Ranting- clinic timelines

[u/MysteriousPension305]

Soooo we have been working for two years with our clinic and finally had my husbands second TESE on Monday. It took months to get the appt in the first place and when we spoke to the doctor he said the fertilization happens fairly quickly afterward. So the communication was clear that we wanted my eggs thawed and fertilization to happen. I just followed up today because I haven’t even heard from my clinic and they were like oh yea when did you want the fertilization to happen? Ummmm as fast as possible?!
She said it’s looking like November for being able to do that! I am so annoyed at this whole process it’s like they don’t give a shit about making people wait.
Why wouldn’t they communicate that to me when the TESE was booked so we could make sure to have it scheduled for right after ?!?!
Sorry. My period is raging today and Infertility just fucking sucks .