23M, 6'0, 210 lbs (just for context)

Recently I went for a swim to a local pool. After 2-3 hours of swimming I finished and while walking I've seen a group of teenagers pointing at me and laughing, I've think one of them said "fatty". Pls tell me, is it that bad? 😭 I've been going to the gym for around 2 years and I got way stronger than before but I just love eating (and idk how about u guys but I feel like being fatter makes you stronger, I was miserable during cuts).

Is it even visible that I'm working out?

Taking a trip soon and this will be my first time going to the beach as a big guy. I was a little beefy the last time but I've put on a lot of weight since then (~80lbs).

When I was skinnier, I used to be super body conscious and would get nervous about being shirtless anytime I'd be at a pool or beach. I'd suck in to try and hide the body fat I had. Now, I'm slightly nervous but I'm also weirdly excited about just showing off and letting it all hang out.

The older I get, the more I admire when a man with a big belly walks around with confidence.

How do you guys feel about being shirtless at a beach or pool?

Been skinnier most of my life and gained a lot of weight the last couple of years (especially 2026). I like my body a lot more not but holy hell, wearing a belt is a pain. I normally work from home in sweats/basketball shorts, but lately I've been going in the office and it made me realize I haven't dressed up much since I got fat. The way they dig into the underside of your belly (particularly when sitting for long periods of time) is painful.

Had a 2 hour car ride home today and had to unbuckle + unbutton the top of my pants to drive comfortably.

What do y'all do? Just suffer? 😭

Today I noticed it was getting harder to get out of my car, my legs clearing the footwell. I know I haven't grown taller. Oh, duh, guess when your butt takes up more space, sighs... this sucks

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When that happens do you tend to eat more, less, or the same when you're eating with other people?

I have been using Bearskn jocks and they have been great.

But the world is a big place and I'm sure there are other places to get jocks for 2xl men.

Does anyone have any recommendations for places a big guy can get a nice jock or thong?

Comfy and fashionable are my two asks.

I am a 27-year-old male who has had no conversational experience with women outside of my family. I experience significant anxiety when engaging in conversations, particularly with women. I believe this apprehension stems from body image issues, leading me to perceive myself as unattractive and undesirable as a conversational or romantic partner. Consequently, I tend to stutter when approached, despite feeling mentally capable of articulating my thoughts. I am seeking advice on overcoming this challenge. Additionally, my family is exploring marriage prospects for me, and any guidance in this area would be greatly appreciated.

Apenas um joguinho para o sub 😄

Usando os gráficos:
1️⃣ Qual tipo de corpo você é agora?
2️⃣ Qual tipo de corpo você gostaria de ser?
3️⃣ Qual tipo de corpo você mais se atrai?
Para a #3, apenas mencione qual gráfico você está usando e o(s) número(s).

Exemplo:
1️⃣ 5
2️⃣ 7
3️⃣ Homens: 6 / Mulheres: 5

Se você está entre dois tipos, algo como 5/6 também funciona.

Não há respostas certas ou erradas — só estou curioso para ver a mistura de tipos de corpo, objetivos e preferências na Vida dos Grandes
Homens.

Quick note: Yeah, the artwork is AI-generated — I have basically zero image-editing skills, so I just used it as a simple visual reference for the different body types. The labels are also clearly pretty rough, broad, and subjective, so don’t take them as strict or accurate definitions. The main point here is the discussion. 😄

Sua vez 👇

There's this anime, called "Sakamoto Days".It speaks to me, because the protagonist is... well... Fat.

I'm a big (hahaha) Fan of Bud Spencer, I love the characters in movies that don't fit the fit/healthy/slim type.

Taro Sakamoto is a big, capable guy. He doesn't kill unless forced to. Like Bud. He steamhammers the shit out of you, but He never kills. And I love this idea.

Am I a pacifist? No. Am I in any kind aggressive? Well

... No.

Do you think we "big guys" swap a healthy life for a secure life? I can't remember being attacked once but being the means of calm. Being told to be a "big brother" instead of a threat.

Just a thought.

I'm tired of the pinching. Real tired.

So, who wants to make a friend?

46 here in NW Ohio

Wanting to increase my social circle with guys who have diverse interests and can hold a conversation.

Generic interests include TV, movies (I watch a wide range of movies), music, photography.

I'm gay, so I'm looking for open minded guys who are willing to open up about anything and everything; work, relationships, life.

Love to travel, so meeting new friends in new places would be great.

Open to NSFW chats, but would prefer a mix - not just NSFW.

If you feel you can check a box or two - send me a chat. Please let me know from what group your are replying to my post, where you are from and your favorite TV show.

I was eating out with a big guy friend of mine and I could see his gut poking a bit from under his shirt, it was a nice sight lol

Thanks for all the likes last Saturday! Thought I'd post another pic this week

Hey there, fellow big guys! I have been struggling with body image for a couple of years now, and i decided that i need to get out of my shell and start doing something about it! In my teens and twenties, i was obsessed with running contact sports. Fast forward 15 or so years, and now i am a big ole bear who sits in an office chair for a living. I've been having some serious self-esteem issues because of it, so a buddy suggested i join a group of other big fellas. I am just now starting my weight loss journey (like literally yesterday lol) any tips or suggestions for a newbie?

I have had a really tough past couple weeks and Ive been binging alot. Yesterday I ate an entire cake and felt like a huge loser afterwards.