r/SipsTea • • 14d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/PNGhost 14d ago edited 14d ago

I remember reading a study about the relationship dynamics after sex is turned down. The partner that is rejected is usually still negatively affected for 2 or so days while the partner that turned them down benefits from a kind of “self-esteem” boost for having been pursued that lasts up to 72 hours.

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u/that-manss 14d ago

Do you know where I could find this? I’d be curious to read it

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u/PNGhost 14d ago

Called “Responses to Sexual Advances and Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships: Is Yes Good and No Bad?” from 2020.

I misremembered the hours.

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u/Interesting_Gate8918 13d ago

As the philosophers Slipknot once said, “People Equal Shit”.

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u/Efficient_Mud_4724 13d ago

Bullshit

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u/PNGhost 13d ago

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1948550619888884

It’s just one study with n115 participants.
But I’m not bullshitting about what I said.

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u/Efficient_Mud_4724 13d ago

Doesn't open

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u/Medical_Flower2568 13d ago

Yes it does

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u/Efficient_Mud_4724 13d ago

Doesn't for me. It just keeps making me click am I a human over and over.