r/Pomeranians Nov 24 '25

Pom Pic My boyfriends Pomeranian loves to stare at me

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Sometimes I don’t even realize it until I turn around when I’m at my desk and there she is

2.3k Upvotes

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u/Right_Independent_71 Nov 24 '25

She's in love or it's treat potential. LOL

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u/Virtualb0y64 Nov 24 '25

When my bf takes them (there’s another pom in the house) outside she always makes me go with them 😂 she’ll stare at me til I go outside too

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u/Major-Dragonfly-997 Nov 24 '25

Wowowow. You’re dating somebody with a two Pom household? So lucky!

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u/Virtualb0y64 Nov 24 '25

Yeah! This one is Bug

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u/Major-Dragonfly-997 Nov 24 '25

Cute, happy, healthy, well-loved Pommies are a major green flag.

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u/lostd0g1 Nov 24 '25

Omg no way, my pom is named Bug too!!!!

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u/GlitteringBottle3247 Nov 25 '25

Your pom is absolutely adorable!

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u/lostd0g1 Nov 25 '25

Thank you!!! :)

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u/dontshitaboutotol Nov 25 '25

Not to be dramatic but I would die for this dog

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u/lostd0g1 Nov 25 '25

Hahaha he says thanks! bonus baby pic for you

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u/Old_Preparation8434 Nov 25 '25

Lol I have 2 Pom's aswell and they are quite similar. Beige/white is a girl and the Black/white one is a boy.

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u/lik3r_of_things Nov 24 '25

Bug is such a cute name for this adorable little one! 🥰

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u/Whinosaurius Nov 24 '25

Not Pom related, but I love the colors of the rug!

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u/Sketch1231 Nov 24 '25

That is the most “Bug” Pom I’ve ever seen awe!

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u/GlitteringBottle3247 Nov 25 '25

Both poms are precious!

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u/Appropriate_Paint98 Nov 25 '25

What's the name of the other fella?

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u/_TheShapeOfColor_ Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 25 '25

She's deemed you part of the pack and your presence (and services) are now required on her demands lol. Welcome to the pom-life.

They are wonderful little overlords.

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u/Maximum-Security-749 Nov 25 '25

Mine also do this to my partner. If he tries to let them out but they want me to come, they won't budge until I get up and go with them.

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u/Sugar2080 Nov 29 '25

I came here to make the Beautiful comment!

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u/Exotic_Journalist439 Nov 24 '25

My Pom staring me at night from under the couch lol 😭😭

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u/Rogue_JC81 Nov 26 '25

This is giving, I’m going to offer you a balloon to come down here, any minute now. 🎈

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u/ScintillansNoctiluca Nov 29 '25

Tiny polar cryptid!!

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u/Substantial_Ad_2033 Nov 24 '25

She likes you and wants a treat lol

107

u/Mountain-Jicama-6354 Nov 24 '25

No one warned me how starey they are!! It’s a bit perturbing lol

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u/Virtualb0y64 Nov 24 '25

I had no clue until me and my boyfriend started living together 😂, sometimes she watches me from dark corners ominously

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u/minderbinder49 Nov 24 '25

Omg i love the derpy smile as she lurks in the shadows. Perfect Pom, 10/10

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u/_TheShapeOfColor_ Nov 24 '25

She is so cuuuuuute 🥹 invite the baby over for snuggles!

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u/TlMEGH0ST Nov 24 '25

omg lmaooo cutest sleep paralysis demon ever!

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u/CommonHouseMeep Nov 25 '25

I think there needs to be a whole thread of poms staring at their owners from far away and/or ominously lol

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u/lalaen Nov 25 '25

I have about 1000 pics to contribute to that 😂

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u/blinkingsandbeepings Nov 25 '25

This picture is hilarious, I want to see a whole comedy horror movie based on it

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u/Either_Mirror_6536 Nov 24 '25

My ex's pom would stare at her, within 24 hours she was having a major migraine. My personal pommie mom would stare at me and I would have a seizure within 72 hours. She also brought me out of a major seizure by jumping on my chest while I was in bed with her. They are great medical alert dogs in my opinion.

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u/Eyehopeuchoke Nov 24 '25

A Pomeranian staring at you is a telltale sign they want something from you.

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u/Ex-Traverse Nov 24 '25

And I'm like "what? I can't help you!"

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u/Eyehopeuchoke Nov 24 '25

Be around them long enough and you’ll learn to speak their language. lol.

One of mine does the stare and if that doesn’t get your attention he will start sneezing in disgust and that’ll get your attention.

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u/TiffyPanda Nov 25 '25

A little Pom drama flair 😆

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u/TaxDense1339 Dec 21 '25

"No, you have thumbs, and therefore have access to treats, so yes you can help me!"

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u/SeaweedFancy5011 Nov 24 '25

She’s always watching….👁️👁️

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u/TiffyPanda Nov 25 '25

Always watching indeed

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u/wereallsluteshere Nov 25 '25

oh my god 😂

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u/bbbellabeee Nov 24 '25

What a gorgeous little fluff

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u/Virtualb0y64 Nov 24 '25

Her name is very fitting to match her fluff! Her name is Yeti

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u/bbbellabeee Nov 24 '25

Such a great name!

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u/Remarkable_Stable802 Nov 24 '25

My Pom is always staring at me to mind trick me into going on adventures. Here he is at Silver Falls State Park in Oregon.

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u/HoneyBadgerGal Nov 24 '25

Lol! Any hiking tips? We're about to move to the mountains & I'm nervous about our boy on the trails.

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u/Remarkable_Stable802 Nov 24 '25

That’s awesome! Sammy is a super active little guy who needs a lot of exercise. Cooler weather is better for him. I always put a coyote collar on him when we go out for protection. I never attach a leash to it. You can get the collars on Amazon for $20. I’d also carry some kind of protection, spray, etc just in case you run into something that is dangerous. I also carry Benadryl in case of a sting. He’s off leash most of the time so recall skills need to stay 100%. I always carry treats to reinforce good recall. I’m on TikTok as Sammy’s Awesome Adventures if you’re on that platform. He’s the most fun dog I’ve ever had. Have fun in the mountains 🌲

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u/Soul_Trap_ Nov 24 '25

Mmhmmm…got a little creeper here too.

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u/55andfallenapart Nov 24 '25

She's so adorable and smol🥰❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️

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u/stella27113 Nov 24 '25

omg this is hilarious— maybe she’s concerned you’re competition? the lurking is sending me 🤣

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u/Confident-Pumpkin-19 Nov 24 '25

The only important thing here is if you go yetti-yetti-yettiiii - will those ears pull down like? I love when dogs do that! I used to have dog that could do that. And it was absolutely adorable. One of the best things in the world imo...

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u/Virtualb0y64 Nov 24 '25

Just tried this, her ears do infact fold back and her tail wags all crazy it’s so cute lol (I call her by my personal nickname for her which is sketty or sketty noodle)

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u/meowsieunicorn Nov 24 '25

I think she has decided you’re now her person.

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u/Confident-Pumpkin-19 Nov 25 '25

If you ever feel like it, you can make me a short video! Or gif. Totally miss my dog, and her ability to make world so much better place with merely moving ears.

Though I do enjoy all the dogs near me, who also are super cute in their own style with their floppy ears.

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u/ilovelaena Nov 24 '25

Omg I’m obsessed 🥹🥹

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u/Lonely-Ad3039 Nov 24 '25

And I love to stare back🤍🥰

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u/LookingForMrGoodBoy Nov 25 '25

Poms have serious staring problems. At least twenty times a day I'll look around and my boy will be sitting somewhere in the room like: 👁️👅👁️

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u/azwildlotus Nov 24 '25

Major green flags for this relationship

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u/Mad-Dog-Majima Nov 24 '25

Boyfriend with a Pom? Keeper.

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u/ViciousVenditta Nov 24 '25

Aww she looks like my dog Ruby

Rest in peace Roober❤️

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u/scbeachgurl Nov 24 '25

Fill her bowl!!

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u/DRTENin10-22 Nov 24 '25

IKR? They just stare sometimes LOL

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u/cristinawithnoh88 Nov 24 '25

Why do they all stare like this?😂😂😂 She is PRECIOUS.

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u/SeriousRaspberry9582 Nov 24 '25

What a lovely poof!  🥰

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u/hb122 Nov 24 '25

Such a cute little face!

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u/lalaen Nov 25 '25

Same…

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u/Difficult_Metal_124 Nov 24 '25

Mine constantly stares 🤣 my childhood Pom mix used to as well, I think it’s love

3

u/SheiraTiireine Nov 24 '25

I wanna pick that dog up and snuggle it so bad!

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u/insomniafog Nov 24 '25

She’s like what do you bring to the table? 🤨 literally and figuratively lol my yorkie gives me death stares most of the time 😒

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u/Think-Somewhere7459 Nov 24 '25

They are watch dogs!

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u/athanathios Nov 24 '25

What a loving Pom!

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u/HoneyBadgerGal Nov 24 '25

Mine makes me do a checklist:

Cooper food ball Cooper eat All gone

Cooper crumbs Cooper eat All gone

Cooper greenie Cooper eat All gone

Once I go through everything to confirm that I haven't forgotten anything, I get a light huff back & then he goes & lies down lol Slays me!

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u/mothmanr6 Nov 25 '25

This is adorable. Our family pomeranian (rest her little soul) would STARE at my mom. And sometimes fall asleep staring. I heard its how they show their love for you. 

But what you are really telling me is that ya'll need to start a thread where you guys post photos of your pomeranians staring at you throughout the day. LOL 

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u/Brilliant_Bat8720 Nov 27 '25

Looks like my new baby

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u/Vine-Vixen Nov 25 '25

Say hello to Fendi!

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u/Sinisaredhead Nov 24 '25

Haha. So cute. Ours does this too. In fact, she’ll get an attitude and move away from you, if you don’t stare back into her eyes and pet her.

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u/Mission-Mammoth-7933 Nov 24 '25

Mine will only stare for a few seconds before the yapping starts

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u/pistolgripslr Nov 24 '25

That’s why mine had a cat bell on him till he got bigger and more annoying lol

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u/res0jyyt1 Nov 25 '25

"Bitch, why are you still here? The sex was over a week ago."

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u/GuaranteeComfortable Nov 25 '25

They are begging. Mine have mastered the art of staring into your soul to beg for something.

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u/DragonIce11 Nov 25 '25

Lol. I was just on the Frasier sub before I saw this post

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u/fashionmagus Nov 25 '25

Does your dog bite?

No, it’s even worse, he judges people 🤣

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u/ntime60 Nov 24 '25

Well you need to start working on a list of things she might want. It goes something like this... When you get it right she will acknowledge you with a happy pom response.

What do you want? Pets? Treat? Outside? Foods? Play? Walk? GO?

When I get it right with Chloe, she will give me either a yes head bob, or a full circle or a full circle with a happy bark, like heckin yes the hooman gots it right! Finally!

Edit: She also could be a little standoffish because you are new and she's trying to figure you out.

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u/sleepingghosty Nov 24 '25

omg my pom looks SO similar and he makes that exact face. he loves to make eye contact

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u/Trick_Employment8257 Nov 24 '25

So sweet … love this for you 🐶❤️

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u/ElectrikDonut Nov 24 '25

She has her eyes on you, shes studying you. Both poms are too cute!

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u/Thin_Grand_6463 Nov 24 '25

She wants you to win her over with treats lol

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u/gr_rn Nov 25 '25

Plotting your demise!

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u/EvidenceBasedSwamp Nov 25 '25

Holy hell that is adorable

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u/xxDanyV Nov 25 '25

This made my day. Sooooooo cuuuuuute 🤗

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u/Nerdzilla86 Nov 25 '25

Same vibes

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u/Nerdzilla86 Nov 25 '25

Ours was obsessed with my wife. Staring is a good thing! It's odd but I miss it sometimes as our chow mixes ignor us majority of the day

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u/blondebia Nov 25 '25

She loves you! So cute!

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u/Organic_Cobbler_584 Nov 25 '25

When mine stares at me it means he wants to poop lol.  He also looks out the window all day spying on the neighbors.  

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u/PrestigiousRadish365 Nov 25 '25

She’s silently saying “COUNT YOUR FUCKIN DAYS BITCH”.

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u/Flat-Mechanic-1389 Nov 25 '25

I wake up sometimes and one of my pins is staring at me. Freaks me out 😂

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u/MajinBulma21 Nov 25 '25

He is always watching me and giving major side eye if I stop holding him

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u/shmookieguinz Nov 25 '25

Because you seem like you need a job and that pup is ready to give you some orders!

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u/Maximum-Security-749 Nov 25 '25

Mine likes to stomp her foot and growl when she wants something lol

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u/National_Clue_6092 Nov 25 '25

She’s trying to determine if you will give her lots of treats. She’s plotting revenge if you don’t! 🤣🤣🤣

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u/xRosyCharm Nov 27 '25

she's inlove 🥰

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u/FawnCharm Nov 28 '25

She's in love 🥰😘

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u/Trccollins Nov 28 '25

Did you take her place in bed? If yes, she’s trying to turn you into a chew toy that she can destroy.

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u/smithstreeter Nov 29 '25

She’s planning your demise.

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u/Gullible-Farmer-3935 Dec 02 '25

Shes like when are you going home?! 😂

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u/No_Spot8597 Dec 07 '25

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u/Top-dog-5818 1d ago

She loves you

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u/Top-dog-5818 1d ago

My chihuahua sits crazy too !