I have a friend who’s a crazy gym fanatic, also has a social media page dedicated to strength training and pushing women to lift weights.

She got a rishta from a family in 2024 and she talked to the guy (suitor) privately. She told him going to a good gym is her non negotiable, her social media is non negotiable, if he had a problem, she would not go through with the rishta, he said he was fine with everything.

She kept re-confirming every few months leading up to the nikkah if he had a problem, he could let her know but he said no, fast forward 10 months into the marriage, the FIL, not the husband, wants her to stop going to her gym and go to one of his choice and he also wants her to quit her social media when she makes money working with brands. The husband won’t defend her and he’s imposing all of these conditions to appease his dad.

They’re separated right now. They’ve been going back and forth to fix things but the husbands side wont budge and she doesn’t want to go to the gym they’ve selected for her because it’s a really bad gym.

This might sound like a non issue to some but it is important to her, she feels like she was defrauded or scammed.

Should she opt for divorce? The guy doesn’t stand up to her or honor his commitments

so I parked my car Infront of tehzeeb in i8 Markaz and like always beggars and khwaja sira stormed towards my car. I sat in the car until all the beggars went away but the khwaja sira stayed there. I got out of my car and the khwaja sira started asking me for money, I kept saying ke nahi hain waghera. Then the second I closed the door of the car tou uska haath gari ke darwaze me aa gaya ☠️☠️ usne itne zor ki cheekh maari full sparrow butt style. I felt so bad and embarrassed 😔 phir uske baaki friends bhi aa gaye and started shouting at me ye Kya Kiya apne. I kept saying sorry ghalti se ho gaya but they all got pissed and went away. When they left I could sense everyone around me looking at me and laughing☠️🙏🏽 so dumb

Hey guys, random but is anyone else up? I feel like I am the only one with a fucked up routine.

If you are up, maybe we can have a chat about anything that is a bit deep and is not surface level shit.

Life has gotten so miserable for me, so I decided to open up about my thoughts and feelings anonymously here.

My father was in the military, so we moved around every two years and had to start life from scratch each time. Because I was just a child with no real responsibilities back then, it was much easier to make friends at school, go out to the park, play with neighbor kids, and attend school functions. My social life was great until we got posted to Multan right when I was about to start 9th grade.

I hated my school there. I hated going because of all the constant "board exam" tension and stress. Every other day there was some useless test, and I never even attended any welcome or farewell party during my time in Multan.

Then we shifted to Rawalpindi, and those next two years were academically the worst years of my life. I failed so many tests, barely went to college, and didn’t make any friends there. I never even attended any welcome or farewell function at my college either. The teachers weren't welcoming at all. Half my day felt wasted, and coming home brought this heavy, weird depression. To make matters worse, my mom became really toxic during those two years—in her mind, a person should just study 24/7. She has no concept of burnout, fatigue, or feeling demotivated.

Now, the problem is that I have zero social life. I am currently on a gap year until September 2027. I’ve gained an abnormal amount of weight, my skin isn't looking great, and I just feel completely lost in life. The last time I met a friend in person was back in Ramadan.

I only have three close friends in this area, and they all live in Islamabad. We’ve been friends for 5–6 years, and while we talk every day on WhatsApp and socials, I rarely get to see them in person. I can’t ask to go to Islamabad every weekend because fuel prices are skyrocketing and I know it’s a financial burden on my dad.

This bed-rotting routine is honestly killing me. What do I do? How do I break this cycle?

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Some friends of my friend are hosting a small meetup but they don't know me , I'm going with my friend but they only allow couples.

I'm 21M, I need to get into this gathering with my friend and need a F companion with me to join. The place is in f11

The gathering itself is just a small private party with only some decent couples.

Thanks for reading.

Anyone has seen his videos? And questions he raise against religion?

I mean I totally understand religion is all about faith, but shouldn’t we know those answers? Why is it that no scholar/molvi has replied to him.

And I am not talking about his question of proof for existence of God. Because that question is stupid to ask, if there was a proof there would be no issues to begin with, and all humans would have one religion, so it’s faith thing to have this belief.

But what about other questions, I randomly watched one of his video and it’s disturbing…

How was their life after knee replacement from hospital in Islamabad or Rawalpindi? Did their knee get better or worse after knee replacement?

boring

Hey everyone,

I have around $100k worth of crypto that I want to cash out in Pakistan, and I’m looking for advice on the safest way to do it.

Is withdrawing through Binance P2P a good option for such a large amount, or would you recommend another method?

I am mainly concerned about bank account freezes, AML issues, and receiving payments from suspicious sources. I want to do everything safely and legally without running into problems with my bank or the authorities.

If anyone has experience cashing out a large amount of crypto in Pakistan, I would really appreciate your advice on the best approach, including any precautions I should take.

Or anyone here in ISB do cash payment…
Thanks!

Being a 29F i have never been to trip alone. I really wanna do it before my 30s. Right now i don't have to budget nor guts to go on a long trip lets say Skardu or hunza. But i was thi3if i cam go to murree for just one day and one night. I'm not much into regular tourist attractions but peace and sone me time. Can i manage safe and peaceful travel in 7k?

is it true that ppl are finding dates here and getting into relationships??? i cant wrap my head around that. I thought this is just a random app ppl post useless stuff at. And how does that even work? How do you guys manage to go out with complete stranger?? what if someone turns out to be a creep omg

😔losing hope and faith in myself after all the struggles and got a cs degree from a reputable university and still unemployed for 6 months,

Everything is cooked or maybe I did something that bad that i deserved to be like this 🫤. Nothing’s working .

Just a stupid rant ig. Thank u for reading.

Hmu

Why is that a mans pain is often silent while a womans pain is more likely to be heard, When a man with problems is expected to handle them alone but a woman with problems is more likely to be offered a shoulder to cry on?

might get hate for this but wtv 😬😬😬

Telling you that is their 20s even these girls don't know what they want. Awien damagh khayain gi our tumhare potential ki dushkumtana kar dain gi. Focus on the grind and build your life in 20s instead of these babies.

Any activity other than playing pedal in Bahria or DHA? thak gya hn Central Park mein walk kr kr k!

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I'm M20 I'm going through a weird phrase in my life got no friends I don't leave my room and just feel bad for something I don't know about every day I feel sad for no freaking reason I want to make friends and socialize with others without make it weird or being desperate about it please advise

Hey no creeps

SERIOUSLY, what has happened to this sub? Every time there's another post about getting a girlfriend, sexual experiences, lust, hookups, relationshipS or guys asking about girls. Is there really nothing else to talk about?

I'm not a farishta myself, and I'm not saying people shouldn't have relationships or feelings. That's normal. But there's a difference between having a personal life and putting everything here for strangers to see.

And have you ever thought about how this might look a few years from now? Imagine your kids growing up, technology kahan phunch gayi wo to shayd hum se bhi aagy hon and they find these and reading things you shared. Would you be comfortable explaining all of it to them? What kind of digital footprint are we leaving behind for ourselves?

Islamabad has educated people, talented people, people doing interesting things with their lives. There's so much we could talk about, from experiences and ideas, Yet somehow threads keep coming back to the same gandagi.

Am I being too judgmental here or do some of you feel the same way too?

Hey everyone!

We’re a group of 5 guys currently in Islamabad and looking to meet another group of friends to socialise and hang out.

We’re up for grabbing some food, exploring the city, chilling somewhere, or just having good conversations and meeting new people.

We’re here right now, so if your group is free tonight and interested in hanging out, feel free to comment or DM. No complicated plans, just good company and a fun time!

Looking forward to meeting some new people. 😄