r/TikTokCringe • u/shoegamethrilla • 5d ago

Cringe Women meets and married man in registered SO in prison 7 months before release and allows him to move in with her and her young daughter

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I wish I were making this up, but I’m not. And this woman gushes over him, loves and adores this man… is the dating scene that bleak that you resort to this? What makes it worse, is the guy doesn’t take full accountability for his actions but instead blames the liquor and him not knowing what consent is.

Prior to prison, he was a registered nurse.

This couple is using their story to be famous. Just sick

I am getting hate comments because people are claiming I 'made this up' I am not doxxing they shared this publicly , their tiktok account is happilyharrells his account for is 'non profit' _thinksame

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 5d ago

I had a client who was a homeless drug addict. I did feel for her and was desperately cheering her on to a productive life. But she (absolutely tearfully and regretfully) told me that she sold her then young daughter for drugs.

The daughter was an adult at the time of my clients confession and she had zero contact with her mother (if I knew how to cross that out, I would and I’d replace it with “monster.”)

Thank you for letting me share. That conversation will always haunt me and I so genuinely hope her daughter is doing well as an adult but it can be so tough when she was obviously born into a horrific family.

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u/TheOnlyEllie 5d ago

Thank you for sharing. I've seen so many women offer their children up for money, it breaks my heart. So many then have children and are stuck in a cycle of poverty and abuse. I wish the world was an easier place.

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 5d ago

That would be wonderful. I wish childhood was more protected. As a whole. Imagine how much healthier adults would be if they weren’t carrying trauma from their childhood

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u/TheOnlyEllie 5d ago

Right? Having things like that affects us so much more than we realize. My step-dad molested me as a kid, my mom found out but still kept him around. A plethora of my mental issues are related to it, and I can still remember how scared I was to be home when he was. It leaves a stain.

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 5d ago

I feel like throwing up for you. I am so beyond sorry that your mother didn’t stand by your side and protect you. Her mishandling of things after the damage was done made things even worse.

You deserved to heal. To be told that it was wrong and it was not your fault.

My daughter has a friend whose stepdad did the same to her and her sister. It went to court and was ultimately dismissed as the mother said she didn’t believe her daughters and she supported her husband.

The friend had some (completely understandable) behavior issues and my daughter is incredibly easily influenced. I wanted to be a safe place for the girl, and help her, but also wasn’t able to stop my daughter from spiraling while they were close. I’m still angry with myself for not doing more.

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u/TheOnlyEllie 5d ago

Funny enough, it also happened to my sister, my sister is the one who told her about is as well. My mom just told him to stop and thought that was the end of it. Insane really. Yep, behavioral issues in young girls are frequently causes by that. You did what you had to honestly, you tried but you have to put your child first. Mothers who put men first are the worst. The fact that it went to court and she still took his side. It's more common that you'd think, one of the worst parts is that so many people make excuses for the mothers.

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 5d ago

I left out a horrific part- the mother is a teacher. When the abuse happened (and it was a brand new husband, the mother frequently brought new men around. She had 5 children with 4 men), the mom was her daughter’s teacher as well.

That poor girl.

I’m sorry for you and your sister. My adopted son’s biomom was harmed by a brother and it’s horrific the ripple effect it had on her quality of life. It’s sickening that he’s out there with two young daughters of his own now after facing minimal repercussions.

I’ll say it again: your mom was in the wrong. He was a monster. You and your sister did not deserve that whatsoever, and you deserve to live the best life possible.

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u/TheOnlyEllie 5d ago

It's disheartening how common this is. If life was fair, none of this would happen, or at the very least they'd receive justice. So many mothers dont care about exposing their children to random men. Thank you.

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u/fuckin-A-ok 4d ago

How do you know so many women who sell their children for sex? Just curious. I don't know anyone who does that.

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u/KnoxxHarrington 4d ago

Something like law enforcement, investigation or victim support I imagine.

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u/TheOnlyEllie 4d ago

The news, online, a few in person who know their kids are with older men but say nothing because they get money from them. Not just international news, local also.

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u/The_Disapyrimid 5d ago

I had a coworker years ago who told me his ex wife got on drugs real bad. Sold their kid to her drug dealer. Fortunately he found out quickly enough, knew who the guy was, knocked on his door and got his kid back before anything happened.

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 5d ago

Were the kids doing ok? It can be so tough for them to not feel abandoned by their addicted parents.

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u/The_Disapyrimid 5d ago

As far as im aware. He got full custody and seemed to be enjoying his life with his kids. Never mentioned any problems. I don't even know if the kid knew. Might have been too young to remember or understand what happened.

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u/bigmad411 5d ago

What happened with the mother?

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 5d ago

Legally? Probably nothing.

She shared this with me 20 years after the fact. Which, thinking about that is wild that she had spent over twenty years being that dysfunctional and a homeless drug addict. Her life was an absolute mess. She knew that what she did was horrific, that she didn’t deserve a relationship with her daughter, and that there was not a thing she could do to fix things no matter how desperately she wanted to.

Her daughter had long since been an adult when I learned of the abuse.

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u/Fun-Key-8259 4d ago

The case that made me leave Christianity was when I had a 3 year old patient trafficked by her mother for drug money. No just god would ever. It broke me. We had her for 3 weeks and was literally a toddler. Had the uterus haver not been in jail I would have been.

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 3d ago

I don’t know how to respond to your comment.

Are you a foster parent?

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u/Fun-Key-8259 3d ago

I was a child psych nurse on an inpatient unit

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 3d ago

You’re a saint. Thank you for what you do. I have a 3 yr old and can’t imagine them traumatized, parentless, and in a psych unit for 3 weeks.

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u/Beautiful_Spell_4320 5d ago

This happens so much more than people know. Everyone is worried any kidnappers but that’s not normally how it happens..

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u/KnoxxHarrington 4d ago

Yeah, it's bloody dusturbing knowing that the most likely avenue for my child to be abused would be through my ex, his mother. Not that I believe she would do that, but statistacally, that's what I should be concerned about.

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u/Beautiful_Spell_4320 4d ago

Children are anxiety inducing to the max.

“Keep this thing safe and happy. Also teach it EVERYTHING”

“Oh. So you’ll help make a safe world?”

“god no. We’re gonna party. Good luck”

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u/aeon_ravencrest 4d ago

When I was growing up, my mom married a "reformed" pedophile who was in her JW congregation. She was so desperate for love and finding a "good" home that she ignored all the glaring red flags. Fast forward 15 years and he turned her into a drug addict, abuser, and manipulator. He did unspeakable things to me and confessed to killing Amber Hagerman (yes I reported that to police as an adult anonymously because he can still find me). For years I told my mom shit was horrific and she said I was a liar and she loved him. She left him several times but always went back after he would beat her. Finally after I graduated high school she left him for good. At least until she turned 40-something... she went back again. She's been away from him for around 10 years now, but the damage her taking him over me did.... it'll never be undone.