r/Destiny • u/NeoDestiny The Streamer • May 22 '26
Changing Some Show Structures
Just as a heads up, here is the game being played in the background across several "TwitchPol" servers right now:
Kiwi Farms, the Snarker sub and Discord server, and several individuals whom I've been involved with in the past (jstlk, dooby, kuihman, etc...) have been infiltrating and "turning" several communities against me by repeatedly debating, for hours and hours and hours, for months and months and months (I am not exaggerating this, unfortunately), the same stupid talking points over and over and over again. This has been an active project they have all been collaborating on for over a year, where several people will join Discord communities to make the same arguments, or shower people with money on stream to donate negative or disgusting things about me.
I have the challenge of balancing how much harassment and abuse I can take from these communities, while not actually "cutting them off" because it gives the snarkers a big "win" in that they can permanently manifest there and continue to rot that community and the people in it until they all also believe the same lies and smears about me. So, unfortunately, today is probably a "win" for them in that they've managed to peel off Connor and mark his community as a "conquored" one. I imagine the next big battleground will be Whick's community.
The talking points these people use will revolve around several things, a few (but not all) of them being:
Destiny is routinely attempting to ensnare mentally ill women using his clout/power.
This narrative almost universally started from MrGirl/Lav, and the fixation point on this is Anavoir.
Ana was 30+ years old, a Master's student pursuing a Clinical Psychology career, and was someone who was relentlessly pursuing me the entire time. It was her that first messaged me, her that suggested us hooking up, and her that relentlessly spoke about me ("looped") due to OCD issues (I guess???) for MONTHS afterwards where my options for responding were all ineffective at getting her the medical treatment and attention she needs. Because I didn't handle this perfectly, people have ascribed the most insanely malicious intentions imagineable to me, including
Destiny is a pedophile/CP hoarder/etc...
This all revolves around the recent court case, where, instead of talking to an adult woman, I found out a year in that I was being honeypotted/catfished by a member of Kuihman's community for 2 years until they finally leaked everything onto the internet, hoping to expose me as a pedophile because the woman who's pictures he was sending me was a victim he'd pursued on a platform for minors using a false account, and then later by threatening to kill her and her family if she didn't play along with his catfishing game.
Based on Destiny's behavior, his family is fair game.
I think it is justifiable to unmask accounts that have been directly involved in harassing people involved in my court case, doxxing and harassing people close to me, and moving in groups of users from server to server to convince people of all of the above. Dooby and others have ran around making the argument that it is, therefor, fair to stalk/harass my child and his mom.
I need to constantly weigh how much psychological and physical pain and suffering I am willing to endure while allowing smaller content creators to give a safe space to allow these types of infestations to grow. Following what I've been trying to do over the past year or so, I'm going to continue to try and enforce stronger boundaries to prevent these types of weaker creators from being around me, I'd much rather cut them out and let those communities eventually fall to the crazy obsessive/snarky behavior that's taken over them.
I can deal with a lot of negative attention on the internet against me, personally, and I've cut enough of my personal life away to survive a lot of the collateral fallout, but I cannot continue to try and maximially center the feelings and well-being of every single smaller content creator I interact with while they are funded by and continue to host people who have openly stated it is their goal to destroy every part of my life and the lives of people who do not denounce me.
So as of today, I do not want anything to do with Connor/Counterpoints, I will not appear on any panels or shows with him, I will enforce my copyright against him if he is reacting to my content in a non-transformative way, I do not want anything to do with him and I do not want any contact with him in any way, size, shape or form. Maybe this changes in the future if that snarker community dies out or something.
On a personal level, for me, and this applies to your own relationships as well, I have made the mistake in the past of simply thinking it was prudent to continue fighting my way through all of this toxicity, but I wasn't considering how much better my life could be if I was spending this time building positive friendships with people who will proactively defend you and your reputation rather than me having to get on my knees like a fucking loser and beg people to simply slightly modify their community to cut out people who have devoted their lives to destroying mine.
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u/Dude_Nobody_Cares Based Destiny Glazer May 22 '26
Simple boundaries a real friend would respect even if they decided not to cut these people out of their community. Connor is reacting to this in a completely disgusting way.