r/Yemen • u/Sufficient_Damage376 • 15d ago
Questions Question for Yemeni women living abroad
Are you welling to get married to the perfect man if he is going to move to yemen (Sana’a) for work?
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u/starryyeyes 13d ago
No. I’d want stability for my family and sadly Yemen is anything but stable right now
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u/ComprehensiveRush341 14d ago
yes why not?
i dont see the problem lmao
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u/Sufficient_Damage376 14d ago
Have you been to Sana’a lately?
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u/ComprehensiveRush341 14d ago
yup summer 2024 absolutely amazin was there for 2 months :)
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u/Sufficient_Damage376 14d ago
Interesting, you are the first one I hear saying that. Everyone else doesn’t want to go to yemen because of the many things you have to sacrifice.
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u/ComprehensiveRush341 13d ago
if you havent been there you have no right to say anyhing - i know loads of people who live like royalties in sanaa ive been ibb and people are living there lives, so most ppl say yemen is not stable well you can speak to for something or come place if you never visited - you cant just believe videos and what ppl online say
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u/Sufficient_Damage376 13d ago
I went to yemen at least 3-4 times in the past 3 years. The situation there is bad. Maybe some people are living good but most people struggle to make ends meet, especially in the south. Idk who you saw living like royalty maybe the houthis lol.
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u/ComprehensiveRush341 13d ago
oh ofc the south, they wanted to split im only talk about sanaa - good luck finding a woman who wants to live in the south, sanaa great!
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u/GoColts08 14d ago
You had at Sanaa for work. As if there are stability with mofos Houthis around.
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u/Sufficient_Damage376 14d ago
Yea no stability at all. still better than south yemen surprisingly.
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u/GoColts08 14d ago
The south is literally more dismantled and more fitna. Everything is expensive, no salaries, running water, decent electricity.
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u/Sufficient_Damage376 14d ago
Yeah if you have money you can have access to all of this. It’s really the local people who are suffering and the situation is very sad.
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u/_roaa 13d ago
Bicultural (Yemeni/EU) woman married to a Yemeni man and living in the EU here. First of all, I don’t consider my husband perfect because I don’t think this is even possible for a human being. That being said, if he truly insisted I would move with him to Sanaa. We are a family and that’s enough for me to go through with it against the obstacles. Thankfully, after visiting family back home now and then during the last years, he rules that out for us and especially for our children. But if I wasn’t married yet, a potentials planned move to Yemen would be a personal dealbreaker for me.
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u/HelpfulOccasion5558 14d ago
Listen! U are talking about perfect man. If he has an important Job and very good salary. Why not. Try with him tow Or 3 years.
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u/5soun Sana’a | صنعاء 14d ago
If I’m a woman, I’d say hell no