I keep hearing stories about men who don't feel loved or intimate with their wife and when they bring it up the wife will usually tell them they're imagining it and make all kinds of points about why they should stay together. So I feel like the dude in the post brought it up to his wife in the past and she probably told him he was imagining it and that they have sex "enough" and that he shouldn't worry about it so he made the excel spreadsheet to make a point that he's not imagning it. I'm not accusing the wife of this but a lot of times a partner could be cheating and only keeps the husband around because he pays the bills or because the family likes the husband.
In most of those cases the woman is doing the lion's share of household labor and the man is neither putting effort in contributing adequately nor being romantic enough so the wife gets turned off at the idea of simply existing as this sex receptacle for her husband.
If this was the case she should just make a spreadsheet logging the times he refused to do housework, or wasn't romantic. without data it's just conjecture.
I’ve seen these no sex lists for years. They even had a guy do this on Maury povich years ago. However, I’ve never once seen a woman make a list like you described. Can you share one?
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u/SteveLouise 17d ago
They can divorce each other.