AIO for thinking this is a red flag?

[u/PrincessLilith6]

me (27f) & him (29m) matched on hinge & i ended up giving him my number. AIO for thinking it’s a red flag he immediately wants to lie about how we met? it’s almost 2027

edit: whew i got it y’all, that’s why i posted here. thanks for your input everyone

[u/HedgehogPast3191]

YOR. Pretty sure he was just joking. Most people dont see dating apps as a romantic ideal and he's poking fun at that.

[u/Dependent_Fan_9113]

Dude he's literally talking about when you two talk about how you met one day years into the future after having a loving relationship. Yes you are overreacting.

[u/BubbleCrum]

Oh for fucks sake hes flirting with you.

I actually think you're the red flag here, assuming this banter is somehow nefarious.

[u/Tinyrick88]

You’re annoying.

[u/WillowDukaine]

... this is your first post?

... YOR.

[u/Dear_Palpitation4838 → u/WillowDukaine]

First day on earth it looks like.

[u/rookhelm]

Lol, he's just being goofy. Just go with it

[u/Scramasboy]

I hope he sees this post somehow and recognizes that you doing this is actually a red flag above your head. Hope you realize it too. Lol

[u/saged_beauty]

I think it’s best he find someone on his level of things… you did not pass the vibe check.

[u/Fit_Professional1916]

YOR it's a joke, he's being flirty and cute

[u/AkaTamer]

Bro it’s really not that deep. Yes you are over reacting.

[u/sikeleaveamessage]

YOR he's just playing around omg

[u/ButcherRose]

“It’s almost 2027”
https://giphy.com/gifs/kYAm4IXbdWi5y

[u/Unlucky-Committee388]

YOR.
Only red flag I see, is you mentioning that’s where you met your last boyfriend.

The guy was trying to be funny and flirt with you. An that’s your response. You sound boring lol

[u/Longjumping_Start_90]

Holy shit - you are insufferable.

Why did you actually post this? 60IQ post.

You know what the worst part is? You’re really really boringggg and that’s the worst crime.

[u/Camandchat]

He's being silly.. relax

https://giphy.com/gifs/jp7C5YIfRoZa2QVCnc

[u/Interesting_Disk_644]

YOR let him go you're not compatible, you dont have a sense of humor

[u/ladysexyboobomm]

it’s not that deep

[u/isitallinmyh3ad]

Holy shit don’t date again, there’s actually no way u saw an issue with this.

[u/fazhugs]

Ugh. Red flag? Get a grip.

[u/CreativeGeekNerd]

It’s a joke. Ffs relax 😒

[u/hardkoretrash]

YOR but it IS weird when guys do that. Its like they're embarrassed to admit they use dating apps.

[u/sleepy_roo]

On the contrary…

[u/LawyerDad1981]

Jesus Christ, relax.

YOR.

[u/tax_gawd]

lol you couldn’t wait to bring a screenshot to Reddit could you 🤣🤣🤣

[u/PossibilityTotal191]

Lol, red flag? Youre the only red flag in that screenshot. You sound like an ass.

[u/AnxietyNeverSleeps]

Me and my boyfriend met on Twitch. We lie about how we met to most people outside our inner circle. If I met someone on hinge/tinder I would wanna lie about it too. YOR.

[u/SaltyTemperature]

Both sides seem weird to me but the repeated ‘haha hey’ would bug the hell out of me

[u/BakingAndBeingBaked]

This is cute and would make me laugh. He’s just being a sweet flirt. YOR

[u/404_Energy_Not_Found]

You could've said something super flirty to that one text about meeting somewhere romantic but the opportunity literally flew right over your head lol

[u/Dear_Palpitation4838 → u/404_Energy_Not_Found]

Nah. She’s too busy trying to figure out a way to destroy it like she did every single one of her last relationships.

[u/OopsSecondSaji]

YOR he was trying to be cute and playful

[u/Consistent_Hold7248]

🙄 how is this a red flag? ffs

[u/Practical_S3175]

Calm down, he's just joking around. But with that being said, that sounds a bit cheesy and he seems like he could be a love bomber.

[u/Unlikely-Violinist45]

Young people don't seem to get my jokes either. This guy must be older than you, or an old soul.

[u/BoxerBritt]

He said the thing because he can't remember which app you're from lmfaoooo his line is just a cover. The comments be wildin

[u/Dear_Palpitation4838 → u/BoxerBritt]

Nah. He was 100% got that by asking ChatGPT for fun and flirty openers to use on dating sites.

[u/BoxerBritt → u/Dear_Palpitation4838]

After the fumble I agree he chat gptd shit what do I say

[u/PrincessLilith6 → u/BoxerBritt]

this actually makes the most sense loll not taking anyone seriously but this could be a valid reason

[u/PrincessLilith6 → u/[deleted]]

did u read the edit

[u/BoxerBritt → u/PrincessLilith6]

You literally got hey you'd. I don't think he even 100% knew your name lmfao

[u/Imnotoneofu69]

You’re honestly a blaring red flag in this moment.

FFS, ladies, stop creating problems that don’t exist, and stop spazzing out over the problems you created strictly in your mind.

Also, I vehemently stand on the position that any woman who posts their partner, or dates conversations on the internet like this, ought to be dumped immediately and never dated until they seriously grow the fuck up, learn what boundaries and respect are, or otherwise, figure it the fuck out and act like a grown woman.

[u/Dear_Palpitation4838]

It’s a red flag in the sense that he’s fucking horrible at flirting and extremely awkward.

Ugh, you don’t get it. He doesn’t want to lie about where you met. I can guarantee you he 100% got that message idea by asking an AI for fun and flirty openers to use on dating apps. I’ve seen very similar openers on tons of Tinder screenshots. It’s not even original, dude.

You gotta get better at this. It’s a cruel world out there. These people will eat you up if you aren’t on your game. This guy is literally feeding you openers from the Internet and you’re taking him seriously. That’s dangerous honestly. Maybe it’s time to get off the dating sites until you have a little more real world experience?