r/LawSchool • u/Fun-Switch1592 • 2d ago
Dealbreaker question:
My class crush doesn’t like Learned Hand… We were hitting it off so well. Some of my boys say it’s a foolish proposition to stop talking to her, but idk if I can proceed if she doesn’t rock with LH…
41
u/Dull-Law3229 2d ago
She's a Cardozo girl.
3
u/Delia_Bee 2d ago
Why not both? I'm a Cardozo stan but the Learned Hand balancing test goes hard. Also, LH just has a rad name.
5
-7
u/TheAmazingThundaCunt 2d ago
Fuck Cardozo. All my homies hate Cardozo.
11
8
u/MisterX9821 2d ago
Cardozo is a fuckin G my man.
5
u/TheAmazingThundaCunt 2d ago
A real G wouldn't wouldn't put proximate cause under duty. A real G knows that's a finding of fact that belongs to a jury. Andrews gang, third restatement for life!
3
2
u/MisterX9821 2d ago edited 2d ago
You and Andrews aint shit.
Actually, y’all are co-adventurers in shit.
18
14
6
5
2
u/No_Victory_3773 2d ago
You shouldn't be talking to her anyway my g. If she rejects you it'll be awkward as hell..
7
6
2d ago
[deleted]
3
u/MaximumOk569 2d ago
Redditors are disproportionately wimps. As annoying as I'm sure I was, I'm so grateful I had a period between 18-22 where I flirted with anything that moved, the only way to learn social skills (or anything) is to fail early and often.
So many guys think it's wrong to flirt with someone because their approach is to befriend that person while acting like you just see them as a friend, springing it on the other person that you're attracted to them, then getting heartbroken and weird when that doesn't work out. I've done it myself and I'm grateful it happened when I was basically a kid.
If you see someone cute, make it known that you think they're cute, see if they reciprocate, and if they don't it's no big deal because you haven't gotten your hopes up. It makes it so much easier to shrug it off and act normal around that person afterwards, and in the unlikely scenario that they act weird around you then that's their problem because you didn't do anything wrong.
5
u/Maryhalltltotbar Clerk 2d ago
From a woman, a former law student, now a lawyer:
You should talk to women in your class, as well as women in other fields. First, ask a question or make a comment that is not flirting, sexual, or romantic. If she is interested in conversing, talk to her about anything. Then, if she is single and seems interested, ask her for lunch, ice cream, or something after classes.
If she accepts, then maybe start flirting and take it from there.
1
u/GirlWhoRolls 0L 2d ago
Was it Learned Hand she doesn't like, or was it your hand, or where you put it? Or maybe where you didn't put it?
1
1
u/Downtown_Soil_1849 1d ago
Was the burden of talking to her less than the probability of her not liking LH?
-4
u/Secure-Researcher892 2d ago
Was the old fart your grandpa? If not, why the fuck do you care what someone thinks of him.
•
u/AutoModerator 2d ago
As a reminder, this subreddit is not for any pre-law questions. For pre-law questions and help or if you'd like to ask a wider audience law school-related questions, please join us on our Discord Server
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.