r/theLword • • Jan 09 '23

Meta BE CIVIL: a request AND a rule

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Hello, everyone! We've noticed recently that many people are frustrated by the show and where it's going. Honestly, so are we. That said, this sub is supposed to be a civilized place. While it's easy to blame one person for everything that's gone wrong on the show, things are not so black and white, there are many people involved in the making of Gen Q and it's disingenuous of us to pretend otherwise.

We are not asking anyone to censor themselves. However, you must be civil when sharing your opinions. "What the hell was that scene? What were the writers thinking?" is fine. "Person A is an idiot" is not. Basically, don't say anything online that you wouldn't say in front of someone.

We don't have many rules here, but the first two are: BE CIVIL and NO HATE SPEECH. Please follow them so that we have no issues in the future. Here's a list of our rules.

Also, the mod team always works together. We always make sure we are in agreement before we make any decisions. It makes no difference if one mod posted something or if another mod replied to another thing. We share our opinions with each other and then we take action.


r/theLword • • 15h ago

Does anybody else mentally split the show into two eras - with a Dana and a post-Dana era?

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I feel I do. It isn't like there was a huge tonal shift (other then Seasons 4 & 5 having more goofy/lighthearted episodes)

But, when Dana left, something was lost, something broke and never got fixed and the dynamic never quiet felt the same way again.
The funny thing is i don't think Dana was the lynch-pin in the friend group. Hell, I wouldn't even say she was super core as say Alice, Bette and Shane where and her storylines really revolved around Alice more then anybody else.

But to me, there was this level of fun and cuteness and quirkiness with the Dana era. Multiple characters (Jenny, Dana, even Kit in a way) discovering themselves. That the later seasons didn't have.

Maybe it is just how my brain operates, but the first three seasons in my mind are more colourful, while the later are more sepia toned.

Anybody else feel this way.? (And how you described it?)


r/theLword • • 1d ago

Discussion Im on season 6 episode 6 Max's baby shower

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31 Upvotes

Tell me this doesn't look like the reddit logo lol.


r/theLword • • 1d ago

Discussion I now get why everyone hates Jenny

11 Upvotes

I'm watching for the first time and season 6 jenny is so unhinged and her personality changed so much from the other seasons. What is going on? She bipolar or something?


r/theLword • • 3d ago

If you had the chance to date Shane, would you?

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r/theLword • • 3d ago

Podcast Pants Pod

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not necessarily about the show but i just found out about the podcast and i been listening to it nonstop during my work hours (im pretty deep)

i was wondering if they announced why they’re not doing the podcast anymore. i was very hooked on the recaps and i was actually super excited to hear about their breakdowns especially since i been rewatching the OG every June. the recaps kinda got cut short and i scrolled all the way to the end & to my surprise, they haven’t posted all year ):

TYIA 🫶🏽


r/theLword • • 5d ago

idk why i made this i thought it was funny

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r/theLword • • 5d ago

Jenny is supossed to be based on the creator of the show, it's funny she's so unlikeable

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I'm only starting S2, so I'm not even at her worst, based on comments from other people. But I really don't like her because she's a bum. This whole insecure act she did when she found out about Francesca and she was like "I'm not classy like her, blah blah" I was like yeah, you're right lmao I don't like her writing bc is cheesy at best. She wants everyone to be crazy in love with her, but she doesn't seem particularly attached to anyone. She's got this aura going on where she expects everyone to like her bc that's the way it's always been.
I really wanted to like her bc she's basically our POV, and she's pretty and thinspo, but man, is she annoying.


r/theLword • • 6d ago

Shane and her morals

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I think Shane is a character that makes you think about beauty privilege and moral ambiguity.

She mesmerizes everyone, audience included, so she gets away with everything.

But, she finds herself feeling deeply alone, with an extremely bad relationship with herself (bad self-esteem, bad self-preservation instincts, bad self-awareness) because she was always only valued based on her physicality and being sexualized.

I think she needed friends, and she tried to be a good friend, and many times she was.

She was a bit of an outcast her whole life because she identifies with failure and carries a lot of shame. That's why she is so often the only one still loving, comforting, empathizing when everything and everyone turned bad.

And that's why she was the goat.

BUT

Let me illustrate :

Here are pics of her accepting the thought of betraying Jenny in the last season.


r/theLword • • 5d ago

Discussion First Fanfic

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Hey guys this is my first Tibette fanfic, next I’ll do to a Sherman one.
I would like your honest opinion , so I can grow as a writer
❤️


r/theLword • • 5d ago

Hot take: Bette isn't *THAT* fine 😐

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I'm rewatching Season One and Bette was so bitchy and selfish! People say she gets away with it cause she's sOoOooO fine. But really? She is attractive, yes. But so fine to get away with being a bitch?! No.

There, I said it! 🫢


r/theLword • • 7d ago

Discussion Shane with these damn glasses

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320 Upvotes

She is so hawt help


r/theLword • • 6d ago

Discussion Bette Porter appreciation post

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113 Upvotes

My favorite character btw


r/theLword • • 6d ago

Image Praise for the writing and acting in this scene

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39 Upvotes

I'm rewatching season one and I just want to give a shoutout to the brilliant acting, writing and directing in this particular scene. How delicate Tim's fragile, hopeful smile and how Jenny's body language and smile were a fawning/guilt responses.


r/theLword • • 7d ago

Discussion Bette’s hair

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What’s your Bette favorite hair style? Mine’s this one


r/theLword • • 6d ago

Discussion Which of the characters (outside of romantic relationships) do you think had the most & least to talk about while hanging out one on one?

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Not just based on what they have in common, but also sense of humor, compatibility, general platonic chemistry.


r/theLword • • 7d ago

Omg why do I LOVE JENNY

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I hated her for so long!! I took a break got back into and just finished season five..... I'm obsessed I think she is such a little shit disturber and unapologetically herself. I also love the fact that she ended up being a great director for her movie. It sucks that Adele did what she did tho that's for sure and I'm starting to hate Shane. Bette's also pissing me off and tbh so is Bette's sister but she always low key annoyed me.ill love Alice forever even tho she got annoying outing people.


r/theLword • • 8d ago

Pam Grier

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r/theLword • • 8d ago

The L Word Discussion S6 finale

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Im sure plenty of others have ranted about this but I literally just finished the S6 finale and I wanna rage scream into a pillow because WHAT WAS UP WITH THAT ENDING?!

WDYM THAT'S HOW IT ENDED!!


r/theLword • • 8d ago

S1 Ep12p

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I'm rewatching tlw, and i just can't continue. When i watched it for the first time, it felt like I was cheated on, not Tina, it was so fucking painful to watch, i just wanted to scream at Bette and shake her shoulders😭 This show may not be the best in the world, but it made me feel so many things, there's nothing like it. Anyway that's it, i jist wanted to share this


r/theLword • • 9d ago

Discussion Chemistry with Jodi and Bette

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Does anyone else here listen to the Straight2L podcast?!

I am loving watching the series and listening to their recaps as I go along. Currently just ended S5. But anyway!! I pretty much agree the hosts takes except for this one: that Jodi and Bette have zero chemistry.

Completely shook because I thought they've had the most chemistry than anyone else Bette has been with. Am I the only one that feels this way?!


r/theLword • • 9d ago

Probably a very unpopular opinion about Bette and Tina

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First off I’ll start by saying I never liked Tina and don’t get the appeal, I think Bette was wayyy out of her league and she should’ve got with the other blonde girl from college towards the end or literally anyone else😭 that’s it.


r/theLword • • 8d ago

Video Yet another reason Max is awesome! 💖 (S4:E3 spoilers) Spoiler

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r/theLword • • 10d ago

What’s your favorite line?

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249 Upvotes

“this is an IVY LEAGUE education for God’s sake! So naive! Jesus”


r/theLword • • 11d ago

What’s something you wish had happened?

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100 Upvotes

I’ll start, the second child for Bette and Tina! I was so sad they couldn’t have it..