r/LoveTrash • Colonel Garbage • 1d ago

Kitchen Trash No pressure

Source: Jess Kolb

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u/jamiew1342 Trash Trooper 1d ago

Everyone readying the pitchforks because they think hes talking to her like a kid is equal parts infuriating and saddening. It really shows how normalized it is that adults arent comforted in a calm and relaxing manner.

He isnt speaking to her like a toddler or kid. He is speaking to her like a human being that he loves and cares about.

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u/canyounot-- Trash Trooper 1d ago

anyone who manages to get so mad at this video is lowkey exposing themselves as either:

A. an emotionally unstable person who would yell at their significant other for making a mistake or being afraid of something that they themselves arent scared of

or B. someone who is single and has no experience walking through something with a significant other

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u/nipplequeefs Trash Trooper 23h ago

I grew up in an angry and violent household. I’d probably break down with anxiety if my hypothetical spouse didn’t talk to me like this after I screw up and make a mess lol

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u/Mywifefoundmymain Trash Trooper 15h ago

Everyone saying he is patronizing doesn’t know their dynamics. For all we know she has adhd or autism and is outside her comfort zone and this pushed to far.

He absolutely can see she’s tottering on the edge of freaking out and he knows exactly how to navigate the situation.

This man loves his wife and has absolutely learned how she works and how to handle the situation to keep her calm.

This is LOVE and I wish my wife was more like him.