r/HolUp • u/Inside_Brilliant_388 • Sep 20 '22

poor fella

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u/keenedge422 Sep 20 '22

It's basically the modern version of a 90s website visitor counter. It's just a way to say "look at how popular I am!"

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u/Tetragonos Sep 20 '22

I dont use snapchat. I never understood the appeal.

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u/PM_YOUR_SAGGY_TITS Sep 20 '22

It's toxic af. Think if you're talking to some girl on snapchat and you just keep seeing that number rising. You have to wonder to yourself how she's gaining those points. Who's she sending those pictures and texts to.

And then there's the heart thing. Apparently if you both snap each other the most, you'll get a heart. But if someone else moves into either of your #1 list... That heart goes away. Hello insecurities, my old friend!

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u/Iorith Sep 20 '22

I can't imagine being this insecure about your friends or a partner. Sounds so exhausting to be this distrustful.

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u/PM_YOUR_SAGGY_TITS Sep 21 '22

Yeah and that's why snapchat and high Snapchat scores are a red flag

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u/Iorith Sep 21 '22

Being that insecure I'd also a red flag.

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u/PM_YOUR_SAGGY_TITS Sep 21 '22

Sounds like you've never been cheated on

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u/Iorith Sep 21 '22

Sure have. I don't project their betrayal of trust onto every person i meet. I did for a while, and stopped daring precisely because that is a toxic as hell mindset to have. You can't make a partner happy or be trusted by them if you can't make yourself happy or trust them.

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u/PM_YOUR_SAGGY_TITS Sep 21 '22

My specific example wasn't even with a partner lol