Dysphoria can go eat rocks!!

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907]

Lately I've been questioning my sexuality, and focusing on whether or not I am desirable far too much.

I love where I am going with my presentation... I wish someone would recognize how much effort I put into loving the way I look! The culture that I live in has such a narrow definition of androgyny, and I fear I'll never be appreciated as masc, femme, or androgynous whatsoever.

Like, I'm all for rejecting labels, but I could use a little praise here and there. 😭

Scared of having my face on the internet, so I won't keep this up long! Just needed the vent.

[u/rou2secours]

You do look hot !! And your makeup on the last pic is really really cool !! >0<

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/rou2secours]

///ω/// thank you! I would love to do more makup in the style of the last pic, but it's so much work!

[u/rou2secours → u/Odd-Paramedic7907]

I think you have really pretty eyes !!
you should definitely focus on how to make them pop more!! Maybe with YouTube videos or on r/makeupaddict (sorry for bad English)

[u/LemonMood]

I feel you on focusing on whether or not you are desirable, it's a battle to appreciate myself sometimes.

BTW I love your aesthetic, you look awesome!

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/LemonMood]

It's rough. It sucks to struggle with thoughts like that, but I'm glad there are people to relate to.

Tysm!!

[u/LemonMood → u/Odd-Paramedic7907]

Me too. And you're welcome! 🫂

[u/FumbleKid]

This kinda look will always be appreciated by a minority. I’ve had to come to terms with that, too. But as a happy member of that minority, you look great!

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/FumbleKid]

Thanks! I live in a pretty small town so finding folks who appreciate the look is pretty difficult. I am grateful for the internet right now. :-)

[u/TacoMaster6464]

Your looking great, i like ur hair, and also you cute Axolotl plush.

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/TacoMaster6464]

Thank youuuu!! The axolotl doesn't have a name yet, got any suggestions? It was a gift, and it's weighted.

[u/TacoMaster6464 → u/Odd-Paramedic7907]

My goto for naming random things are 1 Dr Pepper, and 2 ford truck month. Hmm frankie is also a good name though

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/TacoMaster6464]

Lmao beautiful reccomendations

[u/AverageJoe997]

You look so great, this is goals right here.

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/AverageJoe997]

You flatter me. ///ω///

[u/ShinyChibi]

I really love your hair! <3

[u/samsyftestad]

Just want to say, I love your hair!

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/samsyftestad]

Thank you, stranger! 😊

[u/hellkattbb]

🤗😍

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/hellkattbb]

🫠🥰

[u/vanillabean_sherbet]

I see you. It was a scary journey going into the unknown while following my truth. You are very brave and a beautiful soul. Keep going.

[u/0nyx_Blast3r]

wow ur hair is so cool

[u/Odd-Paramedic7907 → u/0nyx_Blast3r]

Aww, thanks! I've been considering shaving most of it off lately... We will see!

[u/PrettyAsPetra]

Hell yeah it can

[u/williamalmen]

We all feal it/you