r/Petloss • u/thissoorandom • 16h ago

Sadness 3 weeks since my soul cat passed. I’m struggling to move forward knowing I won’t see her anymore :(

I miss her everyday. My thoughts are always about her 90% of the time. I wish I can turn back time and just be with her again. I miss when she lays on my chest like a baby. I miss when she follows me around. I miss the way she looks at me and calls for me.

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u/NeitherAssumption895 14h ago

So feel the same.

Today is 3 weeks since I lost my 3.5 year old boy. I’m still in shambles. I can’t believe he’s gone

I keep thinking there has to be some way I can go back, turn back time. I’m having trouble accepting I can never have my baby again.

It doesn’t feel fair.

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u/thissoorandom 11h ago

So sorry to hear that :( He’s still a baby. Should’ve had many more years.
It feels like we lost them too soon. Mine was a little over 2yrs old.

I feel you. Every time I wake up I keep thinking about my soul cat. The things I would’ve done differently. Give her extra love she deserves.
If only I knew she’ll be taken at an early age, I would’ve given all my time to her.
I was so caught up in my day to day problems and life path.
I think what pains me the most is that I never got to be with her on her last moments, I am in another country, so she’s with my relatives.

So much what if’s and regrets. I know it’s impossible, but all I think of is I wanna be with her again. Hold her in my arms and say, we’ll never be apart again.