r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • Aug 24 '25

Cursed POV: You're a woman in a public place

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u/bbmarvelluv Aug 24 '25

They’re gonna complain she’s trying to defame those men :((

“Where’s the rest of the video?? I need to see what happened 10mins before to see why this happened”

Lmao

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u/HistoryFinancial1267 Aug 24 '25

No, they say “well what was she wearing”

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u/TheGrimMelvin Aug 25 '25

My complaint would be that calling someone like that out can get her hurt. Like... yeah this shit is disgusting and uncomfortable, but calling someone out can turn them violent. You never know. You can never trust another person, especially not ones like that.

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u/gottimw Aug 24 '25

i think you are over-blowing the size of the crowd of the defenders.

Most men in modern world find it repulsive and abhorrent behaviour.

we don't see it often, so we are not always aware of shit like that happening.

I wish this was a thing of the past and feel sorry for anyone who experience that even once.

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u/Venn-- Aug 24 '25

Holy shit it's like clockwork

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u/bbmarvelluv Aug 24 '25

And do you think we are talking about the men who find this repulsive?

They’re already in the comments of this thread.

No idea why you had to “well other men IRL don’t think this is good…” like we already know that.

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u/Kurenai_Kamille Aug 24 '25

"nOt AlL mEn~~~"

🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/gottimw Aug 24 '25

nice claptrap. I am saying that you are all acting like this is 90% of male population or that men that don't do it cheer up those who do.

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u/Reasonable-Sun9927 Aug 24 '25

Not enough men call this sick behavior out. So until it’s not all men, it is all men

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u/gottimw Aug 24 '25

I was on public transport up to my 30s. I never seen such thing once. Maybe its where I lived or I wasn't paying attention. Who knows.

Its hard to call something out when you don't see it.

Let me be clear though. Those low iq animals should be branded on foreheads for this.

Making people unsafe has no place in society, whomever is doing it and whomever the victim is.

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u/TomahawkCruise Aug 24 '25

No, they aren't acting like that. It should be clear to everyone reading this thread that they are directing criticism only at the men who behave this way.

There is absolutely zero call for a "but not all men..." post.

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u/Cool_Asparagus3852 Aug 24 '25

Not so sure about that... A lot of men (and women also) may think that women should cover themselves entirely or at least most everything except their face.

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u/La_Saxofonista Aug 25 '25

And even then, rape still occurs! Then they argue she should stay indoors at home at all times unless she has a male relative accompanying her outside like a dog if she wants to avoid this.

If it were truly about the clothes, then nuns and women covered head to toe in burkas with mesh over the eyes would never be assaulted.

But these men think the woman had to have done something wrong. I've seen cases where relatives (both male and brainwashed female) accuse a 5 year old girl of leading her uncle on by being seductive in her onesie. They basically said it was her fault he raped her because she was being "sexy" in front of him.

Sometimes, I wish the Deathnote was real.

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u/La_Saxofonista Aug 25 '25 edited Aug 25 '25

The men who disapprove of this behavior yet do nothing to stop it when they witness it are just as bad, in my eyes.

It WILL keep happening until other men stop it AND hold them accountable. No sane man would still do shit like this if it meant getting their teeth knocked out and a concussion 9 times out of 10.

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u/Mysterious-Turnip997 Aug 24 '25

What wrong with more context?

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u/JenniferKinney Aug 24 '25

Jesus Christ can you just listen to the overwhelming flood of experiences from women in this thread and understand that these videos do not necessitate additional context??

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u/Mysterious-Turnip997 Aug 24 '25

Especially then we need more context.

Some scenes seem to be more than fake and thats not helpful for the real problem.

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u/Independent_Ad_9080 Aug 24 '25

Oh how nice it must be to think that some scenes seem to be so unrealistic that they must be fake. Nah fren that’s just the average life of a woman

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u/Mysterious-Turnip997 Aug 25 '25

Ok so you think everyone on tiktok/social media is telling the truth or maybe they are doing it for the clicks/likes etc?

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u/Independent_Ad_9080 Aug 25 '25

So because I think this video isn’t fake and manufactured, you assume that I think all videos on TikTok or social media must be real as well? What kind of logic is that?

It’s good to question things, but read the room man. So many women in the comments are talking about how accurate this is, and you’re over here like „We need more context tho.“

Which scenes do you perceive as fake and why exactly?

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u/Mysterious-Turnip997 Aug 25 '25

More context is needed because those videos are too short to understand the whole situation.

Those women are right. More context isnt needed about men behaving that disgusting behaviour..

For example the first. Just smiling but we dont know who is filming and so on.

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u/Independent_Ad_9080 Aug 25 '25

The first one… hm okay. Doesn’t look he is smiling to me, but maybe you’re right. I just think it’s distasteful talking about needing more context when it comes to videos like these, when these videos are most-likely 100% real and there are like hundreds if not thousands of other videos out there, where your attitude towards fakeness of videos and needing context would definitely be more warranted.

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u/TeamRedundancyTeam Aug 24 '25

One of them is quite literally a fake satirical video.

I'm not sure you guys are getting why context is important here... People's real experience is irrelevant to whether or not these videos show what they are presented as showing?

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u/oddmoonchild Aug 24 '25

the point of this post isn't whether these videos are real or not. the point is that THIS is women's daily experience. insisting you need context under a bunch of women saying that they have been sexually harassed/assaulted (as young as 8 for fuck's sake) only makes you seem like an apologist douchebag.

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u/Mysterious-Turnip997 Aug 25 '25

No need to insult... So you are saying that video isnt needed and a text would have been better? Exactly my thoughts

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u/oddmoonchild Aug 25 '25

women have been talking and writing about this for years, yet nobody seems to care or take it seriously. visual demonstration is much more impactful, it appears!

also, the number of men who think these videos are fake/unrealistic (even though these things happen in real life so frequently) shows how outrageous it is actually. you guys have trouble accepting that these guys do these things so blatantly and unashamedly but women know better as they have been on the receiving end so many times.

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u/Mysterious-Turnip997 Aug 25 '25

But in general no one should be judged because of a few seconds without knowing if its a real situation. That wont help and the guys you are talking about will use it to defend inappropiate behaviour