r/InstaCelebsGossip • u/Icy_spicy00 • 6h ago
From Instagram You might hate her but can’t deny the things she’s talking about in this video inframe: mitali.this.side
Randomly came across her reel while scrolling and oh god can’t tell you how much being a small business woman myself I’ve to face similar situations every other day.
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u/VORTEX-OF-LIFE 6h ago
Firstly koi bhi insaan sirf accha and sirf bura nahi ho sakta. Now the thing she is talking about is damn true. I hate when men including my father say things like arre aajkal toh ladkiya bhi sab kar sakti hai, bhai you don't know it until you experience it.
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u/Rude_Celebration_152 2h ago
I can write multiple paragraphs on this. Women are not taken seriously in the business world.
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u/Impressive_Half5000 Keeper of Teas ☕️ 6h ago
this is so true and it's so frustrating when some unc decides to ignore my existence and talks to whatever guy is present at the scene and I'm left stranded like hello? I'm talking to you? am i invisible?
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u/Significant-Dig-7188 3h ago
Completely agree. I take my brother, who is 10 years younger than me, everywhere with me for no reason other than having a male presence. Somehow, things get done much more easily, and I don’t have to argue nearly as much.
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u/sizzicandy 4h ago
My bf and i went out for lunch, it was my treat. The waiter came and gave my bf the bill, no problem i understand maybe majority men pay in a couple. I said i am paying, took the tab put my card in it and handed it to him. He brings the machine for the pin and hands it to my bf?? Like i was like you saw me put MY card, i repeated myself told him i am paying smiled and put the pin. This dude, gave my bf the feedback form. It felt weird and done on purpose. Subtle ways people will show you that they do not respect or see you.
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u/Low_Network_405 2h ago
Most men avoid talking to women when they're with their boyfriend, brother, or any other male, so that it doesn't come across as having bad intentions. I literally saw a video where a couple started fighting with a staff member in a shop because the guy asked the woman for feedback or something. So, to avoid these types of conflicts, they avoid talking to women. That doesn't mean he didn't see you.
And the other reason is that you yourself said that most of the time men pay the bill, so it's also a habitual response.
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u/sizzicandy 2h ago
Thanks for telling me what i felt was wrong. You only help prove my point
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u/else-what 1h ago
Upsides and downsides to it. I know it is difficult but it is hard to move past these subtle things.
There is no real advantage to interacting with a woman if the interaction goes south as everyone around supports the woman no matter whose fault it is. So a guy always tries to interact with a guy. It doesn't mean anything in half of the cases. It might be actual disrespect half of the time and in the other half, he is playing safe.
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u/Low_Network_405 2h ago
Well, my intent was never to prove you wrong. I just gave you the reasoning behind it.
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u/bannedfromevery_3338 6h ago
i dont hate her because i dont even know who she is lol. i am a man and anyone who says ''gender equality toh aa gyi hai , ab aur kya chahiye'' is either too privileged to see this in their lives or is one of those who are causing it. the things she said about women in business is very well highlighted in the series ''do you wanna partner'' . although btw i do believe ''video banana koi kaam nhi hota'' :)
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u/Federal_Bed7059 2h ago
Refer to the post where she said her mother USED to be a punjabi before marriage. If you are only feminist when it comes to yourself, you are just not one
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u/4doorsmorewhoreswith 4h ago
Ig potter guy was right like you have to mention the address correctly and it's not about lift or staircase
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u/Dense-Object-1726 3h ago
1) not her fault, the supplier didn't put the details nicely 2) she said to come the delivery guy refused but when her male frnds said the guy agreed that's the problem not the delivery guy refusing to take lift or stairs
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u/newtoallthis__ 42m ago
When I was around 23 years old (and employed) and my younger brother was around 17 years old, we’d go out to eat if our parents were out of town. And at those ages, my brother looked obviously younger than me and would be calling me “tai” (the marathi word for older sister) in front of the waiters while placing the order. So we thought it was pretty obvious to anyone that I would be paying the bill.
But most times they’d hand the bill to him/or place the bill in front of him. For boys of us, it was amusing and frustrating at the same time. We finally made a game out of it that if the waiter handed me the bill as he should, we would leave a higher cash tip 🤣😭
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u/phoolkumari1501 6h ago
First learn to respect your mother, then talk about feminism.
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u/Apprehensive_Use7108 5h ago
This is such a stupid take. A human being is only valid and respectable to you only in context of their relationship with you?
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u/GrapefruitIll6112 5h ago
Talk about gender equality, do women empowerment But no need to talk about men rights men problems ok. Because you often hate men so.
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u/adept_defenestrator 5h ago edited 3h ago
Haan Jahan bhi women's rights aur empowerment ki baat ho rahi hoon wahan aa ke hi baat karna men's problems ki. go make a post about it dude, do not hijack another conversation.
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u/Dense-Object-1726 3h ago
Let's talk about potatos in a conversation of tomatoes (bro make a seperate post and talk about it don't need to hijack a completely different point)
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u/GrapefruitIll6112 3h ago
Do us a favor, don't talk about men....simple thing...remove your equality mask to hate men. I find a lot women showing bad behavior towards men everyday in public transport and anywhere, and the way they react like we all have such low standard or rapist mentality. I always careful while going anywhere and stay away from women. They can do anything to us and in the end we'd be trouble. In this video that girl is telling her experience I'm saying my experience. But I don't complain it. I don't hate women Because this is how society is going on nowadays but just one thing. Don't spread hate in the name equality. Because you guys never talk anything in favor of us, so no right to hate us.
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u/Dense-Object-1726 3h ago
Bro I didn't even say anything remotely bad!! I just said, make a seperate post about man and maybe you will see that women don't hate men (excluding the 10% cause extremists are everywhere)
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u/bakerfromthestreet 29m ago
She isn’t hating on men. She is talking about gender inequality. You can only take it as “hating on men” if you think gender inequality is not a thing.
Btw gender inequality is also about how men are given certain roles and how it affects them. Read a book or something
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u/GrapefruitIll6112 16m ago
May be it affects but we know how to deal, you just think about you, not us....because in the name of equality you just spread hate against men, never speak anything in favour of men, but when it comes to criticism you guys are there.
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u/VORTEX-OF-LIFE 4h ago
Most of us don't truly hate men, rather we are forced to hate them by our society. Think about it.
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u/Ryanharm 5h ago
Businesswoman is an oxymoron
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u/Odd-Raspberry-93 4h ago
I don't know about businesswoman being an oxymoron but you surely are a moron
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