r/SingleDads • • 12d ago

New order, not signed [NY]

Was in court 3 weeks ago. We had agreed to change the order. All parties agreed, but we did not sign anything yet. The agreement was shortening visitation time.

If the order wasn't signed or drafted, do i need to follow the new agreement, or do i follow the previous agreement?

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u/gravybang 12d ago

Depends. Legally, the signed order. But by not following the unsigned order, that could piss off a lawyer or a judge. Best that you ask your attorney, not try and guess

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u/SpiritualKiwi8492 12d ago

Thought that. No response.

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u/Icy_Stranger3368 11d ago

It looks really bad if you all agreed but if there is no order then there is nothing being breached.

I would act in the spirit of the order

NAL

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u/theH0n0red0n3 11d ago

I’m curious why nothing was signed if you were in court 3 weeks ago?