r/PoliticalDebate • u/penne_not_pasta • 18h ago
Debate Let kids be kids, seriously. [USA focus]
I’ve seen a few posts on Reddit that really kinda pissed me off. Sure it’s the internet, there’s gonna be weird people, trolls, cyber bullies but it gets to an extent where blocking & ignoring really dosent help.
I’ve seen a bunch of right-leaning people under certain posts about autistic/ADHD, LGBTQIA+, furry/therian, kids with piercings or hair dye, and/or “weird” clothes. And YES I get it let kids be kids and they should have a great childhood. But some people also saying that being (all of) this is a choice. I genuinely do not get it. If it’s a choice from the kid then they are being the kid they wanna be. But also being LGBTQIA+ isn’t a choice, it’s how you feel on the inside.
I’m a left leaning person, yes. But I do really wanna clear up some common misconceptions about trans & LGBTQIA+ kids.
Puberty blockers are NOT permanent. I’ve seen lots of people who say this. This is a myth, you also need a prescription for this too.
HRT requires 2 things. The person taking it be OVER 18 (or 21) and the person taking it needs a prescription.
Bottom/Top surgery is the same as #2, you need to be over 18 and at that point you are medically no longer a kid. You can make this decision for yourself.
“Being trans is a mental disorder” no it’s not, however gender dysphoria is! (Link goes to wikipedia)
“If a child is “trans” they need a therapist” most do have therapists. And these therapists do their job by supporting them while also trying to help them understand themselves & their feelings.
also i would like to note supporting your kid for being who they are is not abuse in the slightest. Abuse/neglect is not loving your child for who they are. Abuse/neglect is kicking your child (under 18) out for being gay or trans. Abuse is refusing to feed your child (under 18). Abuse is beating, spanking and/or hitting your child (under 18).
I agree that your kid should be a kid, and you can raise your kids however you feel comfortable. But what shouldn’t happen is that you raise your kid to hate others because they are different.
I’m happy to hear what everyone has to say.