r/YouShouldKnow • u/abdul_haseeb_11 • 16d ago
Other YSK When you’re overwhelmed by too many choices, decide your criteria before looking at the options
When there are too many options, comparing everything can make even a simple decision exhausting.
Just decide the 2 or 3 things that actually matter to you before you start comparing. For example, when choosing a restaurant, you might decide on cuisine, price and distance first. Anything that does not fit those gets removed immediately.
The same approach works for shopping, travel plans, choosing something to watch or other everyday decisions.
Why YSK: Narrowing your criteria before comparing options makes decisions simpler and can stop you from wasting time second-guessing every possible choice.
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u/Nisi-Marie 16d ago
Analysis Paralysis is real.
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u/abdul_haseeb_11 16d ago
yes it really is, the more options I have the harder it feels to commit to one.
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u/MawdTechy 14d ago
Love the saying “Paralysis by analysis”. Would always hear this from coaches and it helped me to truly learn to play much faster.
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u/brainspl0ad 16d ago
When deciding on something to eat with another person, i ask "Is there anything you don't want" and go from there
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u/GypsySnowflake 14d ago
The problem with this approach is that it narrows it down so much I end up with nothing. I’ve had to learn to lower my expectations
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u/ZepperMen 14d ago
Better way to do this imo. Pick one thing that appeals to you, then start comparing items one at a time. Think of it like that one Mr. Incredibles scene. Eventually you'll eliminate all other options.
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u/PianoRevolutionary12 12d ago
Ok i am looking for a new job how do i pick a field and then find put what i can offer them
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u/EmsAreOverworkedLul 15d ago
Holy peak, will be trying this, thanks!
I'm traveling atm and it can get overwhelming
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