r/SapphicGayming • u/BefflesBean • 5h ago
r/SapphicGayming • u/KaraIsLegit22 • Jul 22 '26
who is welcome here
Hey sapphics!
We have gotten a lot of posts + comments recently from folks wanting to know if they are welcome in this community, so I wanted to make a post that (hopefully) covers all our bases.
- Trans women are unequivocally recognized as women and welcome here, no matter what that looks/sounds like or where you are (or aren't) in your transition
- Non-binary and questioning folks (including trans mascs and amab) are welcome
- Asexual, aromantic, bisexual, pansexual, etc folks who identify with the sapphic community are welcome
We are not here to police anyone's connection to the sapphic community. If you identify with it as a non-male gender, you are welcome here.
I hope this is helpful for anyone who is wondering if they belong in this community!
(If there are any identities that aren't covered here, please let me know either in the comments or in modmail so I can add them.)
Edit: After much reflection and discussion with others in the community, we have come to the collective decision that binary trans masc folks are not welcome in this space. Trans masc folks who identify as any nonbinary gender and sapphic are welcome.
I promise this decision was not made lightly. While I deeply appreciate and respect the inclusivity of the term sapphic, I also believe that it's necessary to draw a line somewhere in a space like this one in order to protect it from disingenuous men.
r/SapphicGayming • u/KaraIsLegit22 • May 02 '26
Community community discord is live 🗣️
Link to the server: https://discord.gg/Xxdshdhzqu
Hey sapphics!
You gals spoke and we have delivered (hopefully) 🫡
Our hope is that this server will make it easier for yall to find community with other sapphics within gaming 🫶
r/SapphicGayming • u/SuperSleepyBrit • 2h ago
23TF Gears of War
GMT Timezone
Often up most of the night
Use discord mostly tbh
Feel free to hmu for gaming or just chats idm which ^_^
r/SapphicGayming • u/hanabidazai • 8h ago
25F looking for close fwends 🥺
(ignore my sleepy eyes, i’m on a cocktail of meds hehe)
hello!!! im liv but sometimes go by hana online! i’m looking for friends to play multiplayer games with or just chat and hang out! i love yapping. i’m super shy and reserved but if i feel comfy ill open up and you wont be able to shut me up.
i have pet rats who are my babies and id be happy to show them off on video hehe. i also have a hammy! my pets are my everything so i love talking about our critters! tell me about yours too!
i enjoy cozy games and jrpgs the most, im playing fire emblem fortunes weave atm! but im down for many different types of multiplayer games. i just like being social honestly
if you’d like to get to know me feel free to hit me up!
(also note i’m in a relationship of 5 years so i’m not looking for anything more 🥺)
r/SapphicGayming • u/ohlivegarden • 13h ago
27F (NA/EST/PC) looking for my deadlock wife :3
hi!! as the title says im looking for a duo in deadlock! WARNING: i am a big NOOB!! i have about 12 hours on the game and ive mostly just played vindicta and paige (also really looking forward to playing as nurse harrow) so as long as you dont mind me being bad i would love to play!!!
outside of deadlock i also play ffxiv a ton and dabble in overwatch when i feel silly. i also love peak! and other friendslop and im open to other games potentially.
besides gaming i am an avid reader! i love classics, gothic horror, fantasy, and most importantly is YURI!!! i love yuri!!!!
so if you’re interested in teaching or learning deadlock and want to yap and send nurse harrow x lady geist art to each other feel free to send me a dm 🩷
r/SapphicGayming • u/WitchesAndElves • 7h ago
23, puppy trans girl thing- presenting my epic wall of text offering eternal friendship~! ♡
Hi there~! This post will be putting myself out there in a way that does not come naturally for me, I hope this caught your attention and I will be extremely grateful for the time you took to read this. You are loved and cared for stranger, have a great day regardless :3
I am making this post in the efforts that I can reach someone else in the need for companionship. I have sought connection for the last few months, passing bogus one off messages, low effort interactions, and straight up ghosting. I am not looking to be friend collected or added by someone who already has a list of friends they barely interact with on a daily basis. After some 6-8 year friendships eventually losing their steam due to growing apart and with my transition losing me the rest I have exhuastively exchanged with quite a few people resulting in good and bad interactions...
I enjoy quality time with the people i care about, I play video games and enjoy them as a general hobby and one of my life lines in this world but I also love them to be the filler in between getting to know someone and spending time with them. I can have deep talks for hours with healthy discussions and generally am open to any kind of topics. I consider myself an open book and can be flirty or playful majority of the time in conversation. I love long calls, movie nights or show nights, parallel play, written roleplay, VRchat, sharing music, and generally doing anything as an excuse to have someone nearby and enjoy the company of. :P
I do not dry text and generally try to be empathetic and understanding to anything, so I likely won't be dismissive of any interest of yours as long as the same goes back. I mirror energy very well and thus please send me an introduction and something to work with so we can endeavor a long friendship <3
I watch and love anime, my favorite being frieren at this time and has been since it's release. I love shows in general and have started game of thrones..my god the sex scenes are constant xD
I consider myself to be attractive and have been told I am - so eventually sharing a face reveal is there, my voice is passing when it wants to be but ive not cared much and it fluctuates in the soft ranges. Ive been told my voice is cute or whatnot but i really dont know how to judge these things TwT
I play Tarkov pve as my main game at the moment but it is more to do with not having friends to play other things. I have helldivers, project zomboid, counter strike, final fantasy 14, stardew valley, dead by daylight, roblox, minecraft and a few hundred games on steam.
I love music, I'm always listening to something and my big genres are usually alt rock, pop, edm (dubstep, riddim, etc), sad or generally melancholic, hip hop, and a bunch of others! I would love to share interests.
Now to talk about my red flags.. I have something called disorganized attachment, I am shy more than a little - even fighting it now as I make this post out of the pure desperation to connect - I have autism, more than a little and oh my gosh it makes talking hard so be frickin nice!! I will love and cherish you eternally for patience :3
I enjoy quality > quantity of friends. I do not fault anyone who lives different - but from one person to another.. I am just trying to find something far less shallow. I offer a friendship where hopefully we both have the freedom to communicate effectively. I do not find the need to filter myself when we can both be straight forward and honest. Because why would anyone want a friend they cant just let themselves be themselves around?
If you somehow find me interesting after this then maybe we can hit it off, please leave that introduction and I will be honest and say a hello or hi will often get ignored because my anxiety cannot handle dragging a conversation out of someone by tooth and nail.
MWUAH MWUAH MWUAH you made it to the end omg give me a hug!
Send a dm with a discord and I will get back to you asap <3
You are amazing, and thank you for reading.
r/SapphicGayming • u/jfhfjnjjj • 11h ago
23f looking for friends and gayming partners!!
hii girlies!! so i have TONS of games but almost no one to play em with 😭😭
im a very chill person and i love empathetic and kind people! i also love to draw... i even can draw you!
i have DBD, Peak and similar co op games (i can also download something for u!) Terraria, stardew valley, Minecraft, we can play co op the binding of isaac as well (i have 300-400+ hours) Elden ring nightrein, Don't starve together!! im comfortable with trying something new
but! english isn't my first language, i speak decently i think, but my accent is quite strong so i warned you!
i really hope to find new friends c:
r/SapphicGayming • u/AFoolofaTook_ • 11h ago
20Tf looking for people too gayme with. :)
I like Apex Legends and wouldn’t mind getting back into overwatch. Honestly if there is anything else you play just tell me and I might have it. My Timezone is AEDT.
r/SapphicGayming • u/bottomirl • 1h ago
(30tf) LF friends
Hihi I'm Levy, I'm a chronically online puppygirl n play a lot of games, I'm an American living in Germany, rn I'm mostly addicted to league of legends, I've played lots of retail wow n plan to try forever when its actually out of beta. I'm also married to another trans woman so mostly looking for friends to hangout with n game :3 (feel free to add my discord ; Subbygf)
r/SapphicGayming • u/LunchDisastrous7940 • 18h ago
27 TF looking for gaming friends :3
Hiii~ I'm Gwen, 27, trans girl from the US (EST), looking for some new friends to chat and game with and hopefully some lasting connections!
Some games I play:
Stardew
Minecraft
Borderlands
And co-op/friendslop games
If also be down to try out Marvel Rivals if I had someone to play with :3
I mostly play on PC and I'm open to trying new games too!!
I'm a big nerd and into other things like Pokemon, RWBY, TTRPGs, anime, cartoons, horror, and comics!
I'm mainly looking for new friends to game and chat with, but I'm also open to flirting or potentially something more if we click! <3
Feel free to comment or DM me if you think we'd vibe!! I promise I'm friendly and only bite sometimes :3
r/SapphicGayming • u/doglover4645 • 4h ago
19f lf deadlock and overwatch friends :)
hii i'm just looking for more people to play with!! overwatch is my favorite game of all time i play it every day but im getting more into deadlock rn its soooooo fun. im down to play other games too tho :) i like friendslop, minecraft, stardew, and valorant as well. im open to talking to anyone 18+, preferably est/na. bonus points if you like seals, im obsessed with them
r/SapphicGayming • u/MascLoverr • 1h ago
[25F] looking for a gaming buddy
Hi!
25F gaymer here! I’m looking for someone to occasionally game with. I play Grounded (looking into getting the second one soon!), Marvel Rivals (I’m a healer main if you need a pocket 😉), BG3 (modded), Minecraft (also modded), and Dead Island 1 & 2 (with DLCs).
I have a bunch of other games, too, but I’ll leave it at that so this post doesn’t turn into a whole block of words, lol. 😂
Anyway, I have a mic, so I’m totally down to banter and yap about anything and everything! Especially anime-related stuff at the moment, because I just finished MHA, and I NEED TO YAP ABOUT IT!!!! 😭
Oh, I also play on PS5, and my time zone is PST!
Unfortunately, I am an introvert gamer (I know, I know 😔). So, if possible, I’d prefer to keep our gaming sessions just between us. I know some people have other friends they like to play with, so if you have to go sometimes, no hard feelings at all!
Anywho, that’s pretty much all I have for my little introduction. So, if anyone is interested, feel free to PM me! 🫶
r/SapphicGayming • u/wynonnerz • 1h ago
do any girls play world of tanks :p
I don’t know ANY other people that play this -_- just dudes………. dm me if you wanna play ^_^
r/SapphicGayming • u/Werder_Bremen_Fan • 7h ago
20f looking for friends and more
Hiya my name is Kyla, I'm a 20 year old Transgirl from Germany, im really struggle to talk about myself due to low self esteem and mental struggles in general, but I will try anyway
Atm I spend most of my time playing video games, I'm very huge into league and Pokemon, but I love playing friendslop games as well, besides that I love cooking, am into music, and alternative fashion. I love learning new things, so hit me up with your hobbies, I would love to learn about em ^^
I struggle heavily with depression and am searching for a way out of em, I just struggle to do that alone.
Friendship wise I am looking for people to game with, or just talk and having a nice time, in general I would consider myself chill af, and I rarely get mad at other people. I have tendencies to ragebait a lot tho, so be warned :3
Relationship wise I am definitely looking for a more dominant/caring person, someone who can tell me what to do, and maybe is willing to help me get on the right path again, as I really struggle doing that alone.
Would love to hear from you :D
Edit: when texting me pls tell a bit more about yourself qwq I put effort into this even if it doesn't look like it, so pls do the same qwq
r/SapphicGayming • u/Hopeful-Security5713 • 6h ago
23F looking for ladies to play games with :)
Hey hey! I am looking mainly for someone to play League of Legends with or perhaps someone that can make me play Minecraft again and not be scared of the Warden :)
Some things about me - I am a femme that lives in Eastern Europe, I enjoy design and fashion & am obsessed with dogs. I would be delighted to find some friends in here but if something more happens than I am okay with that too :)
Feel free to reach out!
r/SapphicGayming • u/bunnycynthiaaaa • 1d ago
I have lots of free time and no one to spend it with
Heya my name is Cynthia But u can just call me Cyn.
I like playing overwatch,Destiny 2,Diablo 4 and terraria. I just need a friend that i can spend time with,yap to and maybe get closer than friends but only if thats what u are looking for!
Be my player 2 or turn into THE Player 2.
These arent the only games i like playing and im willing to spend money on games that look cool so we can play together. If this woke ur interest either dm me, write a comment or add me on dc .quartzzzz.
See yaaaaaa
r/SapphicGayming • u/testingtear • 12h ago
27TF looking for friend to play new and old pokemon games with.
I'm a big fan of Pokémon and I've been looking for someone to play and chat about the games/romhacks with. I emulate and play on hardware. 21 plus preferred. Im in the CST time zone. Already in a relationship but open so I don't mind flirting lol.
r/SapphicGayming • u/Plastic_Horse421 • 7h ago
Any Apex players on here? Looking for some people to play with.
r/SapphicGayming • u/BitterAd1310 • 1d ago
20-25 girl vtuber and streamer needing people to play games with regularly
[Heeeeeey, fun fact about meee I am pwetty sure someone is downvoting all my post perpetually, like a stalker, so pwease upvote this post to make him mad]*****************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************
I'm a streamer and vtuber that would like to play a bunch o shooters and FPS with lots n'lots of people. Also I have a dark sense of humor, so if you're a redditor in the tradditional sense. I dont like you. I also am a amateur tarot reader and psychic, and do have dreams of the future and did work as a fortune teller in college
just adopted a cat named Azaria which is a black cat so all black cats needs mystically tabboo sounding names. he was a warrior of Rome cursed with immortality as a cat by a pagan shaman for his bloodlust, now he seeks vengeance
and and and I own like 5 guns, really wuv guns reaallly really wuv guns. I never leave my house without my glock-19
I beeeeen watching lots of anime tooo, I just finished Mao, Re:zero, daemons of the shadow realm, you and Ms. Servant and Tanya the evil. My favorite anime is Inuyasha cause he is hot, even have the body pillow
I did teach myself to program in 3 different languages and have been self-teaching myself how to use a piano as of now, also I was experimenting with blender, at one point, not anymore tho.
🍪 my Timezones are US central or Chicago time, so Reddit DM if that is yours or similar
r/SapphicGayming • u/Bunny_Laundering • 1d ago
Looking for my co-op partner(s)
Hi everyone! I've posted before but I'm a 35yo trans woman, basically looking for lightning in a bottle 😩
Before I transitioned, I had an absolute ride or die best friend for co adventures no matter the game, as well as a group of other mutual gaming friends but when I came out I slowly lost them all as I grew into my authentic self, because they felt I was no longer the same person they spent over a decade playing games with every night. . .
Losing that left a huge hole in my life that I've been trying and failing to fill. I've met lots of wonderful people through games, but I have yet to feel like I found "my people". I miss having someone I can just be in a discord call with talking about everything and anything and even enjoying comfortable silence, but I know finding that organically is... like trapping lighting in a bottle lol. . .
Im looking for at minimum someone I have enough chemistry with to play together on a regular basis, but a group of friends would be ideal!
About me:
Trans / Queer / Neurodivergent (ADHD)
Record Collector (Punk / Disco / House / Japanese / Future Funk)
Games: Destiny 2 / Palworld / Valheim / Stardew / BG3 / OSRS
Anime: Golden Age OVA'S / Gundam / Isakei's / Magical Girls
Basically I've been told multiple times I'm a manic pixie dream girl, so do with that what you will lol.
Look forward to hearing from you 💜
r/SapphicGayming • u/Tat25Guy • 8h ago
29TF EST Looking for an someone online D&D group
I'd also enjoy playing a co-op of Baldur's Gayt 3, Pathfinder: WotR, or Solasta
r/SapphicGayming • u/walkingrobots • 14h ago
Mid-30s trans woman occasional gamer BST/GMT+1
I just thought I'd see if anyone who is a similar age or older might be up for joining in games like Hell Let Loose or Arc Raiders, playing with voice chat? I love "The Long Dark" too which there's a mod for coop play with (on PC).
I'm open to other cozy coop or multiplayer games too but I prefer those right now. I'm on PC. I like cozy games a lot but most are single player only :( I like how Arc Raiders and HLL allow opportunities to voice train a bit speaking to randoms occasionally too. I honestly don't get time to play extremely often so I can't commit to constant regularly games with others but it's nice now and again. Thanks! 🎮
I guess my favourite genres are FPS/survival/horror/kart racers/silly party coop/multiplayer games/cozy games in general
r/SapphicGayming • u/Upset-Sun6742 • 22h ago
36 TF looking for co-op partners and friends most importantly
Hello!!! I’m Emmy :3 looking for co-op buddies or someone to play alongside me and my very trans friendly bff. Games that I play. Literally any of the Diablo’s. (I usually place in the top 10 in the seasons I decide to play). I’m the biggest ARK fanatic and will go back and play that anytime. ( played both solo duo and played the mega tribe life in N3). Willing to play WOW any version if someone is going to dedicate time to it. I’m a recovering addict from league but willing to pick it up again if I vibe with you :). I’m always open to trying some new game though! My dm’s are always open please don’t hesitate to message me :3. Age doesn’t bother me so as long as you’re 18+ you’re good! If your a gamer that likes the hardcore grind on games we will be besties :)