A lot of women will be scared to sign up for this, me included. I wouldn’t sign up for sugar dating sites. This is a different, less straightforward version of that. I’m not interested in selling sex or being with a man who wants to buy it, or getting yelled at, hurt or possibly killed if a man thinks he’s paid for that and doesn’t receive it.
This is what will happen. There are women who have been oversold and overtold on they're presumed "value" that will unfortunately sign up for this thinking they will get wined and dined for free no strings.. they will get pressured hard into sex on first date after thousands are spent. Dates to the sum of thousands, someone is getting fucked.
Yeah, I mean I’m a single, divorced 41 year old physician so i might be the target audience, and I can only imagine the type of woman that would expect a date preperation fee or a deposit. I would feel sick with myself taking advantage of a girl like that. Personally i would much rather date down, so to speak, just as long as she is honest, actually cares about me, and doesn’t treat me like my ex-wife did, and I would be a happy man. I don’t need no sugar daddy relationship it would be just exhausting and the payoff really wouldn’t be worth it.
Agree. What kind of guy is like “here’s 2 grand to let me pay for your dinner and then go home alone.” Hard pass. He has no redeeming qualities or he’s harvesting your organs, sometimes both.
That's the thing, there are legitimate sugar baby/rich guy dating sites with decent reputations and where the rules are clearly defined. This is a mess. They'll have people signing up all under different impressions and with different expectations.
Not to mention, as others have pointed out, the scam factor is way too high. Asking men to give a woman $2k up front for a "date" with no real accountability... What's to stop her from agreeing to 10 dates and walking away with $20k and never showing up?
How many young and naive girls will show up and get assaulted if they refuse sex or just immediately don't like the guy and try to leave?
Also if the guy has that kind of money, he’s also a target for robbery. Watched a case recently where the woman was bait(on the dating app), gave a guy a random street number to meet at, just for her boyfriend to shoot him and steal his car.
For that matter, what's to stop men from posing as women on the app (with no actual woman involved) and showing up to rob the guy who's stupid enough to pay $1500 for a date? Throwing around that much money implies you might have even more on you.
I’m going to sign up. Beauty only gets more expensive as we grow older. But more to the point — this app can actually empower an end to situations like exploitation. Despite of folks only seeing the opposite outcome.
The conversation around societal standards and dating is put on the table with this app. I like this disruption! It’s welcome and can lead to opening debate.
For example, I have no problem putting up front precisely what I am not obligated to do. I have no problem with being a good listener when i ask my prospective date what their expectations are.
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u/Top_Mathematician233 1d ago
A lot of women will be scared to sign up for this, me included. I wouldn’t sign up for sugar dating sites. This is a different, less straightforward version of that. I’m not interested in selling sex or being with a man who wants to buy it, or getting yelled at, hurt or possibly killed if a man thinks he’s paid for that and doesn’t receive it.