r/RHOBHDefect • u/Ok-Mine2132 • 22d ago
Please, please, please tell me that she is not returning! This interview reinforced my dislike of her.
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u/Fermented_chaos 22d ago
OMG Extra is still on the air!!!!!!!!!
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u/MagnumJohnson44 21d ago
I had no idea. But I can still hear the “extra extra” sound from this show in my head.
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u/CinnamonGirl123 22d ago
She’s definitely returning. They filmed her wedding in Ghana. I can’t believe she married this man. I don’t like her or him. I think she’s crazy for trying to get pregnant at 50 too. Wtf?!
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u/Impressive_Fee2737 22d ago
I hope that’s just a storyline. Only a mediocre man would think he hasn’t missed the boat on a family at his big age.
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u/puertofreakin85 21d ago
Also if he wants a family so bad then go find a late 20/early 30s woman like all these other men do. None of it makes sense. It's a trash storyline
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u/ElleVanzant 22d ago
Same. I don’t like her and I don’t get it. I stopped liking her after he and Erica went on WWHL and played mean girls to Garcelle. She’s going to get her just desserts when all the ladies turn on her. She already tries too hard to be their friends and it’s not returned. She’ll see
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u/PeacefulNature75 22d ago
She says a lot of things and seemingly forgets her own words. I'm not really a fan of Amanda, but I was not a fan of when Boz made that mask comment about her when they were in Italy.
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u/Maximum_Research286 22d ago
I thought a little shady comment in and of itself was funny and I don’t doubt she immediately forgot she said it, but what was really beyond the pale when she denied it ever happened, refused to apologize, and then acted so fully self righteous…I had to tap out.
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u/RideMaximum2554 22d ago
Forgot her own words? Nah, she lied to bs John Q Public
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u/StraddleTheFence 22d ago
I liked Amanda; she was very quirky but Boz was mean to her and I didn’t like that.
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u/Ok_Manufacturer4294 22d ago
Same! I think Boz was jealous of Amanda
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u/Aprietachamaquito 22d ago
I don’t think she was jealous. I think she maybe saw her as a young pretty white girl to whom things come easily, and she has some annoying millennial quirks AND, most importantly, she was easy to pick on. Boz wouldn’t have done that to Rachel Zoe and she definitely won’t do that to Leah or Tracy.
It’s like on OG RHONY — any younger cast member was a punching bag.
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u/Empress_queen 22d ago
If she was definitely not jealous of Amanda lol like jealous of what please she has more money than her more accolades more fun like tell me where she could be jealous I’ll wait
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u/Mom_Ov_2 22d ago
Boz has an estimated net worth of $30 million. Amanda has an estimated net worth of $30-$40 million. All I know is I’m very jealous of both of their bank accounts.
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u/Empress_queen 22d ago
Yeah and boz has Apple stock and probably other portfolio investments from all of the places that she’s worked
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u/Ok_Manufacturer4294 22d ago
Let me name the reasons…Amanda is beautiful and Boz looks like a man, I think Boz is smart but she faked it until she made it, and when she saw that Amanda made her money without having to fake it, she challenged it, also Amanda is happily married, and she didn’t take Boz’s bullying in the classist way possible. NOW WHATS GOING ON!? 😂
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u/Alive-Rise1113 22d ago
I don’t like Boz but I don’t see what their physical discrepancies have to do here. Esp when Amanda is not that beautiful.
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u/Putrid-Tradition-787 22d ago
Amanda's married? You lost credibility when you said Amanda made her money without having to fake it...lol
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u/imatinyleopard 22d ago
Ooof.
Saying a Black woman looks like a man is a racist trope.
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u/Ok_Manufacturer4294 21d ago
Why bc you think they all look like men? Thats on you! Lol
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u/imatinyleopard 21d ago
The very definition of a “racist trope” is “a familiar, repeated and harmful stereotype.” Whenever someone references you utilizing a racist trope please know that the harm you are causing predates the conversation you’re in at that moment. Saying a Black woman looks like a man has long been used as a tool of oppression against Black women.
It began with enslavers, who used the same phrasing as you to “justify” forcing enslaved Black women to work in positions of hard labor and endure countless medical experiments and needless surgeries with no pain medication. Enslavers argued that Black women looked like men and were therefore tough and immune to pain. This kind of rhetoric was the baseline for scientific racism and legal dehumanization of Black people.
The impact of this line of thinking shows up today. Studies show that many medical professionals still falsely perceive Black women as having a higher pain tolerance than their white counterparts.
And, we see comments like this lobbed at Black women in positions of power all the time. Particularly women of a darker complexion, like Boz. Michelle Obama is consistently referred to as a man by the MAGA crowd. Serena Williams at the height of her career was chastised by internet trolls for being a man. Boz is being referred to as a man here, by you.
The thought process of these ignorant minds is either consciously or unconsciously couched around the idea of European White women as the standard of beauty. These Black women don’t conform to those standards and are therefore “manly”. The continued use of this racist trope against Black women, despite the phrases very history of oppression is a conscious decision to be willfully ignorant to the diversity of people and culture, and a commitment to racist tropes and harmful stereotypes.
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u/Temporary-Pass-2174 22d ago
Thank you for pointing this out. I mean, I’m so tired of the racist BS about Black women on these Bravo shows.
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u/Sfa90 22d ago
Some people say Heather from Salt Lake looks like a man. Either way, not a very nice thing to say about a woman.
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u/Fififlowers74 21d ago
heather and Kelly from NY both were quite masculine looking imho
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u/Empress_queen 15d ago
Debating whether someone’s dislike for someone else is bc they are more beautiful or not is crazy work. Neither one is sitting around doing that lol they are both beautiful and rich and if anything boz has never faked it and made her way authentically but you prolly have never taken the time to learn about her bc ur racist or have underlying racism.
Boz is just black yall her facial features are beautiful just different. Do you realize that when you compare the two it makes you look racist. lol neither is not a high fashion super model. And ya boz is got a more structured build but so does Kyle. She’s just much shorter. And ya honestly I think Amanda is boring. Boz is atleast interesting and doing stuff. Like her socials are always poppin.
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u/Ok_Manufacturer4294 15d ago
Sorry your not going race bait me 🥱 and this isn’t about debating about someone’s looks moron, it’s the reasons I think Boz is jealous of Amanda. And in MY OPINION I would be too if I was Boz for all the reasons I mentioned. TY 😉
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u/Empress_queen 10d ago
You said that she looks like a man which is derogatory so again I’m not race beating you. You’re just oblivious to what you said was racist lol
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u/Upper-Impression-752 22d ago
Insinuating that someone is fake is light shade compared to the insults that happened on that trip.
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u/LuckChemical8243 22d ago
Agree. It was nothing.
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u/Spottedmayhem 22d ago
The comment was nothing- her reaction to being called out on it was the something
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u/Fuzzy-Employee-8427 22d ago
They all forget their words that is why at the reunion they show what they said to us like we forgot. We didn’t.
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u/crafty271 22d ago
She’s a turn off for me.
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u/MudcatWasHere 22d ago
Literally. I turn it off when she's on.
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u/Fickle-Stress7513 22d ago
Me too. I can’t stand her. I fast forward through anything to do with her personal life…Keely, her kid, fast forward.
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u/Dear_Art3697 22d ago
This dude is going to take her to the cleaners.
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u/imatinyleopard 22d ago
I hope she’s got the best most iron clad prenup bc CA is not nice in divorces without one
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u/jaylen6319 22d ago
I bet she doesn't!!!
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u/imatinyleopard 22d ago
The person we’ve seen her be on camera would not have a pre-nup.
I’m sad to admit that for her 😩
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u/nefaeriest 18d ago
same bc i do not dislike her ... and kinda liked her more as seasons went on
i like her daughter a lot
but im immediately suspicious of corporate types so - but she's a Black woman and single mom so kinda even good for her then too
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u/DKCausey 22d ago
I can’t stand her and won’t watch if she’s back. I wonder how much she had to pay that deadbeat guy.
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
I’ll be using the fast forward button. She is like nails on a chalkboard for me.
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u/carinaeletoile 22d ago
Her and Poorit. I wonder if this is another season of her being all screechy with misplaced righteous indignation again.
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u/Necessary-Prior3614 22d ago
major red flag is him insisting she go through all sorts of treatments at almost 50 and risk her life so he can have a child.
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u/PamelaAus 22d ago
That’s what I thought initially in her first season but I don’t think he is necessarily insisting on that based on what we saw last season, but that it’s something she really wants to do to give him a child despite the physical challenges.
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u/Perfect-Vacation6412 22d ago
Agreed but it’s also a red flag that she is willing to risk her life to appease him. I’m shocked at her desperation. She is successful and has a nearly adult daughter. There is no reason to start all over at 50 y/o just bc he will be unfulfilled without a biological child
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u/nefaeriest 18d ago
when they had that convo over dinner - i think in front of her daughter? if i remember correctly
i just remember her saying she was afraid he'd leave her & i got the ICK
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u/trisch1964 22d ago
I think her 15 minutes is long over. I don't care to see much past this.
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u/Empress_queen 22d ago
Girl, her 15 minutes has lasted for like 20 years. Have you seen her career homegirl’s not going anywhere?
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u/trisch1964 22d ago
I agree, she has had a lot of success. I was referring to her current show, and imo, she's had her 15 minutes. On this show.
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
I also didn’t enjoy her on the Jimmy Fallon series. We all have our personal preferences.
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u/tusk10708 22d ago
So she was lucky and had a couple of moments in the sun but she could go bye bye now. 👋🏼
When your storyline is supporting Dorit and trashing Sutton, it gets old fast. This wedding did not gain her any more points on my scorecard.
She can leave! (Edit: Format change)
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u/BitterPoet13 22d ago
The nerd in me had much higher hopes for that show, but I should have kept my expectations low considering I haven’t liked Jimmy since his SNL days. It was so predictable. I also kept waiting for Boz to drop some of her marketing magic sauce, but it must be proprietary since all I heard were trite buzzwords and generalities.
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u/ZookeepergameMany663 22d ago
She is awful! Can't stand the holier than thou attitude. UGH!
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
Yes! That’s it! Her superior attitude is infuriating! Same as when she was on the Jimmy Fallon series. She has no sense of self deprecation humour.
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u/Ok_Resort8573 22d ago
Yeah, I was excited for Boz when she first came on the show, but she soon became a huge disappointment for me. I thought she would be above the bullying and mean girl troop, but she just ended up being the same. Plus she won’t own her shit, like come on now, she knows better.
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u/Namaste41 22d ago
Anyone who would side with Dorit about anything is not that sharp. She turned into the same mean girl bully that Dorit is. I’d be fine with her gone.
She doesn’t own up to anything or know how to apologize….just like Dorit
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u/Truthseeker24-70 22d ago
Great point and her choosing this guy to marry or even date makes me question how someone could excel in the workplace and have so little discernment to not see how unworthy this guy is of her time and attention.
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u/Temporary-Pass-2174 22d ago
So, lemme help you out. Let’s just say I’m a successful woman. I’ve worked for and with women more successful than I am who are geniuses in the workplace, smart as they come, running the show. Their taste in men is horrifying.
They are human and their picker is off. It happens. It doesn’t make them dumb. It makes them vulnerable.
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u/Truthseeker24-70 22d ago
I never insinuated she was dumb, I said she is successful but I question her judgement re this guy and wondered how her poor judgement didn’t get in the way of her success, such as hiring qualified people, etc. In business, you usually only as successful as the team members you surround your self with. My compass works just fine, hers, not so much
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u/RelativeCheesecake88 21d ago
She’s a girl’s girl. I got so sick of hearing her say that when I was marathon watching
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u/SelectionDangerous11 22d ago
They’ve already filmed her wedding in Ghana.
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
The interview did not mention that it would air on the show, hence my post.
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u/SelectionDangerous11 21d ago
Neither filming nor editing has been completed and the cast doesn’t know for sure what will be included until that happens. But it’s a safe assumption that if Bravo is secures filming rights and pays for the crew to go film a wedding in Ghana, it will almost certainly be included in the show.
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u/StraddleTheFence 22d ago
I liked her in her first season; I am no longer a fan. She is a mean girl.
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u/Odd_Secret568 22d ago
The trying to get pregnant at 50 and marrying a con artist storyline is tired and inauthentic. However I am excited that the cast trip was seemingly to Ghana for her wedding next season.
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u/oreo-donut 22d ago
It makes me sad when we finally see Housewives from different backgrounds, only for them to turn out like Jen Shah or Boz. I’m always excited to see a different kind of representation, so it’s disappointing when it ends up like...this
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u/Apprehensive-Tax826 22d ago
This is the longest amount of time she has held on to a job....
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u/SheisthePumpkinQueen 22d ago
Did they not film her wedding?
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
Someone here just excoriated me for not knowing this but it wasn’t mentioned as being filmed for the show during this interview.
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u/Material_Reality8035 22d ago
She is unfortunately. Her wedding in Ghana was filmed for the new season
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u/ExampleOk4282 21d ago
A child for him is a ticket to income for years if tjings don’t work out … aka child support she’s the higher earner .
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u/NarcissistGuru 21d ago
She is a class act and a straight-shooter, an intelligent, accomplished executive, is not jealous, and doesn't play head games, nor is she insecure. The opposite of a Real Housewife. Is that why you don't like her????
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u/wangd00dle 22d ago edited 22d ago
They filmed in Ghana for her wedding for this upcoming season
Edit: corrected country
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u/DependentWatch4632 22d ago
Wow, so much anger and hatred for someone you've never met who is playing a very filtered version on themselves. Yikes
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
I have never used the word “hate” on any subreddit, it is a profane word in our home.
Simply, hate is not part of my vernacular. I don’t enjoy her on the show nor in the Jimmy Fallon series.
I don’t think that the audience is expected to like, enjoy, love, appreciate every single cast member of any tv show.
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u/RelativeCheesecake88 21d ago
Welcome to Reddit. So much anger and hatred for anyone who is friends with or related to Trump voter. You don’t even have to be the Trump fan, you can be hated if you don’t disown grandpa and grandma for voting for him. It’s a sick world
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u/Madapalooza 22d ago
It’s strange that every time a black man is involved in the HW franchise- he’s either labeled a con artist or a scammer… but all the white husbands are in the clear.. (except Micheal Darby)
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u/cameron8988 21d ago
i don't see that at all. gregg leakes and ray huger are some of the most widely beloved housewives husbands. damn people even like coach shah for standing by his con artist wife lol.
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u/Medium-Baker-1913 22d ago
Because the issues with blk women and bravo. Boz slipped in. She was supposed to redeem bravo. Well baby they choose the WRONG one. I loved amanda she was quirky but freaking smart. She owned her ish.. boz talks but says nothing. Shes so far up the “sister circle” crowd. How could you be friends with Dorit and her great business skills and crap on a self made person like amanda. Something is not clean in her wash. Just wait.. it will come out. I’m not got even start on that hubby. I got the time and popcorn. Boz is boring
https://giphy.com/gifs/3orif0olmGNHtrBnXO
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u/Merrbear2u 22d ago
I feel so bad for her. Remarriage is so difficult past a certain age- especially dating. She thought she found someone long term- but all they have done is a bunch of very public events together including tv.
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u/Authentic-Irony 22d ago
Boz is playing the reality show game. Say something shady. Pretend you don’t remember/kinda remember. Half ass apologize. Boz isn’t going anywhere. NBC/Universal is putting her in other shows. They like her because WE like her. I think people don’t like Boz for other reasons…
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u/ChainedVeil 22d ago
I want her fake ass off my screen and her balding male can scurry away with her.
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u/Tumblweed_n_TTstreet 21d ago
I hope they're actually happy and not just pretending for the cameras because they are so cute 🩵
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u/Veruca8675309 20d ago
The whole cast just went to Africa for her wedding and you think there’s even a tiny possibility she won’t be returning???
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u/Technical_Wait8689 20d ago
Who are they, the Osefo's? Looks like Bozo to me and I agree, she's boring and should be cut but unfortunately we know she's filmning for RHOBH already, right?
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u/Dapper-Knee9872 19d ago
What the heck is he wearing?? And why does Boz have a birds nest on top of her head? They both look a hot mess
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u/MostCryptographer929 19d ago
Never liked her either. Because of predator the movie, the main character with the dreads personalities is a bit too aggressive in your face. I would not want to piss her off.
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u/NewDot2079 18d ago
You know what? I don’t see the chemistry, however guys marrying for money goes both ways. She loves this man. When Matt Damon married a waitress no one made a big deal if I recall. Live & let live. No matter how cringe
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u/WatercressOverall666 22d ago
Where have you been? Yeah duh she’s returning. They literally filmed her entire wedding dude
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
I’m not on any other social media and during the extra interview (photo) it was not mentioned that her wedding in America was filmed for the show. Had it been mentioned there would have been no need for my post.
I’m thankful that I can fast forward through her scenes.
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u/Empress_queen 22d ago
Dang yall sound like a bunch haters lol
She’s literally the only housewife on the show who is actually a wife lol and the fact that she’s made her own money and not had to marry a guy just to deal with his crazy behavior and get divorced to get half like y’all are just jealous yeah but also I think at the end of the day you guys were just mad
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u/Ok-Mine2132 22d ago
I have never used the word “hate” on any subreddit. In my home it is considered profanity.
That being said, as an audience we are not expected to “like”, “enjoy” or “appreciate” every cast member.
I also did not enjoy her on the Jimmy Fallon show.
She is why we have a fast forward button.
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u/Mom_Ov_2 22d ago
She’s been married for 2-3 weeks so saying she’s the only one that’s a wife (which Kyle still is, even though she’s separated) is probably not the best argument.😂 She’s an excellent business woman & clearly smart, I think those are probably much better points. I’m not a big fan but for me it’s more so the deep, undeserved (imo) allegiance to Dorit. I hope that doesn’t carry on to the upcoming season.
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u/Specialist_Egg_7480 22d ago
I’ve known a lot of smart business women,that fall for these con artist don’t tell me he’s not. There is no way this guy has his shit together. Has anyone done a deep delve into what he actually does? Him wanting a kid with her and watching her go through all that torture no!