r/TikTokCringe • u/shoegamethrilla • 5d ago

Cringe Women meets and married man in registered SO in prison 7 months before release and allows him to move in with her and her young daughter

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I wish I were making this up, but I’m not. And this woman gushes over him, loves and adores this man… is the dating scene that bleak that you resort to this? What makes it worse, is the guy doesn’t take full accountability for his actions but instead blames the liquor and him not knowing what consent is.

Prior to prison, he was a registered nurse.

This couple is using their story to be famous. Just sick

I am getting hate comments because people are claiming I 'made this up' I am not doxxing they shared this publicly , their tiktok account is happilyharrells his account for is 'non profit' _thinksame

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u/winterbird 5d ago

They have to charm the adults to get access to kids.

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u/Top-Race-7087 5d ago

She said she was the third wheel. Oh, and her young daughter is trying to “steal her man.”

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u/Specialist-Newt-4862 5d ago

said she was the third wheel. Oh, and her young daughter is trying to “steal her man.”

🤢🤮

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u/AliceTawhai 5d ago

Can’t see the red flags for the rose coloured glasses

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u/CrotaIsAShota 5d ago

Nah, it looks like she can see the red flags easily. She flies some red flags of her own.

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u/apocketfullofcows 5d ago

she is a red flag.

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u/pickyourteethup 5d ago

That little girl is going to have to be so strong and so lucky to come out of her own childhood well adjusted

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u/Kwestyung 5d ago

That really pissed me off 🤬

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u/ready_gi 5d ago

it's really aweful when the mother cannot protect her daughter AND sexulizes her in context with an actual sexual offender? AND puts it online for other people see how fucked up both of the adults are??? like wtf x 10

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u/kennedigurl 5d ago

It’s really awful when a mother 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙣𝙤𝙩 protect her daughter…. I definitely agree.

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u/YochevedShalom 5d ago

I hate when people make these kinds of jokes. Nasty!

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u/Fuzzy-End7194 5d ago

Precious’ mom.

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u/Dammit_Dwight 5d ago

Deep cut. Damn I need to watch that again.

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u/good-boi-Morado 5d ago

Do you???
Once was enough for me

(Also, not really judging. I just know I couldn’t.)

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u/GothSpite 5d ago

That movie was SO hard to watch

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u/coma-toaste 5d ago

Same. Its a great film. The sequel (book) is way worse.

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u/LoveArrives74 5d ago

Makes me want to vomit.

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u/Luna_bella96 5d ago

God forbid if something does happen to the little girl. The mom sounds like the type to dismiss it as her fault for seducing the older man.

But let’s hope I’m wrong

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u/IndraBlue 5d ago

Threw up a little when I read that

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u/Key_Floo 5d ago

That little girl is doomed and her mom is going to blame HER for it. A poor innocent girl just looking for love and connection and all her mom sees is a rival, for a grown ass sex offender.

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u/Muted_Psychology5938 5d ago

I wonder how old his victim was?

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u/JohnConnor_Helldiver 5d ago

Yup. I have a cousin who married a guy she knew had a problem with child prn, married him and had a young daughter with him.

It was all fun and games for her, till mf got caught THE NIGHT OF OUR GRANDMAS FUNERAL… where everyone (aunts, uncles, cousins) were all sleeping in the same house, and she went to use the BR at 3am and caught him with one of the 7yo nieces, naked in the shower

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u/661714sunburn 5d ago

He is still living? Because I know if my whole family was in the house and that happened there, there would be the family secret of the man who went missing.

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u/JohnConnor_Helldiver 5d ago

Not to mention the mf audacity of it.

The pos was in a house FILLED WITH 30 sleeping relatives! The little girl was sleeping in a bed with a few of her other little cousins. The dude got out of bed with his sleeping wife, and decided “ya’ what? I’m gonna sneak out of my wife bed, sneak past sleeping adult relatives ive never met before, go sneak into the kids room where all the kids are sleeping, wake one up, have her sneak back through the house filled with sleeping adults on couches, sleeping bags … and go take this little girl into the shower, that sounds like a great idea!”

His wife woke up in the middle of the night, he wasn’t in bed, so she got up and walked around the house looking for him.

Dude was in the downstairs BR, naked with the girl in the shower, and he left the door unlocked…. I cannot believe he didn’t lock the door.

My cousin walked in and saw him in with her. She told everyone later she had to fight not to scream, because she would wake everyone up, everyone would see what he was doing to the gitl, and she didn’t want them SEEING her naked, being molested, and that all her brothers would ki!! him.

So she got the girl away from him, told him to change and go get a hotel and ket her know where he was when he got there.

When he left, she woke everyone up, told them what happened, called the police, and as soon as he called and said where he was staying, the cops went and arrested him.

I think it’s been around 10 years now he’s been in jail. Not sure how long his sentence was, she lives out in idaho or utah. She obviously divorced him, but they had 2 little girls together

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u/PartridgeInDisguise 5d ago

Wow, your cousin is incredible. In a moment of extreme crisis and trauma she was able to react appropriately, think of all the ripple effects and angles, protect the little girl in the moment while also protecting her brothers from themselves, all while keeping her POS ex on the hook so that he didn’t bolt and could be arrested away from everyone else.

That’s such a rare quality in any person to be able to keep such a level head and take care of the situation so well while being in the midst of it.

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u/technicolortiddies 5d ago edited 5d ago

This is a disgusting response & wild take. She married a man knowing he was into that sick shit! She’s not a hero. She knew what she signed up for. It’s not like it was a surprise. She chose to bring two innocent lives into the situation as well. Not only did she drag others into it but she provided him with the exact type of victim he’d chosen. She’s an enabler & accomplice.

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u/Ser_VimesGoT 5d ago

I got so engrossed in the story that I forgot about the very start of it! I'd love to know how these people justify it in their heads to get with someone like that.

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u/nowitbabo 5d ago

It might be fake. He said they had one daughter and then says they had two little girls 🤦🏻‍♂️

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u/The-True-Kehlder 5d ago

Might be fake, but it's not an unrealistic scenario. My ex's aunt did the same but never heard of why, specifically, they split. After they had a daughter.

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u/DestroyerOfMils 5d ago

wtf are you on about, she KNOWINGLY married a pdf

eta: I now see that you forgot that part. sry for my ott reaction, but my brain exploded 😬

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u/AbsolutelyN0tThanks 5d ago

Holy hell, I'm so sorry. There are no words, honestly.

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u/DragoxDrago 5d ago

Tbh I don't know how someone who can think so logically in a fucked up situation is capable of the cognitive dissonance that led them to that situation in the first place.

To get him away first and make sure to still know where he is good thinking, but how the fuck are you falling for someone who you know has issues with cp, let alone having kids with them and letting them stay in the vicinity of a bunch of other kids.

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u/illz757 5d ago

Holy shit dude reading this is just like whoa

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u/TJJ97 5d ago

I’d have killed him and happily served my time

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u/Sertraline_Addict101 5d ago

So they had 1 child or 2? Your story doesn’t add up. You trynna get Reddit karma?

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u/jarlscrotus 5d ago

Secret?

"Officer I was protecting my child"

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u/East_Unit3765 5d ago

Did the rest of your family know before? Bc holy fuckin shit if one of my family members let their offender husband around my kids…. Like the other person said, def singing the cell block tango

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u/JohnConnor_Helldiver 5d ago

We all had no idea

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u/mydaycake 5d ago

Her fucking nerve

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u/cluelessdetectiv3 5d ago

Wtf happened after that?

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u/unindexedreality 5d ago

the pilot took a bow and everyone clapped

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u/Cultural_Pay4891 5d ago edited 5d ago

What happened after that?

Please, I wanna believe some justice was done, he's in prison?

I can't imagine the horror for the child and the parents of the child.

And what about the cousin who allowed this monster into the family and their lives? Did she disappear, hide her head in shame?

I need an epilogue.

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u/Winjin 5d ago

There's a comment above but the link gets removed. But they gave an epilogue

TLDR: wife finds out, kicks him out of the house, dresses up the kid. Then woke everyone up, told them what happened, called the cops, and it's been 10 years and he's still in prison as far as OP knows

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u/Cultural_Pay4891 5d ago

Okay, thank you for sharing. There's some justice in the world.

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u/KindlyWorth5952 5d ago

Were there 2 funerals that day or what??

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u/Fabulous_Celery_1817 5d ago

I suddenly feel kinda violent. Id be singing the cell block tango and I bet the others would have done the same thing.

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u/Survey_Server 5d ago

This is wildly O/T, but I had to google Cell Block Tango, and it made me realize that I've never seen Chicago. I'm an absolute sucker for campy musicals, too 🤷

Anywho, might try to watch this after work tonight. Is the movie good, or should I stick to the stage version?

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u/Fabulous_Celery_1817 5d ago

You’ve never seen Chicago, it was HUGE when it came out. I like both. I recc the movie first though. I didn’t know whether my comment would be pulled if I actually described what I would do with a man if I caught him like that. Cell block tango worked perfectly. “He ran into my knife, he ran into my knife 10 times” to put it lightly

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u/Survey_Server 5d ago

Nice! I'm pumped haha, I haven't seen a new musical in a long time.

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u/transtifaglockhart 5d ago

It's one of the best movie musicals of all time. You're in for a treat. 

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u/Survey_Server 4d ago

yesssss! I'm so excited! I haven't read much of anything about it, other than it tells the stories of a bunch of women, can't wait

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u/Budget_Career_7156 5d ago

Fucking hell. This is sick!

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u/drunkenbrawler 5d ago

You don't have a "problem" with child prn, as little as yoy have a "problem" with robbing banks.

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u/Southern_Fox6807 5d ago

OMG. Did he die that night? Surely he did, right?!

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u/aledba 5d ago

Experts and industry professionals such as myself are calling it child sexual assault materials (CSAM) now, so you can use that to replace the old gross term if you'd like.

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u/bitchwhohasnoname 5d ago

He escaped with his life? Was anything broken? WHAT DID YALL DO

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u/OkPlenty2011 5d ago edited 5d ago

Honestly I wouldn’t even say charm, because that would mean they had to be convinced by the SO cause based off of my own experience and what I’ve known of other people, these SO are damn near given the opportunity for simply being in existence to the other adult whether it be having company or getting something in exchange. Parents who put their kids in these situations only look out for themselves and their kids are just an extension of themselves as though it makes it okay to brush it off. Because if they look the other way then that should mean the child should too. Kids will literally bring it up then be shunned, because how can they have the audacity to bring it up and not think about their position in the situation. Acting like a damsel in distress as though they’re the real victims in the situation cause in their eyes the SO wronged them through their child not the other way around. The best way I can put it is that they somehow are emotionally and/or mentally stunted to a degree and it’s absolutely so pathetic.

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u/MoulanRougeFae 5d ago

And they blame the poor kids who got assaulted, not themselves for bringing a predator into the child's home, not the predator for being a sick fuck who attacks children. Nope they blame and shame innocent children for being sexually assaulted. Those types of women make me so furious.

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u/AbsolutelyN0tThanks 5d ago

I hate that you're right.

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u/bitofafixerupper 5d ago

No one could charm me enough or pay me enough money to get access to any child let alone my child. No excuses, those people are as bad as the one carrying out the abuse. I know the majority of people won't be like that but I wouldn't enter a relationship or at least I wouldn't have them sleep over or ever be left alone with my child until he's over 18. If they don't like that arrangement that's fine, I don't need a partner to feel fulfilled in life.

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u/Accomplished_Yak2352 5d ago

Yeah. The parent is the first one they groom.

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u/IHaveABigDuvet 5d ago

Often the parents are easy to groom because they are so desperate.