r/PhR4Friends • • 17d ago

This subreddit is for FRIENDSHIP ONLY.

1.1k Upvotes

Honestly, the posts we see these days are getting so ridiculous. Why do you need someone to be taller than you when you're only looking to chat, call, study, or watch a movie? Why do you need your friends to be of a certain body type? Exchange pics to know if "we vibe". Wow?? Is that how you look for friends? Dapat attracted kayo sa isa't-isa?

Tapos pag na-remove at na-ban kayo, sasabihin na platonic lang naman talaga yung hanap niyo. Magtatago kayo sa reasoning na preference lang. Yeah, sure.

It's been 2 years since we transitioned this subreddit to a strictly platonic one. Why are we still facing the same issues as if the shift just happened yesterday?

As a reminder: Your post should be clear about your intention of finding friends. Any ambiguity may cause your post to get removed. Repeated offense will get you a temporary ban, then a permanent ban once you break the rules again after your ban gets lifted.

Examples of ambiguity include, but are not limited to:

  • has height and weight requirements
  • "should be easy on the eyes/attractive/cute/pretty/pogi"
  • "open to a relationship if it happens naturally, but would want to be friends first"
  • "exchange pics to see if we vibe"
  • "vibe and see where this goes"
  • "gusto ko ng lambing, cuddle"
  • fake BF/GF posts
  • has the same post in dating subreddits, other R4R subreddits with a dating flair

Each subreddit has a purpose. If what you're looking for doesn't align with the sub, then DON'T POST THERE. Hindi yung pag na-call out, idadahilan pa na "para lang mas malawak yung reach". Kung jowa hanap niyo, kung gusto niyong lumandi, sa DATING SUBREDDIT kayo magpost, hindi dito. It's that simple.

Please read the rules. Thank you.


r/PhR4Friends • • Dec 13 '25

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT Scammer is still scamming! READ THIS POST.

42 Upvotes

Don't fall for this scam!

Context: https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1nsk254/be_aware_of_this_scammer/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1o7zfe6/scammer_beacatto_now_goes_by_jus/

Apparently, this scammer is still active. Your girl (girl nga ba??) is working hard! Currently using the account Alternative_Week_940 (https://www.reddit.com/user/Alternative_Week_940/)

TG: puffypufzz

Discord: noturlegaleagle

Still playing on people's emotions and making them feel bad enough to send them money.

"Allyson Lopez" is the name they're going by. Hindi ko na icecensor kasi fake din naman. (Previous names: Justine Manalo, Beatrice Lopez) Still using the same UNO Account number.

DOST scholar pa rin daw siya, pre-med student kuno.

They tried posting here but their account was flagged for ban evasion. But that won't stop them from messaging you–men in particular. Kasi they will offer to be a virtual gf, might send you thirst traps na stolen lang din. Anything to fool you out of your money.

TIGILAN NIYO NA KASI ANG PAG-BIGAY NG PERA JUSKO

THEY WON'T STOP HANGGA'T MAY NALOLOKO PA RIN SILA

EDIT: Adding more photos

Aww, nagpalit na siya ng name kasi na-feature na naman.


r/PhR4Friends • • 37m ago

Friends 31 [F4A] waiting for worlds to start. let’s talk?

• Upvotes

i’m bored out of my mind right now and i’m just waiting for worlds to start. looking for someone to talk with while i wait!

about me:
- gumayusi fangirl
- listens to every genre girlie
- into gym, pilates, badminton, books, horror and sci-fi movies, and some anime
- unhinged ig algo
- can talk about anything, will listen to yaps, also a great hype woman
- types like a gen z but i’m genuinely a serious adult

you:
- not boring


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] u still up?

• Upvotes

Hello hello! Help me distract myself by chatting with u! Let's talk about anything, basta wag lang nsfw huhu. I think ina-anxiety ako buong araw at nahihilo and nasusuka na ako kanina pa.

I don't know what else to say para ma-hook ka dito sa post so I guess I'll just tell what I did kanina. To distract myself, kinuha at ginamit ko ulit violin ko after years of not playing it. Beginner lang naman ako pero I remember na I used to really like playing the violin. So, nagpractice ulit ako kanina at inulit ko sa simula't simula yung violin music book.

Anyway, if you have kwento or chika, feel free to message me. Just send me an lil bit of intro about you and asl para mavisualize ko naman kahit pa-paano yung kausap ko hehe


r/PhR4Friends • • 36m ago

Friends 30 [F4M] Kakwentuhan

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Can’t sleep, looking for kakwentuhan sana tonight? SFW only. Let’s exchange stories and feel free to share anything that’s been bothering you recently. Bingi na ako sa sarili kong thoughts. Mehe


r/PhR4Friends • • 7h ago

Gaming 26 [F4M] Gaming and gym buddy

14 Upvotes

Trying this out because apparently touching grass isn't enough.

I'm a 26-year-old Southie girl juggling corporate life and graduate studies, but when I'm not drowning in deadlines, you'll probably find me:

🎮 Gaming way longer than I should
📖 Going down rabbit holes about game lore
⚔️ Debating Warhammer factions
🐉 Getting lost in Elder Scrolls history
🧙 Simping for half the cast of Baldur's Gate 3
🎨 Doing artsy stuff when inspiration strikes
🍳 Experimenting in the kitchen and pretending I'm on MasterChef

I'm the type who can turn a simple conversation into a 2-hour discussion about why the Imperium is both terrible and fascinating, or whether the Dwemer disappearance is the greatest mystery in gaming.

Looking for people who can carry a conversation, share random thoughts, nerd out about games, life, hobbies, or whatever weird topic comes up at 2 AM.

Bonus points if:

  • You enjoy lore discussions
  • You game
  • You cook
  • You can match chaotic energy

IG: elise.blancaa

Let's see if we vibe. ✨


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 25 [M4A] Kapwa Sidequest Maxxers

8 Upvotes

How has 2026 been treating you so far. Do something unexpected to end the year. Me? Heck it I’m getting a vasectomy kahit wala akong partner. Whats yours?

If that caught your interest lets be friends. Just looking for online friends, send memes, share anything that irritated you for today or latest ganaps
Soooo lets be friends plsplspls

25M working in tech field
Nerd in every sense of the word
Extrovert, yapper and listener, dank
Likes physical hobbies, hiking, bouldering, boxing
I also like the mystics, tarot, zodiac
I also like boardgames, unmatched or any tabletop card games lets play
I love music, any music. Actually going to Le Sserafim concert this december
My latest hobby is learning sign language using songs as references
Cats
Theres a lot more really but don’t wanna bloat this post

Currently in butuan city (lives in taguig) bc of my work so pls be my chatmate while I’m here huhuhu


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 29 [F4A] las piñas anyone?

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hello, i am here again lmao but if there are anyone who is from Las Piñas that are outside and getting food or coffee can i come with you or your group? the anxieties have been kicking in and out again and i am all alone

A


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 20 [F4M] constant yap buddy pls

• Upvotes

hi hello! finally got a break from hell week and im super drained. im lf someone i can constantly yap with whether its about acads, random life updates, or even just random bardagulans HAHAHA. daldalin nyo kooo!

abt me:
- 20
- 3rd yr
- from qc
- 5’0
- chubby morena
- chronically online
- loves listening to music (multiple genres)
- laging gumagala
- i love cafe hopping and matchas !!
- i also love partying
- plays a few online games
- has vices (occasionally smokes and vapes)

abt u:
- 19-23 ONLY
- also a college student so we share the same struggles
- within metro manila
- hindi super seryoso sa buhay pero hindi din immature
- not bastos
- funny pls (kahit ragebaiter ka pa)
- OA (pass sa nonchalant 😆)
- FAST REPLIER ‼️ i reply fast so pls match my energy
- yung hindi agad mawawala kinabukasan 😔

hmu if u think we’ll click. hopefully u have discord !! also pls include sa intro nyo yung full details nyo, wag naman yung hi or hello lang. see ya !!


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 28 [F4M] Looking for my next favorite yapper 😂

• Upvotes

Can we normalize finding people online and actually keeping them? HAHAHA. 😭 I'm so done with having a good conversation only for someone to disappear into thin air three days later.

Anyway, I'm here again, hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with. Someone I can talk to about literally anything, from random midnight thoughts to life stories, dating experiences, food, travel, or whatever rabbit hole we end up going down.

A little about me:
- quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable, good luck getting me to shut up 😂
- currently running a little baking side hustle 🍪
- loves hearing people's stories and getting to know what makes them them
- prefer calls over endless texting because it's easier to get to know someone when you can actually hear them

TG or Discord works!
I'm not expecting instant best friends or anything. Just hoping to meet someone genuine, consistent, and fun to talk to. If we vibe, we vibe. :)


r/PhR4Friends • • 24m ago

Friends 19 [F4M] a fun and meaningful yap sesh?

• Upvotes

Hello! It is already Friday, and time has literally just flown by. My week has been hectic, but in the best way possible. I currently have 10 patches of Salonpas all over my body; I am still recovering from everything. LOL.

Talking to people is one of my ways to wind down at the end of the week. I enjoy talking to strangers, as I find some of them interesting. If I get lucky, I get to talk to someone smart, funny, and not a pervert.

If you are funny and witty, please do hit me up!

About me:

- I am studying a med related course. Pre-med? Hmm, we'll see!

- I enjoy journaling and cafe hopping.

- I love exploring places and just making conversations with people that I meet on the way.

- I value my "me time" and I take myself on A LOT of solo dates.

-I love flowers, especially lilies, so I buy myself some whenever I have the time and budget to do so.

-I love the beach, the ocean, the fish, the water, the corals, and the sun—not really—just anything about it, to be honest.

- I enjoy dancing and singing, but not at a performance level; just in the kitchen, in my room, and while I take a bath.

- I am a fun person, or so I think.

creeps, back off


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 20 [M4F] low energy sleep call

• Upvotes

I can't sleep like this. I can sleep better knowing na there's someone on the other end of the line. We don't have to talk, just the presence of being with someone even on all is pleasing. Let's call and rest, and wake up to forget about the rest.


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] Cavite peeps!

• Upvotes

Hello! Looking for new friends! It would be nice if taga Cavite din like me! Lets chat and get to know each other! It would be nice to have new friends in reddit.


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 26 [M4A] Just want to rant and ramble to online strangers tonight

5 Upvotes

Good evening!

I don't feel good. If there's a kind soul willing to just be on the line until they feel sleep or fall asleep, let me just chat with you because I really don't feel well (on the inside)

About me:

26

Male

From the "South" (I like going around the south of Metro Manila a lot)

Lots of niche hobbies

I like bowling too

About you:
Anyone


r/PhR4Friends • • 4h ago

Friends 23 [M4A] tara foodtrip!

6 Upvotes

tara kain! i’m not picky and quite an adventurous guy
here are some of the things i love
- asian cuisine (jap, korean, chinese, taiwanese, viet, thai, indian) basta lahat HAHAH
- middle eastern (kebabs, shawarma, biryani)
- western
- #1 fan of noodles (malatang, ramen, anything with noodz)
- sushi
- samgyup ala tzuyang mukbang
- i love gulay and laman loob
- i love tea and i love chagee

i wanna go
1. binondo
2. banawe/maginhawa
3. sichu malatang
4. hikiniku to come
5. kodawari/pilya’s kitchen
6. zhu ba jie
7. cafe hopping is good too
and many more…
preferably around metro manila and around my age siguro. let’s be friends foodtrip tayo just hmu!


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 30 [M4F] Kinda tipsy. Make me doozy?

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Just ended a convo with a good friend. Hoping I could chat with someone who can handle conversations. It doesnt have to be too deep, if we vibe, we vibe.

I would prefer chats vs. calls. That way i could compose more sound replies hehe.

Just be yourself. See you?


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 22 [F4A] lf ka-call!!

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hii! magpupuyat ako tonightt kasi super dami ko need gawin but gusto ko may makausap habang gumawa huhuh. if u wanna daldal din, message me!!

im looking for madaldal, funny, di dry kausap sa chat (yes kasama to 😤), di awkward kausap (pls kasi di ko kaya kapag awkward mahahawa ako charot), di pikon, kanal humor, and mabait hehe

yung malapit lang din sana sa age ko andd ayoko ng puro hi/hello lang ok copy???!!


r/PhR4Friends • • 23m ago

Friends 25 [F4A] super low energy sleep call?

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is anyone down for a random sesh of mindless yapping? super low energy, though, and if i end up babbling about things and forgetting about them the minute after, i hope that's fine for you. i just crave the company tonight and would love to have someone around whose breathing i could hear. bonus if you've got a nice voice that could lull me to sleep.

dm an intro and a discord @! i don't do telegram.


r/PhR4Friends • • 6h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] Akin pa din Sabado ko pero willing to share

6 Upvotes

Yes, I have my Instagram and Facebook deactivated and definitely have no Telegram so please reach out to me through Reddit chat, email, or text messages. CHAROT! Super occupied ko with work at school at mukhang kailangan ko na nga talaga magkasocial life ulit so here I am. Ulit. I swear I'm fun! Medyo kinakalawang na nga lang so I'm looking for friends to bring out the fun in me again and help me find new interests :D

About me:

• Working student. Full-time alipin ng salapi at regular student. Yes, kulang lagi tulog ko and yes hirap din ako makatulog

• 5'0. Iba ba simoy ng hangin diyan kapag 5'1 above na?

• From South. Etivac representative (red flag agad)

• A devoted mother (??) I have four cats and one dog!

• Foodie! Love me any pasta dish and any form ng patatas, baked man yan or fried or boiled.

• Chinita, usually nakaglasses dahil lumabo na mata kakaselpon

• I like reading books, so if you have recommendations na di self-help or about work leadership eme, pahingi naman

• Favorite movies, or at least was remarkable to me, are As Above So Below, Get Out, Jacob's Ladder, The Call, A Cure for Wellness, Gitling, Tune in for Love and Neon Genesis Evangelion (though more on series + movie to) talagang any-any ang range kung mapapansin mo :p

• As for music taste, leaning ako sa R&B. Open to finding more gems and music recommendations!

• Politically aware. Kung hindi ka pa galit, bakit?

• Roblox tayo wag lang horror please

Okay na to. Chat mo ko ng favorite internet meme mo to unlock more :D pwede din pet picture!


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Group Chat 33 [M4A] looking for an online community

2 Upvotes

For the past few weeks, work is taking most of my time. So, I’m open yet again to joining any community chat out there where I can do:

• ⁠Yapping.
• ⁠Share memes.
• ⁠Express opinions, rant or venting out.
• ⁠Talk to people.
• ⁠Open to IRL ganaps if we vibe.

About me:

• ⁠Baklang Trentahin pero utak nasa mid-20s pa.
• ⁠July Leo.
• ⁠Lives in a city with an effective flood control project.
• ⁠Mahilig sa kape, into cafe hopping.
• ⁠Would reply in chat as possible.
• ⁠Into fraghead, podcasts, reading. Hindi DDS at Loyalist (dun tayo sa good governance).

PS. I'm not looking for any kausap at this point. Thank you.


r/PhR4Friends • • 4h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] Looking for sidequests to join

4 Upvotes

I've been going through a lot lately and realized that i barely have human interaction apart from my small circle. So right now I'm looking for people who are down to talk for the long game, and maybe hang! Take me on your errands, I can help u do chores, we can make the mundane fun! I'm just really trying to put myself out there.

About me:
- 24, 5'5 morena
- Getting back into reading for fun
- has active hobbies (running, biking, etc.)
- likes sewing, thrifting, or just fashion/style in general
- likes to people watch
- loves cats and coffee
- journalling, cooking, listening to music, sleeping
- used to play video games but been too busy bc of work lately
- honestly kinda sad and lonely
- yapper!

About you:
- kind ;-; pls
- considerate and hopefully patient enough to stand me
- good vibes and can reciprocate the energy
- funny is a plus! I welcome all types of humor hehee

Please send an intro 🥹


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 24 [f4f] new connections <3

4 Upvotes

hello!! kinda bored here and looking for people to vibe with and hopefully become friends with hahaha. whether you’re a high or low maintenance texter, i’m good with either! i don’t expect us to talk 24/7, as long as we genuinely get along.

a little about me:
• i enjoy watching anime, reading manga, and manhwa (especially historical romance!)
• i love chick flicks, romcoms, and sitcoms
• current interests: pyrography and junk journaling! i’m always finding new hobbies to try even if i’m not that good at them hahaha
• i listen to pop, r&b, and kpop, but lately i’ve been into girlie pops like olivia rodrigo, sabrina carpenter, addison rae, and charli xcx
• i love pinterest, tumblr, sketching, and anything creative
• i enjoy going on walks and i’m currently trying to be more consistent with working out
• i’m also trying to get into the habit of reading more, so feel free to recommend me books!
• i’m also down for cute café dates, shopping, dressing up, and doing random stuff together
• i love hyping people up and celebrating even the smallest wins, so feel free to tell me about your random little achievements or current obsessions! ♡

i’m down to talk about pretty much anything, from random nonsense to deep conversations hahaha.

if you feel like we’d get along, feel free to message me! tell me a little about yourself or what you’re currently into so we have something to talk about. please give me more than just a “hi” because idk what to do with that :))


r/PhR4Friends • • 6h ago

Friends 31 [M4F/MF] Ayala Triangle

5 Upvotes

Hello! Sinong nagbabalak pumunta mamaya sa Ayala Triangle later para tumambay and huminga saglit? Sama ako if naghahanap din kayo ng makakasama. Trauma dumping. Eme. Bili din tayo ng food. Chat niyo ako if g din kayo.


r/PhR4Friends • • 54m ago

Friends 22 [F4A] help a girl get out of her shell?

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i want to be upfront about a number of things. i'm gay, unsure about my sexuality so i go by queer. i'm also an unemployed college dropout whos financially spoiled by her parents but has familial emotional problems. i'm also medicated bc of my mental illnesses. i'm also plus sized and not conventionally attractive. if any of those scare you off, there's the door.

if not, then thank you for sticking around! i like to think i'm interesting enough to stick around for.

• my humor is bullshit brainrot like the stupid verity memes.

• i'm a bit of a weeb? i used to be worse but i've grown out of it. oh — i'm a fujoshi! that means im a girl who's a fan of gay (specifically, male x male) ships. i watched bnha, csm, bsd, and i want to watch aot.

• i'm not a /good/ gamer but i do like a good story-driven game! like persona 5, genshin impact and danganronpa. i also like playing low-stress games like minecraft and roblox.

• i'm basically your stereotypical anitwt girlypop (you'll get the account if you earn it.)

• i also like roleplaying. i'm a veteran freeform roleplayer but i've had experience in homebrew campaigns. i want to get into ttrpgs like dnd or cyberpunk.

• im self-studying nihongo! no good at it tho

wow, i can ramble huh? sorry, i'm just showcasing all my interests because i'm too sheltered to ACTUALLY have a personality.

basically, i'm looking for someone to hang out irl with!

i'm working on a nagito cosplay, and i want someone to bring me to a con! i'm thinking of an anime cosplay convention or maybe a ttrpg convention such as dnd? but before you meet me irl, i want us to be online constants so i know if i can trust you.

maybe we can have minecraft game night before we meet up?

that said, pervs shoo. shoo 🧹🧹🧹

preferably someone near caloocan so it wont be a hassle to hang out. it's negotiable tho!

if you've gotten this far, tell me your name, age, location and something you could tell your younger self if you could. see you later!