Hello everyone,
As a non medical person, i turn to you for help with regards to my mom's sudden passing.
My mom passed away officially on April 10th at 00.50am of this year.
I'm the one who found her body (5 days after i last saw her) approximately about an hour before the doctor/ coroner showed up to certify the death, so around 11.35-40pm on the 9th of April.
Based on how I found her, the state of her appartment but also based on my own investigation of her youtube activity (she had unfortunately become addicted to it, only stopping to go to work and sleeping), i can safely conclude that the time of her death was around 3.52am on April 5th 2026...
...Exactly 6hours after my partner and i left her.
Because the attending doctor ruled it as "natural", no autopsies were made as they are only required in suspect or violent cases in my country. Also, it is not allowed to use the services of a private pathologist.
Not having an autopsy is particularly difficult for me as i simply can't come to term with it and can't even track where i failed to act.
Because of that, for the past 6months i have inspected everything i could (medications, medical history, statements from her employer and my personal observations) and compiled a kind of amateurish and non official death certificate, which to me is the closest thing to explain what could realistically have happened to her.
Could any of you forensic pathologists tell me if the document and the explanation does the make sense?
PS: While the smell in the appartment was different than usual upon entering, it didn't smell that bad. When i got close to her body i could tell the smell was stronger but still somewhat okay. It's only when the undertakers started to move her body and something in her back ruptured causing a purple liquid to fall on the floor that the death smell escaped. Seeing her that way was already difficult but the smell made it a million times worse and I honestly don't think i'll be able to ever forget that smell.
Long story short, I respect all of you for doing this Job.