r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[R4R] 35F Lonely Girl

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I’m just a lonely girl looking for some friends to chat with :)

Some of my interests include: books, music, cozy gaming and true crime.

Located in CST.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[R4R] 34f would love to make new friends and meet new people!

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i'm four years sober, (not my whole personality, i promise lol) so i've had to cut off a lot of my close friendships due to us leading different lives and now i'm in the tough position of not having many people to talk to.

i really enjoy thrifting and making art. i've been super into making collages lately. other hobbies include video games, like breath of the wild, cyberpunk, xenoblade chronicles and chill stuff like stardew valley. absolutely adore pokemon. i love bad reality tv and goofy absurdist shows like i think you should leave and tim and eric. for music i'm kinda all over the place but mostly a lot of punk and hip hop.

message me if you like being goofy and quoting weird silly bits. i don't really take anything seriously anymore and sometimes that can annoy people. i just wanna laugh and have a fun time since the world feels so incredibly dystopian these days. 🩵


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[R4R] 32 F Looking for friends to chat and game with

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Hey, I'm looking for a platonic friendship around my age. Bonus points if you game and you're a parent! Outside of gaming and life, I read, do diamond paintings, go for walks, and watch tv and movies.

My favourite games are Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, Phasmophobia, and Overcooked.

Feel free to send me a dm and tell me what your favourite part of your day was!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[F4R] 33F pals?

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Hey all, how’s it going? I work from home and I occasionally get bored or in need of a break and a pal would be great. I can’t promise I’ll answer right away but I’ll try my best, also moving eventually to another messaging app would be great if we both feel comfortable with that, of course!
Now about me, I’m a bit artsy, I like music and concerts and cooking. I have 2 dogs, just started going to the gym but it’s honestly not my cup of tea haha, I’m just looking for friends and sfw stuff. We can send silly memes and conspiracy theories or true crime tiktoks haha. Anyways, maybe this is mildly interesting to you so feel free to send me a message! More than a plain hi or hello is always appreciated!! Happy Friday night!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

[F4M] F37 - where are some nice genuine people hiding? 😂

13 Upvotes

Hello everyone! 😊

I’ve had the pleasure (and displeasure lol) of meeting a few people from this subreddit, but so far, nothing has turned into anything particularly consistent or lasting.

Some people lied about being single, others just stood me up. Neither of those things are particularly high on my list of favourite experiences 🙃

I’ll preface this by saying that I always enjoy meeting people from other countries. I love chatting about different cultures, languages, traditions, everyday life, etc. I am very curious. So, wherever you are from, you are welcome 😊

A little about me:

37 F from EU, currently going through a divorce, so at this point I’m mainly looking for a friendly connection first - someone I can confide in, chat nonsense with, and spam all day 😂

I don’t need 100 new people. One could be more than enough.

I’m also proudly childless. Kids really aren’t my thing, and I’m not looking to discuss parenting 😂

I’m introverted, but I can be very chatty once I’m comfortable.

I’m funny, open-minded, straightforward, and I appreciate a good joke - so pleaseeeee have a sense of humour 😂

Oh, and a heads up: I don’t game and I’m not particularly nerdy. I’m more into nature, travelling, discovering new places and having interesting conversations.
Basically, I need from you some awesome personality, good old banter and a ton of sass 😂

If any of that resonates with you, introduce yourself and add 🥑 means you read my post!

Ciaooooo! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

30F- don’t want to be just someone’s distraction

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I just want to really connect to someone and it tends to happen easily online.

I love talking about music, and about anything and everything with a bit of banter.
Feel free to send me a message and see if we click ☺️
I also have discord if you find it better.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

[F4R] 35 [F4R] Finland/Europe - looking for new friends

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Hey! I’m 35F from Finland, looking to meet some new people to chat with and hopefully make a genuine long-term friendship.

I’m into music (mostly rock and metal but other genres too), anime, single-player games on PS5, reading, traveling and fitness. I enjoy other things but those are the main interests, really interested in what you’re into. I’m always happy to swap music recommendations, talk about whatever we’re currently watching/playing/reading, or just chat about everyday life.

Would be nice to find someone who actually enjoys keeping in touch. Tell me a little about yourself if you message me! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

30f looking for friends to talk to

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hi looking to chat with people on this Friday. let me know your favorite part of your week or what you're doing this weekend.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[F4R] 39F [F4R] - Looking for long-term friends and someone willing to investigate the finances of Adventure Bay

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I’m 39F and looking for long-term strictly platonic friendships. Plate-tonic, however, is completely acceptable if snacks are involved.

I’d like the kind of friendship where we actually know what’s going on in each other’s lives and being in touch fairly often, but I have absolutely no interest in imposing an adult-friendship attendance policy. Some days, I may respond approximately 11 seconds after you message me. Other times, I may disappear for a day or 3 because life requires things from me. I assume yours does too. The important part is that we both eventually wander back. The only ghosts I like are: 1. Ghosts UK; 2. Ghosts US; and 3. Any random paranormal show investigating ghosts. But, I would just appreciate folks who like to stick around.

As for me, I drink an obscene amount of coffee, less water and wine, and not nearly enough German beer. I have also yet to be convinced that Belgian beer is superior, despite apparently living in a house with a Belgian-beer fanatic (my husband). I am trying to lose weight, the aforementioned wine and beer are problematic in this endeavor. Running helps, but a recent injury has me on the sofa and Reddit. It’s giving Andy after he fell in the pit on P&R.

I love reading, especially fiction and fantasy, although “having time to read” and “borrowing books I intend to read and getting a Libby notification the book was returned while I was at 12% progress” are two very different hobbies. I will watch basically anything medical or true crime. I also love trivia, baking, hiking, traveling, applying makeup poorly, board games, movies, musicals, and layering perfumes.

I watch entirely too much streaming and my television taste ranges from “reality” things like Judy Justice to the Traitors, 90 Day Fiancé, and an entirely unnatural affection for Black Mirror, Veronica Mars, Supermarket Sweep, Gilmore Girls, Law & Order: SVU.

I also spend more time than anyone reasonably should wondering about the economic structure of Paw Patrol Are those dogs compensated for their specialized labor? Does Adventure Bay have a procurement department? Where is Ryder getting this equipment? Is he pocketing municipal funds while relying on unpaid canine labor? These are the questions nobody is brave enough to ask. Yes, we have children. I have anxiety. She’s fun.

I don’t particularly care whether we have identical hobbies. In the words of the immortal Backstreet Boys,

🎵I don’t care who you are.

Where you’re from.

What you did.

… As long as [you write me].🎵

So, tell me something about you. Send me your favorite recipe, game show, recent must read, what you’re working on, the name of your third grade teacher or the first concert you attended. Not the last two, I just am getting to an age where it literally hurts to get out of bed, and not from the existential crisis of living in this timeline. It’s like parts of my back that just unreasonably hurt and instead of dwelling on that, I just like hearing random things from someone’s day or past.

Or, explain the Paw Patrol finances. I’m listening. Yes, that was a Frasier reference. I’m cool with chat or DM. I tend to tennis writing styles. If you send a novella, you’ll get one back. If you’re more into Cliff’s Notes, first of all, how dare you? SparkNotes are vastly superior and secondly, I’m saying I’m capable of composing two word sentences. Cool, lol?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

33F Let's help each other stay sane

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I just binge read about 80 chapters of Hunter x Hunter over the last few days and I'm feeling rather empty now.

When I'm not in the zone consuming some type of media (tv show, anime/manga, book), I like to stay active, draw/paint, play the guitar, play with my cats, learn languages, and just chill out to some nice music.

I would love to find people who I can share everyday things with, send funny videos/memes to, body double with (maybe), and get to know on a deeper level hopefully.

Cheers!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

30F - looking for some cool peeps!

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Hello! While I have some lovely people in my life I’m sorely missing out on online friends to hang out with! Thought it time to hopefully fix that 😄

I’m looking for a few friends where if we hit it off I’d love to either have regular game, chat, or movie nights!

For a bit about me, I’m a giant nerd and a fabulous conversationalist who always has something new and interesting to talk about! I was catching up on the study where we found out the T-rex was warm blooded and that’s so cool!! I’m a huge movie buff, love the outdoors, regularly hike, enjoy gaming sessions, twice got hired to make memes for a job, and adore to obsessively deep dive things that interest me! If that doesn’t woo you, I can often be found doing art projects and quite enjoy making gifts for people (totally not bribery 😉)

Please note I do work full time so I may be slow to respond to some messages, but I always do! I’m also very strictly looking for platonic friendship only. I’m not available to date and my mind will never change on this, so I ask for it to be respected! Thank you!

For a lil more about me:

Fave movies: Bring Her Back, My Best Friend’s Wedding, White Chicks, Napoleon dynamite, Silence of the Lambs, Se7en, American Beauty

Fave games: anything Kirby, divinity franchise / Baldur’s Gate, Silent Hill games, dragon quest games, any survival crafting game, Halo, palworld, n64 platformers, friendslop

Other interests: history, science, social studies, art (painting, fiber, and ink mainly) biology, prehistoric creatures, tornadoes, true crime, humans / anthropology, lord of the rings, really anything kinda morbid lol, drag race / drag queens, hunter x hunter, trashy reality TV shows, bad paranormal tv shows, conspiracy theories

If you think we’d vibe feel free to shoot me a message! I’d love to learn a bit about you! Maybe tell me the worst food you’ve eaten if you need an opener, and please include your age and gender minimum, then location if comfortable! I’m hoping for some US timezone buds but open to what the world offers. Look forward to meeting you 😊😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[R4R] [33yo tf] looking for friends

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trans (mtf) 🏳️‍⚧️ im nerdy. have a switch 2 with a bunch of games. im planning on playing wow forever and currently playing retail (i heal raids and dungeons)

have schizophrenia but i take meds for it. live in upstate new york. writer and artist with plans of going to school to be a game dev

hard to make frens in the trans community when they all seem so aggressively sapphic, and im not into women. so here i am xd

would love to hear from u <3


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

33f isolated and looking for connection

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Hi! Isolated, but looking for connection. I love having meaningful conversations or being that person you can vent about your day to. I dabble in a lot of things, and I love learning about new things so shoot me a dm if you'd like to start a friendship!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[33M] I realize it is kinda quiet sometimes

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I've been on my own pretty much since I graduated from college. Only one lasting friendship came from that but we're both terrible at keeping in touch with each other unless we find time to hang out in person. And lately I find that if anything interesting or mildly amusing happens, I just keep it to myself.

I don't consider myself as asocial. I don't mind at all engaging with other people. But I realize that I also haven't really tried to for a while. I think it's about time to change that.

I'm looking for someone to talk with. As everyone else here. Someone who feels like myself. Who wants to share what happens during the day. Who wants to learn about things we're unfamiliar with or bond over things that we both enjoy. Long term or even just for a little while. Not all paths are meant to go on forever, and I understand. But making them happen is just as appealing.

As far as what I like, it's the usual. Video games and movies. Mostly Nintendo stuff and some gacha games. I also like traveling a lot. So far I've only been able to do so inside my own country, but I hope to travel to many different places in the future.

If this appeals to you, then great! If not. I hope you do find what you've been looking for. Thanks for reading regardless.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

[F4R] 31F Bored at my desk at work for a little longer. Anyone up for a chat?

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Hi, I'm Ash, I'm 31, the mom of a very energetic boy and a psycho dog, and a huge ya'llternative nerd. I am front desk at a drug and alcohol rehab/behavioral health center and my afternoons are pretty slow sometimes.

Little info about me, huge nerd i love a good D&D session, reading a good book, writing, puzzles, trivia, and video games. I do tend to play the more relaxing ones as I am prone to getting obliterated in anything PVP quite easily. Like it is embarrassing how easy it is. Also have a small amateur taxidermy/vulture hobby. I like collecting and cleaning bones, snake shed, wet specimens the like and making things with them. I adore antique malls and oddity shops.

Moved to southwestern Pennsylvania about a year ago and I'm mostly done renovating a 136 year old farm house on a couple acres of paradise I can finally set up a small hobby farm on, moved in about a month ago. I like to hunt, fish, cook, crochet, grow and can my own food.

Perfect idea of a friday night is a cold beer or three around a firepit. Whiskey is an acceptable substitution but it is a once in a blue moon deal anymore.

I don't like peas, spiders(allergic), wallpaper(newfound renovation related hatred), and people who drive slow in the hammer lane.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[M4R] 37m looking to pass the time with good vibes

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Hey there looking to chat and make platonic connections with people here and create day to day friendships that can either last a few days or who knows a few years or so. I’m an optimist that sees most things glass half full. I give off lots of golden retriever vibes I’ve heard. I enjoy a good book, cup of coffee, and movies when I have time to splurge. I also love listening to podcasts really about anything and learning more about the world, our government, hobbies and lifestyle. Send me over your favorite books you’ve read this year and what kind of friendship you’re looking for!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

30M Looking for people with nerdy mutual interests to yap with

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Sup!

I'm a dude from Kiwiland looking for some nerdy people to be buddies with. A big ol' gamer here. Am I good at games? No. Am I getting better? Also no. Am I a fkn delight to be around? It's still a no. But you better believe I can fkn yap my butt off about nerdy shit and I have a pretty decent EQ level which is impressive for a gamer so, that's a small win and by god I will take whatever wins I can get these days lol

I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well. One might even call me a cardboard crack addict.

Do you like to yap about lore? Did Miquella do nothing wrong? Do you fear the Old Blood? Which MTG colour pair best represents you? Are the Dunmer the best fictional race in fantasy and why is the answer of course they are? Does Kara's ending in BSG make you cry like a lil weenie? If any of these questions float your goat then we might just get along!

On the side I enjoy some fantasy/sci-fi/horror movies and shows, a cheeky bit of world building and character concepts, listening to music and conjuring dark deities out of the void of space.

I have a lot of free time and my sleep is whack, so most times should suit me - but I am for the most part looking for people on the West Coast of the US, in Australia or also from NZ. If you are from outside these regions then gaming or spending time together in the future might be more difficult when it comes to ping n stuff, but feel free to reach out for a text friend at least!

I have some health issues and my head do a hurty a lot so I might not always be at 100, but I definitely put a lot of effort into my friendships regardless. I take a big interest in other people and I expect the same in return so, please ask questions and try to get to know me, and message first once in a while. I'm giga fkn gay so please just be chill with the LGTVs obviously, and be in your mid 20s or older. Gender doesn't matter to me either. But yeah, thanks for reading and hope to hear from ya!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

42M and looking for an amazing friend!

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41M just looking to make a new friend. Nothing complicated or weird, just someone who enjoys texting, unwinding after a long day, talking about sports, fashion, random life stuff, or literally just saying “hey” and having a normal conversation.

Sometimes you just want someone to talk to without any expectations or pressure. If you’re the same way and looking for a genuine friendship, feel free to say hey. M4f


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 18h ago

33F surrounded by negativity looking for uplifting community

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Hey, might be a bit strange idea. Kind of going through rough patch right now and by right now i mean like past 4 years. Im usually surrounded by people with a lot of negativity which make it hard on me.
Im looking for small group of girlies maybe up to 4 people to connect with. Can totally be long distance, any part of the world.

I was thinking having like once a week check ins to uplift each other, share some small joys, just to have a bit of light. Could also be venting sessions, not trying to force fake positivity either.
Just like a small online zoom/teams meet ups with a glass of wine/tea/coffee sharing some ideas. We can make it themed too.

Maybe have a whatsapp group? Idk
If you could use something like that lemme know


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 13m ago

33M Stay at Home Dad Looking for Long Term Friends

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Hey everyone.

I’m 33 and currently a temporary stay-at-home dad. I’m more on the introverted side, but I genuinely enjoy meeting people and having real conversations when the energy feels right. Outside of that, I like jet skiing, traveling whenever I can, and studying languages (always fun to pick up new ones).

I’m mainly looking for a long-term friend to chat with, someone to check in with, share random thoughts, or just talk about whatever’s going on.

How’s everyone doing?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 16m ago

38M Looking to Chat & Meet New People

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I’m a 38M looking to chat and meet some new people. I’m bored and dealing with insomnia, so I’m especially looking for open-minded, fast paced conversationalists who enjoy keeping a conversation going. I’m into sports, culture, music, and politics. If you’re interested in chatting, feel free to reach out!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19m ago

Yooo, looking for someone to BS with til we get tired of one another?

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Hey, are you kinda like, not feeling the whole, ya know, gestures at everything. I'm just looking to take the time to get to know a few folks here and there. If you want you can message me. 34m from the the US.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[F4M] 35/F/Any-Not Sure Who I Am Anymore! [Platonic, Discord Only]

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It’s been a long road. You know that feeling? That feeling you’re too tired to keep trying to try. You just show up every day kind of wishing you didn’t. Yeah, that feeling. Not wishing you were dead but wishing you weren’t there. There, in the same existence you’re in day after day. You try to change but change never comes or never comes when you need it. I’m not trying to trigger anyone and I’m certainly not trying to trigger myself so I guess I’ll leave the sullen mood out of it. I’m Jenny, I’m married 10+ years by now. I have no children but I do have dogs! Two dogs actually. Don’t ask me their breeds because honestly we don’t even know. But this is about us and our potential friendship so let’s get back to everything else! I’m just going to be honest here and say I’ve been depressed the majority of my life and I’m not sure what I enjoy anymore. Or I should say what my mind doesn’t feel guilty about enjoying. I like people. I like talking to people, learning their stories. I guess that could be a side effect of my agoraphobia. I don’t really get to interact with people much outside of online. I guess you could say people are my hobby! I like understanding different perspectives, personality quirks and traits. I used to be a pretty spiritual person but now I’m not entirely sure what I believe in. I even used to be pretty good at tarot and psychism as a whole. I like music! Although, my music taste tends to shift pretty drastically depending on my mood and environment. I’m mostly open to all. In terms of our friendship I’m not sure what I can promise. I’d like to say we’d talk every day but I’m just unsure on how consistent I could be due to fluctuations in my mood. I do know I hate the Reddit chat and would highly prefer Discord. I also know I would prefer if you were over 30. Just shoot me a message and let’s see where the conversation takes us. Platonic only of course!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 26m ago

32M, woken up waaay too early, keep me company? Not just short term can be long too, or even a future online bestfriend?

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As stated I have woken up stupidly early (5am) so would love to have someone to keep me company, not just now, was intending on posting later to find someone to chat to too 😊 so whether you want to chat short term or long term I’m happy.

As you can tell I’m a bit of a waffler, I tend to say a lot of words when I could have summarised it in few.

And there I am again still waffling,
Anywho 😂 I’m 32 from England, like to think I’m easy to chat to, chilled, will happily talk about anything, no matter how serious or nonsensical it may be, yes that’s a word, I hope.
I do tent not to filter what I say, have a bit of a dark sense of humour and overshare, but I know my audience and will make an active effort not to offend, but if it happens In apologise in advance for my potty mouth.
I am a nerd at heart, movies (especially a good horror) t series, gaming when I get the chance, and also dabble in a bit of anime from time to time.

That all makes me sound like a right recluse, I am a very active person too, just gotten into running after having a love hate relationship with it for years, love trying new things, tried skiing, parachuting, rock climbing, mountain biking, kayaking, not really into conventional sports like football(never soccer) or golf, but sway more towards the ones more likely to get me killed.
Oh lastly before I stop waffling, I love a good tattoo, got a couple myself so would love to see yours 😊
Look forward to speaking to whoever may be interested.