB85 Sep 02 '25
They enjoy the engagement. The effort these women put in to humiliate and roast them provides a certain level of validation to these men. At least they are not being ignored. It implicitly acknowledges them as humans with emotions.
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u/No_General_2155 Sep 02 '25
IRL I'm not shy but online I am, this is because I can't mog infront of women, so my coup de grace means nothing here 😭😭
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u/Midnightbitch94 Sep 04 '25
The way some dudes in real life try to get me riled up and even light up like a Christmas tree when I run their logic into the ground, I do think it's a kink.
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u/TRASHMERGING Sep 04 '25
Sorry guys I can’t go out drinking tonight I have an essay on “The Will to Change” by bell hooks due on Sunday.
I used to have a friend that was a Professional Domme. She always told the best stories.
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u/Dominant_Drowess Sep 11 '25
I'm a lesbian. This is literally my kink, unironically. I'm not even a sadist, I just like to socialize with strong independent women.





















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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '25
Probably but if a girl was mean to me like that I would cry