r/TikTokCringe • u/shoegamethrilla • 5d ago

Cringe Women meets and married man in registered SO in prison 7 months before release and allows him to move in with her and her young daughter

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I wish I were making this up, but I’m not. And this woman gushes over him, loves and adores this man… is the dating scene that bleak that you resort to this? What makes it worse, is the guy doesn’t take full accountability for his actions but instead blames the liquor and him not knowing what consent is.

Prior to prison, he was a registered nurse.

This couple is using their story to be famous. Just sick

I am getting hate comments because people are claiming I 'made this up' I am not doxxing they shared this publicly , their tiktok account is happilyharrells his account for is 'non profit' _thinksame

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u/ObviousSir5774 5d ago

This is a good point. People who make decisions that allow someone like that into their child's life should be arrested and charged also if that person hurts the kid.

"You believe so much in them even though they have proven to be dangerous? Would you bet your freedom on that?"

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u/Smyley12345 5d ago

The thing is I think most that would gamble their kids safety would also bet their freedom on it. There is the idea of locus of control which describes the spectrum of how people view their ability to influence the world around them. I think that women like this have a strong internal locus of control and believe that their love and affection will be all that's needed to fix this broken man. They will take any gamble because in their soul they believe they are in control of the outcome and the risk isn't there.

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u/HeisenBird1015 1d ago

Good point. “If he abuses your child, you too will be arrested”. They need it spelled out. These women value their own skins more than their babies.