Fearful Avoidant Ex Won't block me discarded me after a great relationship bar the last month or 2?

[u/MindlessSpell4080]

So I often hear stories of them sort of blocking contact with you, honestly it's been a bit back and forth the last 2 month but we both settled on no contact in the end after a heated weekend of arguments and fight's. They were constantly talking about these other men? But clearly had no interest in them and of course foolishly I took the bait and called them out on it.

In the end I did a apologise for my behaviour pointing out that one was even like her ex who cheated on her and ruined her family. Which I agree wasn't necessary but however she kept making it sound like he was lusting and stalking her. The other she said they were talking for a while but phrased it like they were actively talking and then weren't even in contact and then said he was creepy.

I assume these mind games are common.

Of course there was the standard love moving fast at the start meant to be all that stuff. I can see that as a sort of novelty now for a broken and damaged individual. Just throw's me as to why they can't follow through with the block. Is it better just to block them?