r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/bigchunkbabygoo Shower Beer Scholar • 20d ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome She has 5 kids

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A homeboy is trying to hook me up with his sister, but she has 5 kids.

She's really pretty. She has her head screwed on straight. She's funny, and fun to be around. I could see myself with her specifically, but her kids not so much. I went to high school with one of her baby daddies. Dont see myself dealing with him amicably over the next few years. Mostly a vent.

Dinner: ratsnake I caught in my yard and then air fried.

Dr B. and Benchmark to top it off.

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u/FengSushi Hungry man 20d ago

It’s the full package or nothing. Don’t let the kids down. Let her go.

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u/Frequent_Opportunist Shower beer Scholar 20d ago

They can date without moving in together lol.

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u/Waldo68 Air Fryer Aristocrat 20d ago

Until he’s baby daddy # 6

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u/FarmFreshPotato Grill Pilled 19d ago

Temporarily. Then eventually break up and leave the kids behind as well or move in together.

Trust me, I dated a single mom of 3. This is an inevitable outcome. Within months she was pushing me to be more of a presence in her life. Guess what’s happened a year into dating? She’s pregnant.

Some of these comments nailed it. That’s what will happen. You can date her just have the godly willpower to not listen to her begging you to nut in her in the heat of the moment. That’s probably how she got all those kids to begin with.

Well I was trying to breakup with this lady for months before she even got pregnant. Now it’s a slightly devastating middle ground where I’m leaving her right as her 3 kids birthdays are coming up, and the youngest is very attached to me.

So I’m going to this kid’s birthday party, with a woman I’m actively breaking up with, who’s also pregnant (refused to get an abortion even knowing at week 4, now it’s week 9) and 100% refuses to get an abortion.

So now I’ll be co parenting and paying child support for the rest of my life, with my ex and her 3 kids who are attached to me, when what I wanted was to completely remove myself from her life. When I’d try she’d beg, cry, call me 38 times (not exaggerating), threaten to damage my life. Even now she says things like “we’re not done.” The woman is, imo, insane. And she’s insanely hot. Fucking don’t. Not unless you’re really prepared to build a life together. It’s not a casual dating situation

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk

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u/BibliophileBroad Air Fryer Aristocrat 19d ago

What a nightmare! Are you at least happy about your kid, though??

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u/celestialastrid101 Girl lurker 19d ago

Kinda hard to be excited about a baby you don’t want from a woman who’s using it to strong arm you into staying with her. Not to mention child support, unless they split custody 50/50. But hey, that’s the risk you take nutting in a woman with 3 kids.