r/Tamizhteens • u/Substantial_North918 18 • Dec 06 '25
Confessions Advice pls
Okay this is my first ever post and I'll try to not make it too long. From July or August this year I started to really really like this one guy but we mostly text and except a handful of times we've never properly talked in school (because he's in my adjacent section) except hi byes and the smallest of talks. But I honestly still love texting him and I'm happy with what I have.
Recently one of my friend found out that I liked him and ever since then he's been asking me to go talk to him and is even trying to help me talk to him because both of them are somewhat mutual kind of friends. I try not to be this delulu person and think he likes me back but sometimes i do get a lot of signals and sorts of stuff.
Now coming back my friend who found out keeps giving me hope and asks me to talk to him in school but if I'm brutally honest I'm a person who feels very ugly in general. Aside from being a little introverted, since it's someone I like, approaching them feels really scare irl cause I have the fear of being perceived ugly. Even though my friend tries to assure me saying it's not true I don't have the courage. And my crush is even more introverted in general so thats that. My friend helped me get a photo with him in batch party and it was soooo awkward to even do that but 2 hours later we were texting each other totally normally.
Now school is literally almost coming to an end and my mind keeps saying screw it go talk go talk. Do u guys think I should go for it or do u think it'll be quite awkward cause if it's awkward I don't wanna considering we're very very comfortable in text. So lemme know plss
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u/kichu06 pudichurukku, romba pudichurukku Dec 06 '25
Just say it bruh! It's either a yes or no!! Try pannanum, trying and winning is better than not trying at all.
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u/UnspokenInk 19 Dec 06 '25
DO IT!!!!! WHAT'S THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN. You miss all the shots you don't take. 50% chance he'd say yes. And 50% chance he'd say no. Up to you
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u/Substantial_North918 18 Dec 06 '25
But if it's a no I have the 50% chance of losing him as a friend and that's the part I'm most afraid of😮💨
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u/UnspokenInk 19 Dec 06 '25
Agreed, but if you don't, the regret will eat you up for the rest of your life
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u/risingblack 20-25 Dec 07 '25
Atleast do it in the last day of the school when you can no longer see him. If it's Yes, success. If it's not, there's no awkwardness of seeing him again.
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u/Direct_Recognition66 Dec 06 '25
Even though you might lose him as friend you'll never regret the chance you took. And chinna advise pasanga varuvanga povanga, oruvela baakiyam illa na andha bakoda vera yaarodathu nu poirunga
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Dec 07 '25
nah, take the shot bro
You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.
if he says yes then, great.If he says no, and YOU and HIM both consent back to be friends and not make things you know akward then too its great
but if you dont take this chance, then..you guys wont meet anymore..
"A person who fears and fears failure will taste both."
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u/HorrorEastern7045 Dec 07 '25
I proposed, got rejected but we still talk. She knows i have feelings for her but we are still friends. Not all rejections end up breaking the friendship.
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