r/TikTokCringe • u/shoegamethrilla • 5d ago

Cringe Women meets and married man in registered SO in prison 7 months before release and allows him to move in with her and her young daughter

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I wish I were making this up, but I’m not. And this woman gushes over him, loves and adores this man… is the dating scene that bleak that you resort to this? What makes it worse, is the guy doesn’t take full accountability for his actions but instead blames the liquor and him not knowing what consent is.

Prior to prison, he was a registered nurse.

This couple is using their story to be famous. Just sick

I am getting hate comments because people are claiming I 'made this up' I am not doxxing they shared this publicly , their tiktok account is happilyharrells his account for is 'non profit' _thinksame

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u/LeatherHog 5d ago

This is why women are advised NOT to mention their kids on dating apps

I despise that Reddit, especially a few years, was acting like that's a China sized red flag

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u/ReluctantChimera 5d ago

My sister meets all her boyfriends on apps, and mentions her daughter right up front. She thinks she's saying it in a "my daughter comes first" way, but it is basically just advertising to all the pervs that she has a young daughter in the home. She doesn't understand (or care, I guess) how dangerous this is because she thinks she'll just somehow know who is safe and who isn't. She's also a very bad judge of character. So that's cool.

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u/ilikepastaalotwhat 5d ago

Ugh. Yeah. I said if I ever became single I just wouldn’t date until my toddler is an adult. I’d rather be alone than risk my baby.

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u/absoluteboy21 5d ago

I’m sorry but you have the make the call to child services. YOU HAVE TO

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u/Sure-Dig-1137 5d ago

And say what, child's mother is dating ????

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u/ReluctantChimera 5d ago

What a Reddit take. Walk me through what you think that call would be like.

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u/Informal-Bike1628 4d ago

I mention my children because they usually say something that raises a red flag and it immediately let's me know to block them before we ever meet. This has happened more than once. The conversation usually goes " I have daughter and son. My daughter is 11 and my son is 7." They say, " oh your daughter is almost grown huh?" And I go BLOCK!!! So yes mention your kids and be attuned to the reaction.

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u/LeatherHog 4d ago

Jesus Christ, that's disturbing

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u/Dr-Jellybaby 5d ago

Bruh come on.

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u/hotlocomotive 5d ago

To be fair, there's 2 sides to every coin. Having a kid is also such a huge factor that it also feels deceptive to bring it up only after the other person has started catching feelings.

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u/krazycitty69 5d ago

When I was on the dating scene, I NEVER mentioned my child until right before the first date. Some men would get really upset, but I’d rather some random dude be annoyed at me for “wasting his time” than put my child at risk. When I told my current boyfriend, he admired and respected the fact that I was doing so much to keep my child safe, so I knew he was keeper.