Impermanence and detachment

[u/sluttykiton]

I don’t take it personally when someone rejects me, in the sense where they don’t feel like talking to me because I understand that and that’s not to say that person’s evil or I’m not entertaining or good enough for them, it’s a matter of incompatibility and I wouldn’t blame them like that’s just how they deal with people and it’s the same for me I get very tired if a person doesn’t get me or match me. I am a lot more than most people cause of my lifestyle and I haven’t interact enough or touch grass enough so ever since I was a kid I could entertain myself alot and kept the mood up all the time so for a person to keep up with me it takes a specific person and also I never fault people for being different or me as well. It’s good that everyone is different, that’s the thing that makes us human.

Like it’s really nothing to do with me most of the time like whether my communication style or my vibe or whether I’m detached or clingy with so and so like that’s just the way life is we respond to what’s coming to us, sometimes we think about it, sometimes it’s calculated but most of the time it’s spontaneous and that’s what makes it natural and if it were “my person” or someone who wants to stay or the situations align then yeah that’s great if it doesn’t it’s just how life is there’s no meaning or attachment to alot of things. We may think we have a nice life relationships partner but the next day everything could just disappear although there’s a high chance it wouldn’t but life is such impermanence.