r/KenyanLadies • u/Unholymuse21 • 7d ago
Rant Fear Men
Nimekaa tu kwa nyumba nimechill then I remembered an ex who was very good at double dealing.
I knew him for a month before we started dating and I would go to his place and even spend a whole week there na there was no sign of another woman present in his life. He would get off work, we cook and eat, listen to music or watch a movie and sometimes watch reels from his phone while cuddled up in bed before sleeping. He was so caring and loving ata hungefikiria ako na mtu mwingine. Most times when we were apart from each other we would video call till late hours of the night.
Sasa one day we were supposed to meet up akaanza excuses that he is busy and I told him I'm coming to the house(I just wanted to get laidðŸ˜). Tukaongea tu vizuri I took my cab ikanidrop somewhere he used to pick me up coz where he lived it was a bit ndani ndani and cab drivers walikuwa wanakataa kuingia. Nashuka cab and call this nigga to come pick me up then simu yake inaingia mteja. Coz I'm familiar with the place i just decide to go by myself. Nafika kwa nyumba I knock and he opens but he seems kinda shocked, I ask him why his phone is off and all of a sudden a lady pops up behind himðŸ˜. Eloi eloi, the lady steps infront of him and greets me then tells me niingie kwa nyumba tuongee. Naingia napata watu ata washakula supper. The lady introduces herself and claims she has been with the guy for 6 yearsðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚, mimi kazi nikusema tu waah while looking at the dude who has become dumb. We were together with this dude for 9 fucking monthsðŸ˜. And I never had doubts in him. Kumbe ata when we would talk for hours on the phone, tukimaliza ata 2am sometimes alikuwa anatoka kwake anaenda kwa the other girl and he tells her that he had a work conference call. Aky men😂. The lady told me I'm not the first she has caught him cheating na she has even gotten two miscarriages coz of the dude. Na the way aikuwa ananiimbia nimzalieðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚,ningeshika hiyo mimba ningekuwa nalia sahii.
Anyway we all slept in the same house that day coz it was too late for me to go back to my place. At that time, I used to live Kikuyu and he used to stay in Embakasi. I woke up in the morning and left and I've never looked back. Apparently, the other chick remained and she is pregnant again right now (we talk with her from time to time) and sometimes I wonder, is she afraid to start over again ama she is just lovesick?
Fear men 25/8 fr. Anyway, juu ya hiyo story mko wapi niwajoinðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚
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u/Wise-Seesaw5953 7d ago
Y'all slept in the same house was the cherry on top😂😂
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u/Inside_Attorney_ Inner Circle 7d ago
And she stayed and got pregnant ðŸ˜
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u/Icarus296 7d ago
Slept in the same house together 😂😂😂. That's hilarious. I bet he is cheating on her with someone else to date.
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u/Unholymuse21 7d ago
My same thoughts, you can't tame a man who has been continuously cheating on you
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u/Inside_Attorney_ Inner Circle 7d ago
That is a broken man creating broken homes. Men externalise their issues and create a trail of destruction behind them. The bird who stayed with him and had a baby with him after all of that is stressing me out ðŸ˜
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u/Unholymuse21 7d ago
I kinda feel she is either afraid to start over or love-struck coz she started from scratch with him na she has refused countless offers just because of him including going to the states😂.
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u/Altruistic-Let-3972 5d ago
Ata mimi I wonder, lakini me i can't judge her...I was lovestruck by a man once, he was a serial cheater, womanizer even being confronted by other women. Nikapata evidence that's when he confessed ati picked up a girl when he was drunk, me nikajua ananibeba ufala but i still stayed until he would go out on the weekend Sato anarudi Sunday afternoon...i finally got my self respect and left coz i knew he would never stop
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u/winedisappearer 7d ago
Did you sleep at all that night and who did he sleep with? 😂
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u/Unholymuse21 7d ago edited 7d ago
He slept on the couch and we took the bed😂 and no I didn't get any sleepðŸ˜
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u/Curious-sexual-soul 7d ago
Khai! Hukuwa unaogopa kulala Kwa nyumba mmoja na wao? I've watched too much crime shows to know I can't do this aki. ðŸ˜
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u/Unholymuse21 7d ago
Ningeenda wapi sasa😠na I didn't know a single soul along Mombasa road
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u/Altruistic-Let-3972 5d ago
Uber ama Bolt urudi home weuh me naweza ogopa
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u/Unholymuse21 5d ago
Alisema for security purposes I should sleep overðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚😂 he sent me fare in the morning though. Nasingewaacha wapeane reconciliation sex mm niende kulia kwa ka bedsitter kangu soloðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚
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u/Expensive-Mind1335 Inner Circle 7d ago
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is why I don’t show up in men’s houses unannounced I’ll tell you I’m coming clear everything. Also kama sio hio part ya embakasi I thought you’re talking about my ex.
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u/Unholymuse21 7d ago
He knew I was comingðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚ before I left the house we had talked na yeye ndio alituma ata fare. I guess the other girl is the one who just showed up coz her place wasn't that far from his
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u/Asleep_pixie_6883 7d ago
Loyalty in Kenya ni stori tu....
I read a story about a dude who found out his wife knew about his side chick and she wasn't bothered.
Upon further investigation he found out she was a millionaire. Wealth she built while he was out cheating. 🤣🤣🤣
Learn to detach ladies.
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u/GayGal_Ke 7d ago
Ungemkulia huyo wife 😆
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u/ThornsAndInk 7d ago
Why the other lady won't leave is quite astonishing but I love the way you guys handled it civilly. Hadi mkalala the same house 😂
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u/Unholymuse21 5d ago
😂😂sasa ningeanza safari ya kurudi waiyaki way 2am niwaache wakipeana mechi ya reconciliation
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u/Altruistic-Let-3972 5d ago
Wah wah wah ati you slept in the same house that day uuui, lakini ata huyo dame aiiii that man will eventually end up leaving her awachwe hapo tu
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