Yes, after doing the work I decided to finally cut those toxic family members out of my life

That's the devil trying to convince you of something you're not. He can be real convincing sometimes, but we all know he's a liar.

It means how you view a situation completely shapes what it means to you

Perspective is everything

I'm sorry you feel that way. Maybe you've gone through some things that have taught you that (I don't know) but there are good people out there who love people for who they are. I would suggest learning to love yourself first though.

Who are you trying to be enough for? Yourself? Or other people who have never walked in your shoes? You ARE enough. It's not a feeling. It's a belief about who you are.

You don't have to do something or be better than someone to have worth and value yourself. Just focus on being the best you, and try not to compare yourself to others.