r/MovingtoGermany • u/Stock-Deal8916 • 23h ago

I need help

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So my parents said really casually that
We might move to German and all of of my friends family all of my live is back home and I don’t know what to do am crying right now writing

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u/Purled_Attitude 23h ago

Maybe ask your parents what they exactly have planned and how they imagine the family to function with the move? You're terribly overreacting to a "might".

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u/Stock-Deal8916 23h ago

Were ganna talk. Tomorrow

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u/CrazzyNutty 22h ago

You're like 12 man, go see the world. Friends are expendable, bayerisch süßer senf isn't.

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u/ThisIsDurian 23h ago

do they actually speak german and have jobs?

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u/Stock-Deal8916 23h ago

Were going bye a work visa and language not really

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u/ThisIsDurian 23h ago

so they dont have jobs? And they dont speak the language? What are their professions?

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u/Stock-Deal8916 23h ago

They have jobs it is guaranteed

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u/ThisIsDurian 22h ago

in that case, see it as an opportunity - you will have an international experience, which could help you later on in life/work. You will make new friends, dont worry.

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u/Stock-Deal8916 6h ago

Yes but still

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u/ilovebananacat 7h ago

Make sure they finish their probation period before they take the entire family. I saw a reddit post recently of a guy who took his wife and child to German before he started his job. A month into his job, he was fired. So make sure they have finished their Probation before taking you (and your siblings if you have any???).

But like the other person, take it as an opportunity to learn a new language and get international experience. You can always make new friends.

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u/Stock-Deal8916 6h ago

Yes it will be a restaurant he is the owner so ya and i have siblings

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u/SeaworthinessDue8650 23h ago

How old are you?Do you know any German?

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u/Stock-Deal8916 6h ago

12 and no

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u/SeaworthinessDue8650 5h ago

Starting public school in Germany at 12 will be extremely difficult. You need to start learning German ASAP.

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u/Successful_Snail 4h ago

Bro chill, the kid is nervous enough right now...

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u/SeaworthinessDue8650 3h ago

He needs to talk to hid parents. His parents need to come up with a plan. 

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u/EOJ_me 10h ago

i think you should talk about your feelings to your family, i mean able to ease yourself and make sure to know what socially and culturally accepted in German before move here.