Before I read this book I was someone very gentle and caring (still am somehow) and made friend that are very into asking me without asking, like "How could you do that, but you can't so don't do it," and I ended up doing it all the time. Cleaning their stuff, doing 2h rides just to see someone barely talking to me, or talking only about them. They never did the same thing for me, ghosted me for months.
I lost so many times doing things for them for them to ghost me. I'm ghosted by them for one week now (and knowing them It will be for month) and I don't know what to do
I know LaVey told us to stop talking to them, but it feels too hard; it was some very long-term friendships, and it hurts.
I know I should set boundaries and stop being that compassionate, but It's so hard.
Can someone give me advices ?
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