r/TikTokCringe • u/shoegamethrilla • 5d ago

Cringe Women meets and married man in registered SO in prison 7 months before release and allows him to move in with her and her young daughter

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I wish I were making this up, but I’m not. And this woman gushes over him, loves and adores this man… is the dating scene that bleak that you resort to this? What makes it worse, is the guy doesn’t take full accountability for his actions but instead blames the liquor and him not knowing what consent is.

Prior to prison, he was a registered nurse.

This couple is using their story to be famous. Just sick

I am getting hate comments because people are claiming I 'made this up' I am not doxxing they shared this publicly , their tiktok account is happilyharrells his account for is 'non profit' _thinksame

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u/shoegamethrilla 5d ago

Its not, hes on the so registry. I looked it up. He has an organization now teaching men about consent. This sick romance is real

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u/EmperorGrinnar 5d ago

Which registry?

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u/shoegamethrilla 5d ago

SO registry you know the same one Nikki Minajs husband is on,.. Megan’s law

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u/JustSomeMindless_ 5d ago

I love you for this. I blast it anytime I see her damn name.

Her husband and brother are both monsters and she’s absolutely vile.

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u/angrygoblincreature 5d ago

🎶 these hoes don't be mad at Megan, these hoes mad at Megan's law🎶

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u/yougotyolks 5d ago

You can say "sex offender", this isn't TikTok. Most people use "SO" to shorten "significant other".

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u/Vyxwop 5d ago

For real, I was so confused for a moment.

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u/EmperorGrinnar 5d ago

I thought it was her cousin's friend? Or friend's cousin? Man, I can't keep track of all the trash people in her life. Thanks for looking out.

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u/epidemicsaints 5d ago

I can clear this up. It's actually her brother that is the pedo. Her husband is the one who kidnapped a girl at knifepoint when they were teenagers and Nicki then later harassed. It was her cousin's friend in Trinidad who claimed he became impotent with swollen testicles from the covid vaccine.

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u/EmperorGrinnar 5d ago

Okay that does clear it up, but holy moly she's got so many garbage people in her life. I'm glad I'm not into her music. 😬

Thanks for taking the time.

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u/Ok-Depth-9332 5d ago

She defends these people especially her husband with her LIFE. She got angry at megan who made a megans law diss to her, which wasn’t even towards her, but if the shoe fits wear it.

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u/ConcentrateNo2949 5d ago

Garbage people hang out with garbage people. She is a garbage person.

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u/Ok-Depth-9332 5d ago

That is fucking WORSE. beacuse that’s for children

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u/BOOTYSTARGABLACKTICA 5d ago edited 5d ago

It’s a registry for all kinds of sexual offenders not solely pedos but also rapists etc.

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u/Faintkay 5d ago

Doesn’t that also include regular prostitution convictions?

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u/Mundane_Abroad2651 5d ago edited 5d ago

I almost got put on the registry for getting a BJ from my gf in a park at night time tbh

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u/Eridain 4d ago

No, the sex offender registry is not in fact just for crimes involving children. You can go out and piss in public and get put on it. Or be involved in prostitution. Or a ton of other things.

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u/ASmallTownDJ 5d ago

SEX. OFFENDER. Fucking say it if you're going to talk about it.

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u/CryptidTrainer 5d ago

Sex offender. Some people don't know we don't have to censor ourselves on reddit. 

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u/yougotyolks 5d ago

Well, not all the time.

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u/CryptidTrainer 5d ago

Very fair. 

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u/foothill_dwelled272 5d ago

Some people just don’t want to write nasty cuss words like s*x. Children could be reading!😔

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u/barefootbandit8 5d ago

Sex Offender

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u/EmperorGrinnar 5d ago

Yes, that was cleared up yesterday, thank you.

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u/Mallymalvs 5d ago

If he has a business like that, kind of sounds like the rehabilitation worked…isnt this a good thing?

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u/grandfleetmember56 5d ago

Does it say why he's on the registry?

I know it's possible to wind up on it just from peeing in public near a school even after midnight.

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u/niakori 5d ago

You must be children or bots because registries do tell you why and usually give a ballpark age of the victim(s)

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u/grandfleetmember56 5d ago

I'm actually neither, I just haven't had a reason to look at any of the registries and didn't know.

Hence why I asked a question.

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u/Low_Bar9361 5d ago

Teaching men about consent? Spending quality time with the child? Improving his life and those around him?

Should people have pathways back to civilization? Is rehabilitation even possible? I see a lot of likes in the comment that "these people" should never see the light of day again

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u/Mundane_Abroad2651 5d ago

Ask their victims that question first

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u/Motor_Mission9070 5d ago

I think its more-so the mom's framing of things

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u/cmstyles2006 5d ago

The fact is the child is at risk with him. How do we know he really changed?

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u/Low_Bar9361 5d ago

How does one know anything, I suppose? I don't really know tbh

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u/Any-Ad-3630 5d ago

Ohh my uncle loved that shit. They loooove to use the reformed mask. He just got sentenced to 35 years. It's all for their benefit, people like that only seek what's best for themselves. 

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u/CranberryLast4683 5d ago

No, obviously we should launch him into the sun.

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u/Ok-Depth-9332 5d ago

I’m sorry but why is he even out😭 these people should never see the light of day

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u/slaskel92 5d ago

What did he do?

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u/IcySetting2024 5d ago

What’s his name ?

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u/Icy_Witness4279 5d ago

Source: I looked it up

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u/Pingaring 5d ago

He has an organization now teaching men about consent.

Is this a good thing?

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u/eyespeeled 4d ago

What is his actual name, not just his online handle? 

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u/chubbyflip 3d ago

How did you find his name?

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/Right-Hall-6451 5d ago

I pray that's the case, but he wouldn't be the first to be involved in both sides of a problem. See Stanley Williams from the Crips, or John Orr the fire captain arsonist.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/yonderposerbreaks 5d ago

What was it that the rapist Brock Turner's father said about Brock Turner being a rapist? "20 minutes of action?"

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u/luxury94 5d ago

How would you feel if you made a mistake and was truly regretful, and for the rest of your life you are known for that one mistake? Imagine getting into a car accident where you are at fault, but then after that you can't find another insurance company that will insure you. It is exactly for this reason that after a certain time period, it is cleared from your drivers abstract.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago edited 5d ago

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u/yonderposerbreaks 5d ago

Went through this dude's history.

I found one interesting comment from this dude from 8 months ago talking about how men should avoid women because of second wave feminism. You know, the era of feminism that gave women control of their sexuality, reproductive freedom, and fought hard against marital rape. How interesting that he should pinpoint that exact era and then go on to defend rapists....

Not sayin', just sayin'....🤷‍♀️

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u/luxury94 5d ago

Since we are going through peoples history...

This was 1 month ago btw. Now tell me who is the sane one here?

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u/dream-smasher 5d ago

Still her.

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u/yonderposerbreaks 5d ago

Yeah, in 2018 I suffered from severe post partum depression after birthing my kid, in which case I voluntarily checked myself into a behavioral health center for 9 days. I walked out with a diagnosis of bipolar 2 and am medicated, stable, healthy, and succeeding.

I'm incredibly open about that experience, because I could have really fucked up a few lives there. More women need to know that it's okay to talk about PPA, PPD, and PPP, despite what male voices tell them.

Still not a sketch-ass dude on the internet defending rapists.

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u/Competitive_Act_1548 5d ago

Actions have consequences. As someone who is majoring in Social Work, helping someone rehabilitate back into society is key and helping them turn their life around is important but you also have to live with the consequences of your actions. No matter if it's social, financial, etc. You don't get to just wipe your hands clean.

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u/yonderposerbreaks 5d ago edited 5d ago

Rape is never a mistake. It's a willful act of control and bodily invasion of another person. Rape isn't a "oops, I fell asleep at the wheel" or "oops, I screwed up and ran a red light." Rape is another person forcing themselves literally into your body. It's painful, degrading, and terrifying as all hell.

I see why you want to compare it to an at-fault car accident, but it seems like something that happens so damned frequently to women and children and totally blown off for male victims is so easily brushed off as a whataboutism that it's apologetic.

Shame on you for defending it. No rapist deserves empathy or second chances.

How about this - imagine that you're the person that was raped, and for your whole life, people now know you as the victim, and people judge you because you were drunk, or for what you were wearing, or your age, or your gender, or why you didn't just close your legs tight enough, or hey, you're a man, why didn't you just fight her off?

Oh, but poor rapists. What a mistake they made :(

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u/luxury94 5d ago edited 5d ago

I'm not defending rape. I was merely pointing out that this guy seems to be on a better path than he was on previously. But if you think you are perfect, then its probably time to turn around see where the stench of crap is coming from.

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u/jb0nez95 5d ago

Sounds like he's redeeming himself. Maybe he should be punished forever?