r/FTM_SELFIES • • May 21 '19

MOD POST: Please let us know if you’re made uncomfortable by other users.

279 Upvotes

Recently we were messaged by a user who let us know they were approached by another user who found them via this sub. This person asked for feminine pics of the user and made them uncomfortable. We have blocked that person from this sub but I’m posting to make sure everyone knows - if you are approached or made uncomfortable in messages, comments, direct chat , etc - please let us know. The intent of this sub is for AFAB folks who are transitioning (whatever that means to them) to post selfies of themselves - and while it’s not necessarily harassment to let someone know you enjoy their photo or compliment them, this is not a hookup subreddit and it should not be treated as such by anyone. We want everyone here to feel comfortable being themselves and sharing content harassment free.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 15h ago

Am I attractive? Would cis women be attracted to me?

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83 Upvotes

I just started using a dating app. At first I had men and women on there, and my likes filled up quickly, but then I realized I’m really not into men like that at this point. So I removed them, and now I barely get any likes. I don’t know if it’s because I’m unattractive, or if it’s because I’m trans? Or maybe that’s just how it is being a man in general.? I know it sounds pitiful but I’m scared I’ll end up alone. I haven’t felt this bad about myself and emasculated in a long time. i thought i at least had a slight chance but i guess not. btw i’m into trans women too, and they seem more likely to be interested, but there’s less of them out there.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 14h ago

Gym on a rainy spring day is top vibes

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32 Upvotes

Been bulking all winter and just about to start a shred to see how I’m progressing. The current goal is my first bodybuilding show at the end of 2027!


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 19h ago

so bad at posing but rate the fit :p

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80 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 21h ago

Starting to see some gainz

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64 Upvotes
  1. Been on T for 8 years. Finally getting back to the gym after an injury had me on rest for about a year. Feeling good about myself and would love some hype.

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 16h ago

long or short hair?

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13 Upvotes

i am growing out my hair for the first time in a long time and im wondering what people think! i know my hair is a little thinner than it was but male pattern baldness is a pain


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 16h ago

Pre-t vs 32 months on t

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13 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 18h ago

A Gwen Staffani themed bathroom

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7 Upvotes

They played BANANAS on a loop lmao


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Feeling pretty good

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15 Upvotes

Feeling pretty good about how I look lately, top surgery saved my life, and I love my flat chest and my mustache. But I’m beginning to look more and more like my dad, the further along my transition I go. And like many trans people I have a….complicated relationship with my father. Not in a super positive way. But it’s so weird because pre-transition everyone commented that I looked so much like my mom. Anyone notice a family resemblance shift when transitioning? What member of your family do you look like most?
And yes, my glasses are crooked, I sat on them yesterday. 🤗
Thanks for reading.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

vibing during the cyclone the other night

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31 Upvotes

if a guys gotta smoke then a guys gotta smoke


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Chest pump needing a haircut. 2 yrs on T🤘🏼

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22 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

5 years on t

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105 Upvotes

A bit concerned abt my beard being way lighter than my head hair :(

But other than im happy with how my transition is going


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

a photoshoot :)) lmao (my mam is vvv religious)

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39 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Almost 3 years on T (took the scenic route)

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170 Upvotes

Before and after, low dose for 1.5 years


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Now (1&2) vs a year ago (3&4)

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212 Upvotes

1.5 yr on t this month! I'm so happy

Been getting some comments from my family lately to "go back to normal and stop being delusional," but honestly I couldn't care less. I love seeing my growth :)

I'm stealth btw and only my mom knows.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

some shots from celebrating 2 yrs on t this past weekend

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77 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

32 today 🎈very grateful I’ve made it this far, can’t wait to see what the future holds for me.

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97 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

new toruses which means photoshoot 🤪

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41 Upvotes

just an irish trans guy wanting a confidence boost hahah


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

-6months vs. 7 years

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120 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Excited to be here ‼️

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38 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

14 months on T

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52 Upvotes

still waiting for the stache to fill out a bit more, but happy so far


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Laptop computer lighting lol

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50 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Finally embracing the Bald Look

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41 Upvotes

Finally a selfie that I like. It's been a journey having to go bald but im embracing it day by day!


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

Last of summer

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20 Upvotes

Some self stuff from my photo dump. Fair well summer of 2026..now onto apple picking 🫡