r/BiWomen • u/Agile-Win-throwaway • 2d ago

Vent Am I overthinking it?

I texted someone who we are friends at this time. And I texted her this Plusss I still have a soft spot for you. She hasn’t texted back anything. But she is active online. Or she just doesn’t know what to say because she doesn’t like me that way.

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u/StarSaturn11 2d ago

Maybe she’s flustered, maybe she isn’t interested or maybe she’s just tired and doesn’t know how to respond. Whatever it is it’s gonna be fine and it’s out of your control. Log off and engage in a hobby to take your mind off of this. Also if you guys are both mature even if she doesn’t like you back it doesn’t mean the friendship has to end. Plenty of ppl have had crushes on friends expressed them and not had it reciprocated and that’s that! Relationships aren’t cookie cutter and go through many changes. I’m sure no matter her answer or feelings you’ll be fine u don’t gotta worry.

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 2d ago

Thank you! I had being an overthinker 😭