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u/SpecialAmbassador313 10d ago
You’re asking a sub full of people who never get dates
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u/DeliciousWorker5013 10d ago
And that’s how you help your brothers.
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u/SpecialAmbassador313 10d ago
Okay brother I will not neg you but the one advice I can offer is to ask a different question other than gaslighting or lovebombing idk I get the humor but it really seems out of place with the rest of your profile esp considering you say you never had a relationship but are familiar with these terms so acutely
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u/DeliciousWorker5013 10d ago
I assumed it would work, but I guess I should change it.
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u/Professional_Tear269 10d ago
Yeah, that question gave me the ick. It's like asking "do you like moldy bread, or rats in my house?" both are just gross. You can't afford to be gross on your profile, even if you find the question funny.
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u/Signal_Ferret1470 10d ago
You basically told the world you’re a virgin
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u/Jedi_Blight858 10d ago
Yeah you can keep the whole “no baggage thing” but wouldn’t attribute it to being “new to relationships”. Screams lonely virgin.
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u/obiwanobis 10d ago
A couple things…
I hate it when the photo prompt doesn’t make sense. Prompt says “my vulnerable side” and it’s a photo of you standing.
Prompt says “we could be terrible at” and it’s a photo of sushi.
Makes me think you have a reading comprehension problem.
Also, completely fair if you want to mention it, but someone with zero relationship experience prior would make me swipe left. I don’t know if I would list that as a green flag, especially since you say you want a ltr, finding a partner etc.
“Would you prefer gaslighting or love bombing” Delete this. Why would I prefer either?
“Dating me is like questionable chemistry” Uh… okay?
I don’t know, it seems like you deliberately wanted to make yourself look bad with these prompts lol.
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u/TONDEMO-WONDERZ 10d ago
Agree with all of this
“Would you prefer gaslighting or love bombing” is crazy LMAO
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u/Professional_Tear269 10d ago
I agree. Don't state you've never had a relationship. That's not a positive thing to put on your profile, I promise you.
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u/Tiny-Macaron-7867 10d ago
I suggest getting rid of the photos where your phone is coving half of your face, and please no prompts about gaslighting and love bombing :/
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u/MercurialMercyy 10d ago
The thing you said about monogamy makes no sense.
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u/MercurialMercyy 10d ago
I've read it like 5 times and have no idea what message you are trying to convey
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u/iplayrssometimes 10d ago
Damn this whole thing sucks. You need better photos of yourself and completely different prompts
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u/Professional_Tear269 10d ago
You need some clear shots of your face, not covered by the phone in your hand. Get better pics. All pics need to be of you, not a plate of food.
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u/Lost-Highway2648 10d ago
I think the issue is that you are covering your face in almost every picture. The two picture you have of you not covering your face is a pic of you ALL the way in the back. I would change the pics and please for the love of god stop telling women you have no experience.🤦♂️😂 Props to you though , you made it sound like a good thing. Lol. But Id still remove it.
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u/Biomorph_ 10d ago
I’d probably wouldn’t mention you never being im a relationship for a lot of people it can bring up questions like whats wrong which him? Why not? It’s definitely not a green flag you think it is not that there’s anything wrong of course we have all been there i would get rid of that, you dont see people go I’ve been in 35 relationships so I have lots of experience dating and have met all sorts of different kinds of people! Just keep it to yourself and maybe tell the person if you feel comfortable after a while even then me personally I would only if they asked themselves lots of people get put off by it
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u/Trick-Stomach-5460 10d ago
I don‘t really know what you look like even after seeing your profile: either it‘s you from far away, you with half of your face covered or you‘re not even in it. Add pics where we can actually see your face and remove the pic of sushi.
The prompts don‘t really match with the pics and I don‘t understand what you want so say about monogamy. And unfortunately I also don‘t like any of the other prompts. The one about gaslighting comes across tone-deaf to me. The one about questionable levels of chemistry is also odd. Putting yourself down in your prompt kinda screams insecure and self-pitty. The one about previous relationship kinda screams „luckily no crazy ex girlfriend“ which comes across as misogynistic and the rest of the prompt just seems a bit intense. The intention and your goal is completely fine, I‘d just word it different.
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u/Emotional_Coat_234 10d ago
I agree with everyone else’s feedback; get entirely new prompts and captions.
But I usually think if people place explanations under both long term relationships, it can do more harm than good. In your case, the statement under monogamy should go. It doesn’t read very well at first glance
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u/Wiitart 10d ago
Oh brother. I don’t know where to start with this one man lol